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dan74
01-12-05, 11:45 PM
Given that most of us here are interested in Eastern Philosophy, do you have a particular way of deepening your insight, a particular approach, eg breath-awareness meditation, psychodelic trips, continual awareness practice, loving-kidness meditation, Zen, Therevada, Goenka, prayer, walks in the wood, art, music, etc etc

Perhaps some people can share their approaches and how they came to practice them and how they find them useful.

duendy
01-13-05, 09:31 AM
Given that most of us here are interested in Eastern Philosophy, do you have a particular way of deepening your insight, a particular approach, eg breath-awareness meditation, psychodelic trips, continual awareness practice, loving-kidness meditation, Zen, Therevada, Goenka, prayer, walks in the wood, art, music, etc etc

Perhaps some people can share their approaches and how they came to practice them and how they find them useful.

Well, i can speak about psychedelic trippin alright......(...)
as for Eastern ways, i have lost faith in all of that. though regarding just sitting, that's fine. it's when it becomes a DOGMA--an expected formalized mode to 'get to...' i find is dogmatic, and unnecessary
but this is MY experience

i like the terms you use ...ie., "DEEPENING insight"..i prefer 'deepen' than 'en-lighten' etc cause i see a lot of the Estern religious stuff as it is with most New Age stuff which got most of its ideas from Eastern ideology...that (takes breath)....it is seeking to get off-earth, off-body. away from the 'dark', and the 'deep'. I don't want that. so 'deepening' is exactly the metaphor i use myself often

I recommend you research. so you aren't just spiritually exploring, but also intellectually. doing the latter will encourage the former
It is really really important to not get suked into isms which indoctrnate shame about one's natrual self. the one that farts, shits, gets bored, lusty, angry etc etc. you know, human. we Are human but also ARe animals

so for me hallucingenic experience is letting off the cultural inhibition about this. it is CELEBRATORY rather than 'kathartic'.....for example, do some research and this will much more-in depth explain what i mean about the difference between celebratory and kathartic. do a google on this title: 'From Orphism to Gnosticism'.......the fomer chose th kartharis/'purificational' route having reformed the more orgiastic celebratory and original earth religion of Dionysos

as yu will see, the Orphics crated a very life-negative doctrine that believed the 'spirit' was trapped in the body and thus Nature.

what i feel we really need now urgently is nto that, but a throwing off of our entrnched inhibitions regarding our animality, and thus our deep interrelation with Nature

so, for example, creating a set&setting for a psychdelic trip: you would want to encourage the loosening of inhibition thrugh various means.......for example a technique i learned called groaning and toning.....where you allow groans to come from the belly. you take deep breath then let out a really uninhibited groan....keep doing this till you feel yourself loosening up....then start making tomes like UUUUUU EEEEEEEEE IIIIIIIII OOOOOOOOO.....just do each vowel sound for a long while takin deep breaths in between o'course. soon you will hear overtones and
feel your body vibrate...great feeling

also you can combine free flow movement whicl doing is, and change UUUUU to EEEE all in one movement. try it

ie. you are loosening u sos when you Trip you ar meeting it half way. not just lying back and saing 'enterTAIN MEEE'....its a dance

think about having Trip in Nature. near trees and water is great. ,...continued below

duendy
01-13-05, 09:38 AM
.......Theere is a PLAY with Nature...an orgiastic erotic relationship with Nature which we need to rekindle through deep experiential experiences. it's like for many, the logical left brain is assuming dominance and thus is wanting to control wildness......Eastern forms of meditation are alright-ISH, but from my experience and from communicating with people who really make out their shit is IT, i funfd them very reactionary and abusive to any mention of hallucinogenic experience, and any challenge to their belief-systems. for me a bad sign

as well as all this is to realize he importance of politics. that it is not just about interelating with Nature--though that is CENTRAL. but also, realizing the actual going on. the mindset that is seeking to conquer Nature. make it into a toxic carpark. so it is both spiritualearthy and political.......a continuum. when you see someone you love being fuked with you want ot speak out and protect them yeah? isn't this the same with our home, Earth?

