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  1. James R Just this guy, you know? Staff Member

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    It sounds to me like you never told this girl how you felt about her, really. It might have been very confusing for her to get mixed messages from you - one minute you really like her and want to spend time with her, the next you're saying you don't want to meet her etc.
     
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  3. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    Well that's true I never directly said this, however remember she just got divorced in Sept and the signals were clear enough that I decided to finally move on. However I won't be doing anything like this again so definitely I'm gonna make sure the next girl knows I like her romantically (first). There's a few things that stand out here, she actually tried asking me what I thought of her as girlfriend material, I did not answer that time because she was still married! How could I answer lol I think that coworker of ours told her some things I'd said and she kinda knew already, she once said she had some embarrassing questions to ask and wanted to e-mail them to me. Guess what? I never got that e-mail haha. She never did ask those questions and I'm almost certain they had something to do with what she'd been told by my coworker. So eh, who can say. But clear indicators here were she didn't entertain the notion I MIGHT wanna date her, and was pushing for a close friendship. But I did e-mail her Monday Sept 14th and explain how I felt, so if she'd cared I think I'd have gotten a reply by now.
     
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  5. James R Just this guy, you know? Staff Member

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    Well, that's a good start. Let's hope it isn't too late. Good luck.
     
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  7. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    Sorry I meant the 14th lol But yea she's silent so I think I'm done hearing from her :| A Tarot Reader said she had alot of obstacles around her right now and to try again in 3 months, but alas I don't think I shall.
     
  8. James R Just this guy, you know? Staff Member

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    Personally, I wouldn't rely on (let alone pay) astrologers to help me in my private life in any way. Astrology is bunk.
     
  9. CheskiChips Banned Banned

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    She's married. Leave it alone. Why would you even entertain the thought of being part of adultery...are you evil?
     
  10. S.A.M. uniquely dreadful Valued Senior Member

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    Go away Cheski
     
  11. draqon Banned Banned

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    dark did you even tell her how you felt for her and that it was indeed love, call her now, tell her you are thinking about her and if she refuses just ask her for a talk at a cafe. Geee you cant let her go like that, you know she is yours, dont let some "marriage" ordeal take it away from you. You are a strong man.
     
  12. CheskiChips Banned Banned

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    Seriously? You're encouraging him to pursue a married woman?

    1. Any woman who would cheat on her husband with you will cheat on you.
    2. Angry husbands kill those who sleep with their wives.
    3. It potentially destroys a family.

    and SAM...really? Adultery is okay now?
     
  13. S.A.M. uniquely dreadful Valued Senior Member

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    Iqra, bi'ismi Rabbi! [Read, in the name of thy Lord]

     
  14. CheskiChips Banned Banned

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    kra atem uvakha (read them and weep)
     
  15. S.A.M. uniquely dreadful Valued Senior Member

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    Astagfar!

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    Now go away

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  16. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    She got divorced guys

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    I'm investigating new ways of thinking about women now.
     
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    Meaning?
     
  18. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    Extended Profile of darksidZz

    You may call me Sam. Previously I used the nickname sderenzi here on the forum, feel free to search some of those fine postings

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    Born: Melrose Park, IL
    Grew Up: Carol Stream, IL
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    Metal Rooster is often seen as the original strong silent type, not unlike the Humphrey Bogart and Greto Garbo prototypes. Most people consider them quite eccentric. Sad to say, relationships with other people are often strained. They are quite moody and can be too outspoken. They are often self-centered, but can be quite brave when the situation calls for it. On the other hand, Rooster People are quite talented and capable. They are always devoted to their work and have a reputation for being the hardest of workers. Rooster People are deep thinkers and are pioneers in spirit. They can experience the greatest of joy in complete solitude. Even though often alone, they rarely experience loneliness. Instead, they enjoy their own company and feel solitude helps them in their quest after knowledge.

    Shark-tail Soup and fortune cookies are among the keys to good health.

    Sometimes this one walks around with its head in the cumulus clouds, higher than the stars. You see, this rooster struts around with peacock feathers and they never ever ruffle. So much arrogance can make it hard to get along with others, especially when the Rooster is also intolerant of those who are less talented and a bit slower than normal. On the other hand, the Metal Rooster is extraordinarily talented. Of all twelve Zodiac signs, this one is probably the most high-minded of them all, with a very clean line of thought. The Metal Roosters can distinguish right from wrong very clearly and it doesn't matter which direction they pursue, they always wind up going the right way. If they confront a maze, or big problem, they will immediately see a solution because of their analytical, logical way of thinking. Through their perseverance, any hurricane becomes an orderly thing of beauty, just like that! When it's time for romance, the male Metal Rooster has no trouble at all, love just abounds; the female has a tendency to keep to herself, making connections less freely, but lastingly when they happen.

    Interests
    Acupressure, Anime, Aromatherapy, Chi Kung, China, Computer Science, Existentialism, Fun, Hyperdimensional Physics, Hypnosis, Japan, Jeet Kune Do, Jiddu Krishnamurti, Life, Lost History, Museums, Mysticism, Neuro Linguistic Programming, Origami, Philosophy, Poetry, Psychoanalysis, Quantum Physics, Romance, Science Fiction, Sexuality, Super Eurobeat, UFOs, Wing Chun, Zen

    Favorite Music
    Affirmation by Savage Garden, Jaded by Soil, King Of The World by Porcelain & The Tramps, Pain by Three Days Grace, Praying For Sunny Days by Hyper Static Union, Pure by Superchick, The Ocean by Mae

    Favorite TV Shows
    Babylon 5, John Doe, Jurassic Park, Kung Fu, Star Trek, The Outer Limits, The Pretender

