I'm depressed. :(

So I come on here because intellectual pursuits make me feel better, and people like Adam actually just make me feel worse.

What's a man to do?

- Warren

DON'T LOOK AT PORNOGRAPHY!!!

Well I'm learning about the dark ages, after doing a simple google image search on that identical field. I've been reading too much beowulf, which has intrigued me beyond measure into the time period.

Listen to some good classical music. Watch The Empire Strikes Back. NOW!!

Why do you think you're depressed? Dideth something go awry? Harken to mine ears with thine lips!

What's wrong with Adam? Is he too smart, or does he crush everyones dreams???

Ne siveris te ab improbis evinci.

Noli sinere te ab improbis superari.

Vide ne improbi te evincant.


:)

nice to see you come outta your shell. adam is actually a pretty nice guy.
give this place some time and dont be too quick to form opinions or place to much importance on the opinions of others
confidence issues is something your gonna have to deal by yourself.
did you move out here recently? from va?

no need to cuss q

Qualis vir, talis oratio



;)

Well, my life is just in shambles right now. I have a tendency to hide from my problems... I like to quash my emotions whenever possible.

I moved to the bay area from Virginia about a year ago. I have been more or less unhappy ever since. I've had a lot of trouble meeting people around here, probably because I'm not a very nice person. I confuse myself, actually. Some people see one side of me -- I'm gentle, a good listener, a good friend, everything. Some people get the other side of me, even when I don't intend to treat them that way.

I was with a girl for 2 1/2 years. I loved her, but she annoyed the shit out of me, so I broke it off about six months after I moved here. She also moved here, and now lives in San Francisco. Yes.. we still see each other some.

My job sucks. It isn't rewarding at all, and doesn't present any challenges that I want. So far four out of the eight people in my group have either been fired or have quit, including my boss.

I can't meet women here to save my life, it seems, in STARK contrast to my frat-boy lifestyle back in college. I've dated a few girls here that I've met through friends, but wasn't actually interested in any of them. The only girl who seems to actually like me for who I am is my ex, and I don't know if I can stand another go at a relationship with her.

I'm very active, mainly because it helps me forget about how lonely I am. I'm working on my pilot's license, I dive like a madman in Carmel, I rock climb, I play guitar. I unfortunately do most of those things alone, since no one wants to do any of them with me.

I spend nearly all of my time alone these days, simply because I guess I'm just not good at making friends or something. I never thought of myself as being such a social outcast.

I think I need to get out of this place. :( Obviously I'm so pathetic that I'm trying to get consolation from random people on a science forum.

- Warren

Obviously I'm so pathetic that I'm trying to get consolation from random people on a science forum.

I do it all the time in here so dont beat yourself up. It seems like I have to stay lonely, or be with me ex who irritates the shit out of me also. Im picking the loneliness. Try reading, it makes the time go by faster.

But dont worry, someone will come your way:)

strgrl,

I've really, truly given up on the girlfriend situation. I don't need one, and there just aren't any girls out there for me. I can honestly say that I haven't met a girl YET who is even 75% right for me.

What I want are friends... just friends. I have a few people that I do things with -- I have an occassional dive buddy, and a little rock climbing group. But then I go home alone, and sit at home, alone.

- Warren

Warren, maybe you should move back to Virginia?

According to latest statistics from Fortune, 75% of college grads who moved to another city for job after graduation move back to home state within 1 year. 90% within 5 years. I am part of the 90%.

Don't fight the statistics.

It's tough to meet girls in the bay area. I know a lot of my co-workers went to UC-Berkeley to meet women :D Fortunately I brought my girlfriend with me to California after college, but unfortuantely she didn't want to go back to Minnesota with me so we broke up.

If I were you, I would consider going elsewhere and start over.

nahh
too soon to give up

i came to cali from mo in 90 armed with psych degree. still here . i though, am a coldhearted emotionless freak so nothing really bothers me

Warren:
Find a fuck buddy and find people to have interesting email/private message conversations with. Put Adam on your ignore list if must be, or better yet, taunt him.

When people get you down, ignore and torment them.

1) Try getting one real relationship with one good woman. You may discover something far superior to what you have thus far experienced.

2) Stop being so arrogant. It is a negative projection, creating a negative impression, which does you no good.

3) Stop blaming other people for internal problems. Feelings exist inside your mind, nowhere else. In there is the only place to deal with them, to work them out. External factors are not necessarily the deciding factors for what goes on inside your head.