spidergoat
01-14-05, 03:08 PM
participate in:

The Existential Negation Campaign
This campaign focuses on the consensus-reality definition of existence and existential status. This definition is challenged by affixing to various objects which are popularly believed to exist labels which read "WARNING: THIS OBJECT DOES NOT EXIST".

dan74
01-18-05, 10:28 PM
Thank you for your reply, Duendy. I think most of us can really appreciate how important a relationship with nature is now, and I like your gutsy attitude. I'm sad that you've had a bad experience with the people who say they practice Eastern religion/ meditation. Perhaps they were seeing their repressed sides in you and got scared off? One question, what's your attitude to order, structure and discipline in your life?

Spidergoat: WARNING: THIS FORUM DOES NOT EXIST and probably neither do you. But please, do keep going with your replies!

dan74
01-18-05, 10:36 PM
My practice: awareness. I meditate daily and try to bring awareness to everything I do. Physical awareness of the body, awareness of the feelings, thoughts, breath, of what goes on around me. Listening attentively to myself, to others, to whatever there is. This practice, or rather this way of life is gradually changing my perception.

spidergoat
01-19-05, 06:16 PM
dan74,
I find this practice really works, reminding me that objects and people, and by extension, ego, are like temporary phantoms. It helps to shock the system into letting go of its attachments. It's also funny, sometimes people can take Zen too seriously. Setting up expectations and then doing the unexpected seems to be a preferred method of Zen teachers. The ego's got a tight hold on our brains. Sure, my car doesn't exist, but I'm driving it anyway, what a situation!

The website of the flat-Earth society is down, too bad, they had stickers you could print out.

spidergoat
01-21-05, 07:01 PM
http://www.flat-earth.org/projects/exist.html

dan74
02-05-05, 12:18 AM
I checked the website out - it's fun! Thanks, Spidergoat.

I appreciate your point, but I am wary of falling into nihilism and treating life as a joke. After all, this is the real deal, it's no rehearsal. I know a few people that invent all sorts of ways to try to avoid taking responsibility and engaging in their life fully. With all their feelings, energies, strength, etc. Do you know what i mean?

suzukisfrog
02-08-05, 01:58 PM
shikantaza

VossistArts
02-08-05, 11:04 PM
Well, i can speak about psychedelic trippin alright......(...)
as for Eastern ways, i have lost faith in all of that. though regarding just sitting, that's fine. it's when it becomes a DOGMA--an expected formalized mode to 'get to...' i find is dogmatic, and unnecessary
but this is MY experience

i like the terms you use ...ie., "DEEPENING insight"..i prefer 'deepen' than 'en-lighten' etc cause i see a lot of the Estern religious stuff as it is with most New Age stuff which got most of its ideas from Eastern ideology...that (takes breath)....it is seeking to get off-earth, off-body. away from the 'dark', and the 'deep'. I don't want that. so 'deepening' is exactly the metaphor i use myself often

I recommend you research. so you aren't just spiritually exploring, but also intellectually. doing the latter will encourage the former
It is really really important to not get suked into isms which indoctrnate shame about one's natrual self. the one that farts, shits, gets bored, lusty, angry etc etc. you know, human. we Are human but also ARe animals

so for me hallucingenic experience is letting off the cultural inhibition about this. it is CELEBRATORY rather than 'kathartic'.....for example, do some research and this will much more-in depth explain what i mean about the difference between celebratory and kathartic. do a google on this title: 'From Orphism to Gnosticism'.......the fomer chose th kartharis/'purificational' route having reformed the more orgiastic celebratory and original earth religion of Dionysos

as yu will see, the Orphics crated a very life-negative doctrine that believed the 'spirit' was trapped in the body and thus Nature.