    Favorite Movies
    48 Hours, A Walk To Remember, Aeon Flux, American History X, Army of Darkness, Battlefield Earth, Bill & Ted's Bogus Journey + Excellent Adventure, Black Mask, Blades of Glory, Bliss, Catch Me If You Can, Clash of The Titans, Clue The Movie, Coming To America, Daredevil, Dark City, Death Note I + II, Dragonslayer, Dungeons & Dragons, Enemy Mine, Equilibrium, Escape From Los Angeles, Escape from New York, Explorers, Eye of The Beholder, Fantastic 4 I + II, Far & Away, Fearless, First Strike, Fist of Legend, Future Sport, Great Expectations, High Plains Drifter, Hot Fuzz, In The Mouth of Madness, Innerspace, Iron Will, Joseph King of Dreams, Jurassic Park, Kates Addiction, Krull, Kung Fu The Movie, Labyrinth, Legend, Masters of The Universe, Mr. Nice Guy, Ninja Scroll, Ong Bak The Thai Warrior, Outlander, Phantoms, Pitch Black, Predator, Queen of The Damned, Reign of Fire, Returner, Rumble In The Bronx, Save The Last Dance, Screamers, Shadow Hours, Sky Captain & The World of Tomorrow, Soldier, Spaceballs, Spiderman I + II + III, Stealth, Street Fighter II The Animated Movie, Superman I + II + III + IV, The Aviator, The Big Hit, The Chronicles of Ridd**k, The Core, The Corruptor, The Count of Monte Cristo, The Cutting Edge, The Day The Earth Stood Still, The Fast & The Furious Tokyo Drift, The Fifth Element, The Girl Next Door, The Hitcher, The Illusionist, The Island, The Kung Fu Hustle, The Last Dragon, The League of Extraordinary Gentlemen, The Legend of Drunken Master, The Lover, The Master, The Neverending Story, The New Police Story, The Prestige, The Saint, The Thirteenth Floor, The Transporter I + II, Time After Time, Titan A.E., Tremors I + II + III + IV, Unforgiven, V For Vendetta, Walking Tall, War, Wicked, Willow, Wing Commander, Young Einstein

    Favorite Books
    Anything by Isaac Asimov, Anything By Robert Heinlein

    Favorite Quotes
    The meaning I picked, the one that changed my life: Overcome fear, behold wonder. ~ Richard Bach
    The man who can smile when things go wrong has thought of someone else he can blame it on. ~ Robert Bloch
    The mere fact that you have obstacles to overcome is in your favor. ~ Robert Collier
    The most intense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calm that is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and their conflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results. ~ Carl Gustav Jung
    Never start a fight but always finish it. ~ David Sheridan
    Thinking will not overcome fear but action will. ~ W. Clement Stone
    One man in the right place at the right time can change the course of history. ~ Sun Tzu
    Many wealthy people are little more than janitors of their possessions. ~ Frank Lloyd Wright
    Accept the ways of others. Respect first your own. ~ Master Po
    As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all. ~ Master Po
    Discipline your body, that you may find a greater power... Those who surrender themselves find inner strength...When the heart knows no danger, no danger exists. When the soul becomes the warrior all fear melts as the snowflake that falls upon your hand. ~ Master Po
    Fear is the only darkness. ~ Master Po
    How does one find the strength within himself ~ Caine
    By being one with all that is without himself. ~ Master Po
    If I love others and they do not love me, I shall feel great pain. ~ Caine
    That is what you risk... great pain or great joy. ~ Master Po
    Seek first to know your own journey's beginning and end; seek then the other journeys of which you are a close part. But in this seeking know patience. Wear their traveler's cloak which shelters and permits you to endure. ~ Master Po
    Deal with evil through strength - but affirm the good in man through trust. In this way we are prepared for evil, but we encourage good. ~ Master Kan
    Does not the value lie in what one does with either [victory or defeat]. ~ Master Kan
    He is the strongest and the weakest... to be violent is to be weak. Violence has no mind. Is it not wiser to seek a man's love than to desire his swift defeat? ~ Master Kan
    Is it not better to see yourself truly than care about how others see you? ~ Master Kan
    It is well to consider deeply before binding yourself to an ideal, a cause, a man. For what is an oath worth which binds the man who makes it to an unachievable task. ~ Master Kan
    The wild boar runs from the tiger knowing that each being well armed by nature with deadly strength may kill the other. Running he saves his own life and that of the tiger. This is not cowardice. It is the love of life. ~ Master Kan
    Those who speak convincingly of peace cannot go armed. Those who speak convincingly of peace must not be weak. So we make every finger a dagger. Every arm a spear. And every open hand an ax or a sword. ~ Master Kan
     
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  19. EmptyForceOfChi Banned Banned

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    Aha, your a metal rooster. I had no idea you read into feng shui or chinese astrology. I am a Wood Ox. you dont seem like the rooster type they are usualy outgoing and proud.

    I didnt read the rest it looked annoying but anyway Hi wasup.


    Peace.
     
  20. John99 Banned Banned

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    the only advice i can give is:

    go to a gym every day for an hour or more.

    grow your hair to shoulder length or more.

    change wardrobe to something dirtier. ripped jeans and construction boots is good enough.

    dont talk much if you are shy. let your own style do the talking.

    watch early clips of marlon brando...thats will help you immensely.

    just remember, this only needs to be done for a few years.
     
  21. EmptyForceOfChi Banned Banned

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    Ok I Like you favorite quotes, I felt rude for ignoring your content so i read it.

    Whats the point of this thread by the way why are you sharing so much information about yourself?.


    peace.
     
  22. EmptyForceOfChi Banned Banned

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    Did I miss something?. is this a Help darky thread? i dont think he asked for a make over ^_^


    Hi


    peace.
     
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