Adam:

Try getting one real relationship with one good woman. You may discover something far superior to what you have thus far experienced.

Try some remedial reading classes and note where Warren described his old relationship.


I was with a girl for 2 1/2 years. I loved her, but she annoyed the shit out of me, so I broke it off about six months after I moved here. She also moved here, and now lives in San Francisco. Yes.. we still see each other some.

Then try not being such a fucking primate.

I consider all three suggestions good advice for the future, even for myself, and even for you. For everyone, really, regardless of their situation. If you can't see it, that's not really my problem.

Adam:

I consider all three suggestions good advice for the future, even for myself, and even for you. For everyone, really, regardless of their situation. If you can't see it, that's not really my problem.

I don't want a woman, Adam. And I don't want to have to listen to your attempts to annoy a potential "alpha male", either. Why don't you find some better way to release aggression than following Warren around making attempts at snide comments?

<i>"What's a man to do?"</i>

Uhm, he can always read a few dumb blonde jokes:



1. Why don't Blondes eat pickles?
Because they get their head stuck in the jar.

2. Why do Blondes wear underwear?
To keep their ankles warm.

3. Why don't Blondes like to make Kool-Aid?
They can't fit 8 cups of water in that little package.

4. What do Blondes and cow pies have in common?
The older they get, the easier they are to pick up.

5. Why do Blondes like tilt-steering?
More head room.

6. How does a Blond turn on the light after sex?
She opens the car door.

7. What do Blondes and turtles have in common?
Once they're on their backs, they're screwed.

8. What's the mating call of the Blonde?
I think I'm getting drunk!

9. What's the mating call of the Brunette?
Is that damned Blonde gone yet?

10. Why did the Blonde write TGIF on her shoes?
Toes Go In First.

11. Why do Blondes wash their hair in the kitchen sink?
That's where you wash vegetables, isn't it?

12. What's the advantage of being married to a Blonde?
You can park in the handicapped zone.

13. What does a Blonde do first thing in the morning?
She goes home.

14. Why does a Blonde put fur on the hem of her dress?
To keep her neck warm.

15. Why did the Blonde cross the road?
Never mind that - What's she doing out of the kitchen?

16. How do you make a Blonde laugh on Monday morning?
Tell her a joke on Friday.

17. What do you call a Brunette sitting between two Blondes?
An interpreter.

18. If a Blonde and a Brunette jump off a building at the same
time, who lands first?
The Brunette: the Blonde had to stop and ask directions.

19. A dumb Blonde, a smart Blonde and Santa Claus are walking
down the street. They see a dollar bill. Who picks it up
first?
The dumb Blonde. The other 2 don't exist.

20. What do you call a blonde with a flat chest?
Lonely!

21. Two Blondes were out walking when they came upon some tracks.
The first Blonde said, "Those look like deer tracks". The
second Blonde said, "No, they look like moose tracks". They
were still standing there arguing when the train hit them.