what i feel we really need now urgently is nto that, but a throwing off of our entrnched inhibitions regarding our animality, and thus our deep interrelation with Nature

so, for example, creating a set&setting for a psychdelic trip: you would want to encourage the loosening of inhibition thrugh various means.......for example a technique i learned called groaning and toning.....where you allow groans to come from the belly. you take deep breath then let out a really uninhibited groan....keep doing this till you feel yourself loosening up....then start making tomes like UUUUUU EEEEEEEEE IIIIIIIII OOOOOOOOO.....just do each vowel sound for a long while takin deep breaths in between o'course. soon you will hear overtones and
feel your body vibrate...great feeling

also you can combine free flow movement whicl doing is, and change UUUUU to EEEE all in one movement. try it

ie. you are loosening u sos when you Trip you ar meeting it half way. not just lying back and saing 'enterTAIN MEEE'....its a dance

think about having Trip in Nature. near trees and water is great. ,...continued below


yep. i do appreciate the entheogins. im 37, and dont use standard recreational drugs, just natural educational and renewal plants. im fond of woodrose lately. i cant imagine ever being too old to dust out the oul cobwebs now and then. i have learned a lot and learn a lot from those experiences.. like bill hicks commented " gods little evolutionary accelerator
pads".

spidergoat
02-15-05, 12:10 PM
I checked the website out - it's fun! Thanks, Spidergoat.

I appreciate your point, but I am wary of falling into nihilism and treating life as a joke. After all, this is the real deal, it's no rehearsal. I know a few people that invent all sorts of ways to try to avoid taking responsibility and engaging in their life fully. With all their feelings, energies, strength, etc. Do you know what i mean?
The world we see is filtered through perceptive mechanisms influenced by our particular experience, culture, society and expectations, so in a very real sense, the world we experience isn't real. It's a small slice of a much larger pie. It's the only thing we can experience, but we can increase the size of the slice by freeing yourself of expectations and preconceptions. The paradox of eastern philosophy is that it says the best way to be fully involved in reality is to cultivate a certain kind of indifference to it. Reality, as we know it, is provisional. To take it seriously only ties us more tightly in knots. The more we try to hold on to it, the worse we are at playing the game.

I think there are similarities between nihilism and taoism, but taoism doesn't have all the political implications. Also, taoism supposes a passive kind of order inherent in everything.

dan74
02-16-05, 05:34 PM
What you mean by "indifference" is not holding on, right? But that's not indifference at all, that's just giving up the illusion of control and recognising our attachment, our clinging.

Sure, many of us think that if you are not indifferent to something, you should worry, try to influence, control, hold on etc etc. This mindset partly comes from not being able to really be together with something/someone, to flow together naturally. It comes from the illusion of separateness, from the perception as an observer, not really in it, but a little apart, detached. Ultimately it comes from holding on to the concept of self and refering all experience to this "entity".

If reality is provisional, so are you, and your thoughts about it. What is not provisional then? A playful, kind of indifferent attitude, might rob you of a chance to really take the plunge and commit yourself fully to whatever it is that matters.

But I might've misinterpreted what you were saying - these things are very hard to pin down, and we are all coming at it from different angles..

suzukisfrog
02-17-05, 07:05 PM
cultivate apathy.

spidergoat
02-18-05, 11:54 AM
Not indifference to the thing you experience, but indifference towards your reaction to the thing you experience. In other words, we are always trying to create rules for living, what is the best way to react to some type of situation. No doubt, there is some practicality to this exercise, but we overuse this type of thinking. There is a natural intelligence that takes no effort to use. I think the secret to "finding yourself" is realizing that the seat of our psyche is not contained within this rationalizing mind, indeed, it can be found nowhere. The mind can't grasp itself, but it can be allowed to function without the policeman of self-awareness handicapping it. Zen students aways talk about becoming aware, but that's just the beginning, self-awareness leads to self-unawareness, which is the natural state also called enlightenment.

