well Varda you dont have to be so rude. But about her son...its her son, after all. She raises him, he is still young in a way and old enough for what he wants to. He is in the middle of it all. Condoms is the best approach and sex education...not restriction or grounding.
Shorty, I want you to think, just think. If you don't let you son have regular contact with girls, he's likely to end up like Draqon or Darksidzz. "Plz halp guyz, I require a female for mating purposes!" *shudder*
Pretty much. I remember being that age, and there was no way in hell I could talk to my parents about girls. Even today as an adult, it's really not the sort of topic I'd feel comfortable with discussing with my parents. Don't worry, it probably won't. I went to a government school (in Australia), and at 13 years age, holding hands was seen as a big thing (this was back in the late 90's, by the way). Thirteen year olds having sex (let alone falling pregnant) was unheard of. But this was a large country town, perhaps people are more messed up in the city. I don't think 13 is too young to have a relationship with a girl. It's a great learning experience, precisely because those sort of relationships aren't serious and bogged down by all the crap us adults have to worry about (paying the bills, when are we getting engaged, fighting over menial bullshit, no real expectation of committment). And best of all, the relationship is usually over within a week or two! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! I'd be *concerned* if my 13 year old son *wasn't* looking at porn! To be honest, I don't know why this is such a hang up for women. Don't women masturbate and fantasise? :bugeye: Being well rounded and mentally sound is preferable to being academically brilliant but socially inept. He lies because he knows you will say no! Duhhh! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Great! Sounds like a normal kid, as long as he doesn't take the pack mentality to extremes.
Ah Parents. The weird transformation that occurs, when the greatest annoyance occurs to you in life. Naturally, I speak as one who has never been a parent.
I reckon, not controlling enough to want to raise her son's unwanted child or pay for ongoing medical treatment. The issue isn't the desire, and condoms don't always work.
Seems like the girl's parents - and the friends' parents, etc - are kind of missing in action. What are they worried about, seeing from their end, etc?
"arnt serous"?!?!?!... such relatonships can be the mos "serous" thang goin on in a 13 year olds life... an to trivialize ther feelins is a big mistake.!!!
u forgot to mispell trivialize, mistake and 13. back on topic, i agree with copernicus in post 44. i'm outer city suburbs sydney, what you've said sounds accurate from my experiences too.
I have wondered that myself. Would they be putting their 13 yr old daughter on the pill or just buy her a box of condoms too? Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
First off....I never said he wasn't normal to want to have sex or hang around with girls, maybe you should have read the thread. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Second of all you don't have any kids, so until you are a mother you have no clue what it is like raising kids. Controlling bitch? Ha! Funny coming from you. Speaking of control,wasn't it your husband that wouldn't put a ring on your finger until you signed a pre-nup. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
He already has had more contact with girls at 13, lol. I have no issue with him having contact with girls. I just hope he doesn't get too serious with any one in particular. I could never talk about that kind of thing with my parents either, so the topic was always avoided. My mom just used to give me warnings and threats because I had more friends that were boys then girls. I think not growing up in a family that talked about such things, has made it harder for me to open up with that stuff now, with my own sons.
I wonder where they are myself sometimes. :shrug: It seems like some of these kids control their parents, then the other way around. You ever hear some of these kids talk to their parents when you are out a mall. I can't believe the attitude and lack of respect they have for their parents. Then the parents are stupid enough to buy the kids whatever they want after they talk to them like they are a piece of shit! I would have to have rocks in my head to do that. At least my kids aren't like that, and hell I wouldn't put up with it if they even tried it.