22. Why don't Blondes wear hoop earrings?
They keep getting their high heels caught in them.

23. What do peroxide Blondes and 747's have in common?
Black boxes.

24. What do Blondes and beer bottles have in common.
They're both empty from the neck up.

25. What is the only job a Blonde can do in an M&M factory?
Proof reading.

26. Why was the Blonde fired from the M&M factory?
For eating all the W's.

27. How do you keep a Blonde secretary busy?
Give her a bag of M&M's and tell her to put them in alphabetical
order.

28. Why don't Blondes get coffee breaks.
It takes too long to retrain them.

29. What do you do when a Blonde throws a grenade at you?
Pull the pin and throw it back.

30. How do you give a Blonde a brain transplant?
Blow in her ear.

31. How do you kill a Blonde?
Put spikes in her shoulder pads.

32. How do you make a Blondes eyes sparkle?
Shine a flashlight in her ear.

33. What do you call a zit on a Blonde's butt?
A brain tumor.

34. How can you tell when a Blonde has used your word processor?
By all the white out on the screen.

35. What do you call a Blonde with a buck on her head?
All you can eat for under a dollar.

36. What did the Blonde call her pet zebra?
Spot.

37. How is a Blonde like spaghetti?
They both squirm when you eat them.

38. How is a Blonde different from a 747?
Not everyone has been in a 747.

39. What's the difference between a Blonde and a Limousine?
Not everyone has been in a limo.

40. Why does a Blonde fan her face?
To recharge (her air supply)

41. What does a Blonde say when she finds she's pregnant?
"Are you sure it's mine?"

42. Why did the Blonde climb the chain link fence?
To see what was on the other side.

43. What do you call a blonde skeleton in the closet?
Last years hide and seek champ.

44. What do you call 6 dumb blondes standing closely side-by-side?
A wind tunnel.

45. What did the blonde say when she looked into a box of Cheerios?
"Oh look! Donut seeds!"

46. Why did the blonde stop using the pill?
It kept falling out.

47. Why don't blondes use vibrators?
They chip their teeth.

48. What do you call a blonde with half a brain?
Gifted!

49. What do you call it when a blonde dies her hair brunette?
Artificial Intelligence.

50. Why is it good to have a blonde passenger?
You can park in a handicapped zone.

51. Why do blondes wear shoulder pads?
(rock head side to side) I dunno!

52. How do you kll a blonde?
Put spikes in her shoulder pads.

53. Why don't blondes eat Jell-O?
They can't fit two cups of water in the little boxes.

54. Why do blondes wear green lipstick?
Because red means stop.

55. Why do blondes wear red lipstick?
Because red means "Stop, wrong hole."

56. What is the mating call of the brunette?
"All the blondes have left!"

57. What's the mating call of the redhead?
"Next!"

58. What does a blonde put behind her ears to make her more
attractive?
Her ankles.

59. What do you say to a blonde that won't give in?
"Have another beer."

60. What's the first thing a blonde does in the morning?
Introduces herself.

61. What's the second thing a blonde does in the morning?
Walks home.

62. What's the first thing a blonde does after sex?
Opens the car door.

63. What does a blonde say when you blow in her ear?
"Thanks for the refill!"

64. Why do blondes have more fun?
They don't know any better.

65. What's the difference between a blonde and a computer?
You only have to punch information into a computer once.

66. What do a blonde and a computer have in common?
You don't know how much either means to you until they go down
on you.

67. Why do blondes always die before help arrives?
They can't dial the 'eleven' in 911.

68. What did the blonde say when asked "ever been picked up by the
fuzz?"
"No, but I've been swung around by the tits."

69. Why do blonde girls have trouble achieving orgasm?
Who cares?

70. How do you drown a blonde?
Put a mirror on the bottom of the pool.

71. How does a blonde like her eggs?
Unfertilized.

72. Why did the blonde only change her baby's diapers monthly?
The box said "For 20 pounds."

73. What is the mating call of the ugly blonde?
"I said....I'M DRUNK!"

74. How does a blonde part her hair?
By doing the splits.

75. Why do blondes like tilt steering?
More head room.

76. Why do blondes have TGIF on their shirts?
Tits Go In Front.

77. How many blondes does it take to make chocolate chip cookies?
Two...one to make batter and one to peel the M&Ms.

78. How many blondes does it take to make chocolate chip cookies?
Three...one to mix the batter and two to squeeze the rabbit.

79. What's the difference between a blonde and a bowling ball?
You can only get three fingers in a bowling ball.

80. What's the difference between a blonde and the Titanic?
They know how many men went down on the Titanic.

81. How did the blonde try to kill the bird?
She threw it off a cliff.

82. Why was the blonde proud to finish her jigsaw puzzle in 6
months?
The box said "2-4 years."

83. What do you say to a blonde with no arms or legs?
"Nice tits!"

84. How does a blonde high-5?
She smacks herself in the forehead.

85. Why aren't there many blonde gymnasts?
When they do the splits they stick to the floor.

86. Why do blondes wear their hair up?
To catch everything that goes over their heads.

87. How does a blonde interpret 6.9?
69 interrupted by a period.

88. How do you brainwash a blonde?
Giver her a douche and shake her upside-down.

89. What do you call 15 blondes in a circle?
A dope ring.

90. Why did the blonde go halfway to Norway then turn around & come
home?
It took her that long to figure out a 14 inch Viking was a TV
set.