dan74
02-18-05, 05:02 PM
I am with you now. The only thing that still doesn't quite make sense to me out of what you said, is this "indifference towards your reaction". I am guessing you mean not getting caught up in your reaction. Because if you cultivate a kind of distance from your reactions, then instead of engaging with them, and with your humanity and the totality of your experience, you are aiming for a kind of detachment that will impoverish your mind. I know a psychologist like that and quite a few daily pot-smokers. Not really on this planet, just orbiting, observing, musing on the absurdity of it all. Too much suffering, to much stupidity, greed, easier to just laugh at it all, in a 1000 years or so, everything will straighten itself out! A lot of practitioners of Eastern religions have this tendency. I know it from myself :)

spidergoat
02-18-05, 05:25 PM
Aren't reactions enough? The constant second-guessing were are encouraged to do creates a pathological separation between how you are and how you are told to be. Indifference isn't separation, but complete unity. There is your reaction, and that's it, since no further self-reflection is necessary, your mind is free to react to the present. It's a strange, seemingly paradoxical result of zen. If you were really indifferent, you could be indifferent to the difficulties involved in helping people too. There is no concrete implication to this as far as what action it leads to.

dan74
02-18-05, 09:20 PM
I think I understand you now. What you call indifference is what some call equanimity, and basically spontaneous (wu-wei, like in Tao Te Ching) response, with the whole YOU behind it.

I am not sure what you mean by the second half of what you say. Do you want to say that Zen is amoral? I've heard some people say that, but that's not so in my experience. Compassion is no less a core value in Zen than in any other Buddhist sect. It is just what one is naturally led to: as the sense of one's self diminishes, you naturally become mre open to other people's suffering, to other "selves". Don't you think so?

dan74
02-18-05, 09:24 PM
Why don't other people post some replies, and share their spiritual practice with the rest of us?

spidergoat
02-19-05, 10:56 AM
Come to think of it, complete engagement with existence and complete indifference are identical. If we are completely involved in something, there is no room for philosophical judgements.

Yes, Zen is amoral, or doesn't address morality as such. To have an interest in Zen in the first place you are probably already a sensitive person. Most immoral actions are the result of placing your own interests ahead of others, not considering the whole picture. Well, considering the whole picture is how they spend their time- in meditation. True morality requires no particular instruction. But what are the implications of an ideal like compassion? It may be more compassionate in the long run to ignore someone's problems. But, if you are always determined to do the obviously compassionate thing, you might do the wrong thing.

Buddhism in the traditional sense is a more comprehensive system of instruction, they accepted all kinds of people from different backrounds, and it was designed to address all kinds of basic questions about getting along in society, things that would probably be self evident to a motivated student of Zen.

I am wondering about the Buddha's advice on heedfulness. If you try to be aware, what about being aware of what's trying to be aware?

dan74
02-19-05, 03:11 PM
"I am wondering about the Buddha's advice on heedfulness. If you try to be aware, what about being aware of what's trying to be aware?"

This question comes up in meditation training once the mind is sufficiently still (or one-pointed) to be sharply aware of what's going on. In my experience this is a part of Zen training and also Forest monks of Thailand (Ajahn Chah tradition) and I am sure many others follow this (one of the djanas is resting in the awareness of the "awarer", I think?)

As for compassion, sure there aren't any rules, but if you are tuned in to the other person and the situation, then a right compassionate action will usually follow.. I think

Anomalous
06-03-05, 12:42 AM
My practice: awareness. I meditate daily and try to bring awareness to everything I do. Physical awareness of the body, awareness of the feelings, thoughts, breath, of what goes on around me. Listening attentively to myself, to others, to whatever there is. This practice, or rather this way of life is gradually changing my perception.

And all these years I had been taught that meditation is the art of disassociating one self with the universe. Now I may be taught wrong but thats not the issue.

The question is , on what basis can U say all that with respect to eastern philosophy ?

No wonder it has changed your perception about EP in wrong way.


