Sexual Desire male/female

Discussion in 'Human Science' started by madanthonywayne, Jun 26, 2008.

  1. draqon Banned Banned

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    I would disagree with you there...

    I desire sex but I would not agree to having sex just with some girl who would come up to me and ask for it.
     
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  3. Chatha big brown was screwed up Registered Senior Member

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    But more than likely you would be more inclined than a woman would. The other point is that physical attributes doesn't turn women on like it turns men on, women are turned on by a number of things while men are turned on mostly by ....dare I say...large breasts.
     
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  5. draqon Banned Banned

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    ummm...the butt does it for me, actually.

    But please Chatha...tell me what are women turned on by.
     
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  7. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    yep

    Men pay for sex cuz women don't have to. A women thinks of sex, she gets laid. A men thinks of sex, he goes begging. Women use sex as a bargaining chip the same way men use money. Women never used to have their own money, so they used what men wanted. :shrug: And if you ran the risk of getting pregnant you would be more wary of sex.

    Oh, and if most men were better in bed, women would be a LOT more eager for sex.
     
  8. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Most men? I wonder how many men she is basing this on.
     
  9. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    I don't think that women aren't really interested in looking at male strippers. I think that maybe a lot of women find it sort or trashy, or unlady like. I went to one a few yrs ago, neitzsche took me for a joke. The place was packed! The women were going NUTS! Then they started doing these private dances in the booths behind us, and the women had no problem paying for them. I still have no idea how much it cost. One stripper came over to me and asked if I had a pen. I beleive he was getting some chicks phone #. When he gave me back the pen he kinda put his arm around me and grabbed my butt

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    The was the first and last time I went. I have no desire to head back there, but I can see how a group of women out for the night could have a blast there.
     
  10. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    You DOG!

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    I seem to end to get younger men myself. Anyway in my case my sexual drive has always been less then my partners. It seems men have sex on the brain 24/7, and I just don't have the time and energy for that.

    I think you are right too, I think that men iniatiate sex more.
     
  11. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    I would have to agree there......about the large breasts.
    But physical appearance of men doesn't turn women on like men? I
    have to disagree with you there. So a woman isn't turned on by a man
    with a really nice chest?
     
  12. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    draqon concidering you have admited to being a virgin you should REALLY stay out of threads like this. Your opinions make you sound like an IDIOT.

    Seeing as how half of PB and my fights involve the fact that "i dont find her atractive" because i never want to have sex the language may be different but the desire is no different.
     
  13. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    You never want to have sex with your g/f? and you are a young guy. What's the problem?
     
  14. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    yeah, draqon, it does.
     
  15. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    Shorty a combination of two things

    naturally low sex drive and depression. Also the anti depressants lower it further so we tend to have sex around once or twice a month unfortunatly

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  16. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    GAK!

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    That's it!? Have you tried other meds?
     
  17. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    unfortuantly the other ones i have tried left me suicidle

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    and basically unable to funtion at all

    It really pisses me off but thats life
     
  18. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    So she takes your low sex drive personally and thinks you don't find her attractive and that is why you don't want to have sex with her.

    I can see that happening.
     
  19. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    Ok, you may not be in the mood, but can you still...well, can you still get an erection? I've had sex while not being in the mood for it. Once you start, you get in the mood quick.

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  20. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    yes its mood related rather than sexual dysfuntion

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    And yes i have herd the argument that viagra works on low sex drive for men because its so visable

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    Yes PB can sometimes get me into "the mood" but she tends to get frustrated because she has to make the effort, and i do tend to get irrated if im doing something else and she wants sex

    Ah well, lifes great isnt it

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  21. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    well, when you love someone, you have to make an effort. Its give and take. Easy as that.
    I'm not familiar with a guy being too busy for sex though. Is that normal???

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  22. S.A.M. uniquely dreadful Valued Senior Member

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    Depends on your conditioning, I think. I've seen some very sexually aggressive women in the Arabs for example, they can really make the guys sweat. Most women are not obsessed with sex because they can get it more easily when they want it.
     
  23. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    orelander, imagin you have a lower sex drive. Now in that condition would you sit around waiting for your partner to turn you on all the time or would you be doing other things?

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