91. What do a screen door and a blonde have in common?
The more you bang them, the looser they get.

92. What does a blonde say after she's had sex?
"Gee...are all you guys on the same team?"

93. What's the irritating part around a blonde's vagina?
The blonde!

94. How do you describe a blonde surrounded by drooling idiots?
Flattered.

95. What is the worst thing about sex with a blonde?
Bucket seats.

96. What do blondes do for foreplay?
Remove their underwear.

97. What important question does a blonde ask her mate before sex?
"By the hour, or flat rate?"

98. What do you call a swimming pool full of blondes?
Frosted Flakes.

99. Why do blondes put their hair in ponytails?
To cover up the valve stem.

100. Why did the blonde drown in the pool?
Someone stuck a scratch & sniff at the bottom.

101. How do you get a blonde pregnant?
Come in her shoes and let the flies do the rest.

102. What is the difference between a smart blonde and Bigfoot?
Bigfoot has been spotted.

103. What do you call a fly buzzing inside a blonde's head?
A Space Invader.

104. What is a blonde's favorite rock group?
Air Supply

105. Why does a blonde take the pill?
So she knows what day it is.

106. What do you see when you look into a blonde's eyes?
The back of her head.

107. Why did the blonde have a bruised navel?
Her boyfriend's blond too.

108. What do blondes and cow patties have in common?
The older they are, the easier they are to pick up.

109. A cop stops a blonde woman who was driving down a motorway.
"Miss, may I see your driver's licence please?"
"Driver's licence? What's that?..."
"It's a little card with your picture on it."
"Oh, duh! Here it is..."
"May I have your car insurance?"
"What's that?..."
"It's a document that says you are allowed to drive the car."
"Oh this? Duh! Here you go..."
The cop then takes his dick out of his pants, while the blonde
exclaims:
"Oh no, not another breathanalyzer test!"

110. This well endowed blonde walks into the doctor's office for a
routine exam and the doctor tell's her to go into the exam room
and take off all of her clothes. She does, and he comes in
later, strips off his clothes, and runs towards her. She moves
and WHAM! he runs into the wall. She says, "DOCTOR BENNET!"
and he says, "Bend it, Hell! Broke it!"

1.) What do you call an eternity?
Four Blondes in four cars at a four way stop.

2.)

3.) Three Blondes were driving to Disneyland. After being in the car for four hours they finally saw a sign that said "Disneyland Left" so they turned around and went home.

4.) What do SMART Blondes and UFO's have in common?
You always hear about them but never see them.

5.) What did the Blonde say when she opened the box of Cheerios?
Oh look, Daddy...Doughnut seeds.

6.) Why did the Blonde stare at the can of frozen orange juice?
Because it said concentrate.

7.) Why do blondes always smile during lightning storms?
They think their picture is being taken.

8.) How can you tell when a Blonde sends you a fax?
It has a stamp on it.

9.) Why can't Blondes dial 911?
They can't find the 11 on the phone!

10.) What do you do if a Blonde throws a pin at you?
Run, she's got a grenade in her mouth!

11.) How can you tell if a Blonde has been using your computer?
There is white-out all over the monitor.

12.) Why shouldn't Blondes have coffee breaks?
It takes too long to retrain them.

13.) A brunette goes to the doctor and as she touches every part of her body with her finger she says, "Doctor it hurts everywhere. My leg hurts, my arm hurts, my neck hurts, and even my head hurts!" The doctor asks, "Were you ever a Blonde?" "Yes I was." she replies. "why do you ask?" The doctor answers, "because your finger is broken!"

14.) A Blonde and a brunette were walking outside when the brunette said, "Oh look at the dead bird." The Blonde looked skyward and said, "Where, where?"

15.) A brunette is standing on some train tracks, jumping from rail to rail, saying "21" "21" "21"
A Blonde walks up, sees her and decides to join her. She also starts jumping from rail to rail, saying "21" "21" "21" Suddenly, the brunette hears a train whistle and jumps off the tracks just as the Blonde is splattered all over the place. The Brunette goes back to jumping from rail to rail, counting "22" "22" "22"

16.) How do you drown a Blonde?
Put a scratch & sniff sticker at the bottom of the pool.

17.) Why does it take longer to build a Blonde snowman as opposed to a regular one?
You have to hollow out the head.

18.) How do you get a twinkle in a Blonde's eye?
Shine a flashlight in her ear.

19.) Why don't Blondes like making KOOL-AID?
Because they can't fit 8 cups of water in the little packet.

20.) Did you hear about the two Blondes that were found frozen to death in their car at the drive-in movie theater?
They went to see "Closed for Winter".

21.) Why won't they hire Blondes as pharmacists?
They keep breaking the prescription bottles in the typewriters.

22.) A Blonde walks up to a Coke machine and puts in a coin. Out pops a coke. The blonde looks amazed and runs away to get some more coins. She returns and starts feeding the machine madly and of course the machine keeps feeding out drinks. Another person walks up behind the blonde and watches her antics for a few minutes before stopping and asking if someone else could have a go. The blonde spins around and shouts in her face, "Can't you see I'm winning?!"