Why don't other people post some replies, and share their spiritual practice with the rest of us? Most of the people consider that word a tabu and actually is associated with something that cannot be explained. So try inventing a new word for it; may be something close to the word Awareness.

dan74
06-03-05, 06:01 PM
In Eastern philosophy, at least in Buddhism, meditation is the oppositite of "disassociating one self with the universe". This may be more of a New Age idea, I think, in the sense that they try to tune into all kinds of astral or spiritual dimensions, angels, etc. I am not sure where you are coming from Anomalous, but if you read Buddhist suttras, in Satipatthana Sutta, the Buddha teaches that mindfullness of whatever we do is the foundation and the cornerstone of practice. Other central teachings emphasize seeing through, also called discernment or wisdom (panna), which is the deep awareness of the phenomena as they truly are. This is the distinguishing mark of Buddhist meditation (vippassana), the insight into reality. There are also texts that describe Nirvana as the shedding of the illusory self (annata) that in fact separates one from reality and becoming one with the flux of things, the ever-changing universe, or Buddha-mind.

Anomalous
06-03-05, 11:33 PM
Mr. Daniel,

I still did not get what exactly is the best way that U believe is for meditation.

dan74
06-04-05, 02:10 AM
Hi, Mr A. Perhaps the best way is to be totally honest and open with yourself and that means a warm, non-judgmental attitude to whatever comes. Sitting meditation (Buddhist style) typically involves concentration on a point, like the point the breath enters the nostrils. What that does is over time you have to deal with a lot of feelings and issues that come up and you have to learn to cope with them before you can let the mind settle. When it settles and focuses on that point, it becomes very clear and grows more and more spacious - able to take more things in and have choices where previously there were only impulsive responses (like getting angry/ frustrated/annoyed/compulsive behaviours, etc).

This isn't an easy way, but if you interested to find out what lies beyond our opinions, our conditioning, the second-hand so-called truth about what's worth what, and see into the nature of things, into the nature of the Mind, then this is a good way. If you were seriously interested, explore some nearby Buddhist venues, especially Zen Buddhist - they are big on meditation often. You will eventually find a genuine teacher who you click with.

Anomalous
06-04-05, 04:03 AM
1) Hi, Mr A. Perhaps the best way is to be totally honest and open with yourself and that means a warm, non-judgmental attitude to whatever comes.

2) Sitting meditation (Buddhist style)

3) typically involves concentration on a point, like the point the breath enters the nostrils. What that does is over time you have to deal with a lot of feelings and issues that come up and you have to learn to cope with them before you can let the mind settle. When it settles and focuses on that point, it becomes very clear and grows more and more spacious - able to take more things in and have choices where previously there were only impulsive responses (like getting angry/ frustrated/annoyed/compulsive behaviours, etc).

1) Naa, I dont do things without understanding as long as I find that its impossible to do so.

2) I dont care about any styles , All I care is about effectiveness and that may involve merging from the best of all styles.

3) That point contradicts your previous statements : -


... Physical awareness of the body, awareness of the feelings, thoughts, breath, of what goes on around me. Listening attentively to myself, to others, to whatever there is. ...


4) This isn't an easy way,

5) but if you interested to find out what lies beyond our opinions, our conditioning, the second-hand so-called truth about what's worth what, and see into the nature of things, into the nature of the Mind, then this is a good way.

6) If you were seriously interested, explore some nearby Buddhist venues, especially Zen Buddhist - they are big on meditation often.

7) You will eventually find a genuine teacher who you click with.

4) It will be easier if one knows how things work.

5) That why I am in this forum.

6) I rather prefer to read about things that are not based on scientific research or scientifically validated.

7) Understanding is the best teacher anyone can have.

dan74
06-04-05, 11:45 PM
I guess that's why I said, better find a real teacher. This is a very complex question and I'm not sure if I can really address it well and explain it well. I think the kind of understanding that matters here is one you get from experience, not a purely intellectual understanding. Otherwise it like the five blind men and the elephant story - each one grasps onto a part of the big thing but has not idea what the whole thing is about.

So to try and address your points:

Effective for what? If what you after is the whole truth, than you start right now, with a radical change of attitude, tuning into the parts of you that you've neglected, paying attention to the kind of things that you've always despised. This is what most of us can't do, won't do. But this is what the whole picture is about, it's not about taking sides. read Tao Te Ching by Lao Tsu, best source by far and a great classic.