23.) Two blondes were walking through the woods and they came to some tracks. The first blonde said, "These look like deer tracks," and the other one said, "No they look like moose tracks." They argued and argued for a while and they were still arguing when the train hit them.

24.) Two blondes were in a parking lot trying to unlock the door of their Mercedes with a coat hanger, but they couldn't. The girl with the coat hanger stopped for a moment to catch her breath, and her friend said anxiously, "Hurry up! It's starting to rain and the top is down!"

25.) A young blonde woman is distraught because she fears her husband is having an affair, so she goes to a gun shop and buys a handgun. Then one day she comes home and finds her husband in bed with a beautiful redhead. She grabs the gun and holds it to her own head. The husband jumps out of bed, begging and pleading with her not to shoot herself. Hysterically the blonde responds to the husband, "Shut up...you're next!"

26.) Hear about the blonde that got an AM radio?
It took her a month to realize she could play it at night.

27.) What happened to the blonde Ice Hockey Team?
They drowned in Spring Training.

28.) What did the blonde say when she saw the sign in front of the YMCA?
"Look! They spelled MACY'S wrong!"

29.) Why did the blonde scale the chain-link fence?
To see what was on the other side.

30.)


A blonde is terribly overweight, so her doctor puts her on a diet. "I want you to eat regularly for two days, then skip a day, and repeat this procedure for two weeks. The next time I see you, you'll have lost at least five pounds." When the blonde returns, she's lost nearly 20 pounds. "Why, that's amazing!" the doctor says. "Did you follow my instructions?" The blonde nods. "I'll
tell you, though, I thought I was going to drop dead that third day." "From hunger, you mean?" "No, from skipping."



A blonde tried to sell her old car. She was having a lot of problems selling it, because the car had 250,000 miles on it. One day, she told her problem to a brunette she worked with at a salon. The brunette told her, "There is a possibility to make the car easier to sell, but it's not legal." "That doesn't matter," replied the blonde, "if I only can sell the car." "Okay," said the brunette. "Here is the address of a friend of mine. He owns a car repair shop. Tell him I sent you and he will turn the counter in your car back to 50,000 miles. Then it should not be a problem to sell your car anymore." The following weekend, the blonde made the trip to the mechanic. About one month after that, the brunette asked the blonde, "Did you sell your car?" "No," replied the blonde, "why should I? It only has 50,000 miles on it."



So there's this blonde out for a walk. She comes to a river and sees another blonde on the opposite bank. "Yoohoo" she shouts, "how can I get to the other side?" The second blonde
looks up the river then down the river then shouts back, "You are on the other side."



BLONDE GIRL'S BLONDE HUSBAND:
A blonde guy gets home early from work and hears strange noises coming from the bedroom. He rushes upstairs to find his wife naked on the bed, sweating and panting. "What's going on here?' he says. "I'm having a heart attack," cries the woman. He rushes downstairs to grab the
phone, but just as he's dialing, his 4-year old son comes up and says, "Daddy! Daddy!, Uncle Ted's hiding in your wardrobe closet and he's got no clothes on!" The guy slams the phone down and storms upstairs into the bedroom, past his screaming wife, and rips open the wardrobe door. Sure enough, there is his brother, totally naked, cowering on the wardrobe floor. "You IDIOT!!!," says the husband, "my wife's having a heart attack and you're running around naked and scaring the kids!"



On a plane bound for New York, the flight attendant approached a blonde sitting in the first class section and requested that she move to coach since she did not have a first class ticket. The blonde replied, "I'm blonde, I'm beautiful, I'm going to New York, and I'm not moving." Not
wanting to argue with a customer, the flight attendant asked the co-pilot to speak with her. He went to talk with the woman asking her to please move out of the first class section. Again, the
blonde replied, "I'm blonde, I'm beautiful, I'm going to New York, and I'm not moving." The co-pilot returned to the cockpit and asked the captain what he should do. The captain said, "I'm married to a blonde, and I know how to handle this." He went to the first class section and whispered in the blonde's ear. She immediately jumped up and ran to the coach section mumbling to herself, "Why didn't anyone just say so?" Surprised, the flight attendant and the co-pilot asked what he said to her that finally convinced her to move from her seat. He said, "I told her the first class section wasn't going to New York."


A young ventriloquist is touring the clubs & stops to entertain at a bar in a small town. He's going through his usual run of stupid blonde jokes, when a big blonde woman in the 4th row stands on her chair and says: "I've heard just about enough of your stupid blonde jokes. What
makes you think you can stereotype women that way? What does a person's physical attributes
have to do with their worth as a human being? It's guys like you who keep women like me from being respected at work and in my community and from reaching my full potential as a person ... because you and your kind continue to perpetuate discrimination against not only blondes, but women in general," ...all in the name of humor.

Flustered, the ventriloquist begins to apologize, when the blonde pipes up, "You stay out of this mister, I'm talking to that little bastard on your knee!

like many, u long 4 a partner that u can relate 2 and who is willing 2 enjoy ur adventures with u.
u definitly feel the loneliness that coms from being without such a partner.

ur lonelyness is a direct reflection of ur absorption with ur individual pursuits.

u r looking 4 bigger and better things wich require effort
therefore u compromise ur social skills wich r sacrificed 4 the betterment of ur personal interests

furthermore, relationships suffer due 2 disparities in interests and culture wich perpetuate an inability 2 relate.

u feel disconnected most of the time but understand that u do hav the best of intentions and r infact a very caring, loyal, and understanding person.

Because of ur new found independence, u dont hav the same support or rapport system that has been there 4 u in the past.

u r one who is searching 4 cohessiveness
u wish everything were in its place and r distraught bcos everything is so out of focus

u r searching 4 answers outside of yourself and
long 4 less complexities in your routines
tasks upon task accumulates and b4 u know it u r buried under a pile of burden that yields further complexities

it is obvious that u r in a position that is not nurturing u or supporting ur needs 2 use ur time in a more productive manner.
if u take a look into urself u will find the things motivate u 2 learn everything u hav always wanted 2 kno.
u already kno wat u enjoy doing more than anything.

u r definitely no the type of person that settles 4 less or takes whatever is in front of u.
instead of changing ur desires and urself in order 2 adapt with wat is ther, u would rather hav nothing short of the idea of wat u feel u deserve.

ur subconsious through a series of patterns has brought about a depressive state that will perpetuate itself as a dis ease like it never has b4.
id tell u 2 consider a shrink, but most of them hav no clue wat they r talking about
and the rest of them just want ur money.

the best way 2 make a conscious change is never on a conscious level
ther is nothing u can do consciously 2 become more happy because ur subconscious controls all of ur actions and therfore all of ur feelings.

that is y sometimes u will do something or feel a certain way and don’t know why.

no matter how many times u try 2 convince urself u r a certain way, ur subconscious values and beliefs r the ones that really control ur actions.

the reason u r lonely is because somehow, u programmed ur subconscious 2 believe u r a lonely person.

no matter how many times u try 2 get out there and consciously overcome ur loneliness, ur subconscious like a thermostat brings the temperature back the way it believes it should be at.

therefore ur only choice is 2 work at ur subconscious into making it believe u r at a level where u r never lonely and constantly have smooth social interactions.

like I said, id tell u 2 consult a shrink 2 help u do so but most all of them work on ur conscious and go about fixing ppol the wrong way.

let me kno if u want 2 kno how u can manipulate ur own subconscious into making it belive u r at a certain level so that ur social environment will b at that same level.

Intellectual pursuits don't really make me any happier.
I always liked to learn about computers and software engineering and such, but now its just like BLEH. It never stops and eventually it just got old to me. Only seems to make life more complicated.

Maybe if I got into stuff like physics and astronomy or history it'd be different.

Check this (http://www.engrish.com) out.

you have to be rad

No one can beat me as hard as I can beat myself,ya see,I know exactly where it hurts the most,and nobody else does.
Maybe you should go buy a dog,the chicks dig em,and cut down the hours you work so you can walk your dog,they like to run along side of bicycles too,4'leash on the right side,tied to the seatpost,but not on the road,and get em shoes too so they won't blow their pads.
The coolest thing about it , is you can take your dog on outings with your human friends,and you don't have to go home alone afterwards.

I think this thread is just proving everyone human, afterall we all suffer the duelist torments of socialisation (in the sense where a person doesn't want to be lonely or crowded).

The main reason why it's so difficult to find people that share exact interests is the shear fact that we are all different and individual. If the world was all about people of symmetry would you indeed feel better??? I think not, because you would find yourself striving to be "different" (Just take the nature of twins for example).

If your having problems socialising I think the main way that people deal with this is through Clubs, Find a club in your area that does what you do (you could search the net), if you can't find a club then think of another pass time that you haven't done but are willing to do.

I'm not going to say I've mastered all these, but heck it's a shot that might pay off.