So what about meditation? For me, meditation is also a development of consciousness or awareness. Concentration on one point, paradoxically, makes it possible to take in many things at the same time, makes the mind more spacious. I don't think there was a contradiction, but there is a difference in what I do when I meditate and what I do the rest of the time. Meditating involves keeping most (not all) attention focused on the breath. Breath is the anchor, without that you are liable to wander around and grasp onto pleasant sensations, bliss, etc or have an out-of-body experience. All of these are not helpful, they are just byproducts, nothing to be attached to. They pass. The rest of the time, it is still useful to keep a bit of attention of the breath (or on the sounds around you, or your total field of awareness - this is also focusing). I guess they seem like opposites - focus on a point or be aware of everything, but they turn out to be almost the same thing!

Mixing styles? That can work, but the funny thing is, breath awareness meditation is common to many many meditation techniques across religions and schools. There must be something to it, one thinks. And because this a deep path not without its pitfalls it is good to have recourse to a teacher who's been there, who's tought others. It can also teach humility, which is valuable to a this kind of development. But I am not talking about a guru. Just a human being one can talk to about this things. Someone with a bit of an idea.

I wan't sure about your 6).

Anomalous
06-05-05, 01:31 AM
Well, I dont need any teachers , My understanding ability is my teacher. I follow the scientific methods of meditations and not just because somene told me to do them.

http://bhj.org/journal/1999_4103_july99/original_505.htm

http://64.233.183.104/search?q=cache:u7THjQO966QJ:www.shola.co.uk/Research%2520on%2520Meditation.pdf+%22research+on+ meditation%22+stress&hl=en

http://www.spiritualcompetency.com/meditat/lesson8.html

dan74
06-10-05, 08:11 AM
Hi A,

please don't get me wrong, but would you say that you have a big ego?

Anomalous
06-10-05, 10:03 AM
Hi A,

please don't get me wrong, but would you say that you have a big ego?

I have a Ego but I have total control over it. I like to observe other peoples Ego in action, I learn a lot from it. Mostly I try to deflate others Ego. To tell U the truth I dont care What U think about my Ego. It the Ego that stops most of the people here in SF to gain of knowlegde, I over Came that problem Long Time back. I know what U r thinking, but thats OK. U have all right to confirm it.

Scrutinize me more, Its quite possible That I have a wrong impression about me.

dan74
06-10-05, 10:00 PM
Thank you for your response. A. I'm not really scrutinising, just trying to understand where you are coming from. It's an interesting choice of words: "I have total control of my ego". Wouldn't you say that's the ultimate in ego? When you are in total control? Isn't this "you", exactly the ego that is controlling and just calling the earlier more fragile ego, the ego that is being controlled??

To me overcoming the ego means letting go of control and embracing and being being embrace by what is. Going with the flow, in the moment, spontaneous, no fear, open to everyone and everything. Letting the warmth flow, letting everything flow. Control sounds to me to be the opposite of this, but maybe you use it in different ways. Do you find that people around you feel more vibrant and empowered, or more subdued and voiceless?

Anomalous
06-11-05, 01:41 AM
... 1) just trying to understand where you are coming from.

2) It's an interesting choice of words: "I have total control of my ego". Wouldn't you say that's the ultimate in ego? When you are in total control? Isn't this "you", exactly the ego that is controlling and just calling the earlier more fragile ego, the ego that is being controlled??

To me overcoming the ego means letting go of control and embracing and being being embrace by what is. Going with the flow, in the moment, spontaneous, no fear, open to everyone and everything. Letting the warmth flow, letting everything flow. Control sounds to me to be the opposite of this, but maybe you use it in different ways.

3) Do you find that people around you feel more vibrant and empowered, or more subdued and voiceless?

1) That a first step towards discriminating people, I am glad we are on net , regardless of our caste and colour, we have the previledge of expressing our souls.

2) I think its always better to be in control and to be aware of it rather than dening it.

Do U know What an Ego is ?

3) I dont categories anybody, I treat people on a case by case basis; And Yes the previous experiences with individuals help me to be better at it.
Yes, I know I am powerful and try not to be unfair.