She's made her decsion, she feels used, leave her alone. How a guy behaves after sex with a girl/woman for the first time is all improtant, if after the act the male immediately distances himself, the female will feel used. Thus regardles of natural hormones to depart/sleep whatever, you have to learn the art of after sex cuddles and reassurance, compliments etc. and of corse a desire to remain in touch and then remian in touch. If you talk about her and the sex and it gets back to her, it will make her feel cheap, not the sex with you but rather the fact everyone talking about her and saying she IS cheap. She is just a kid after all. She feels emabarrassed and ashamed, which she would not do if everyone did not have her 'spread legged image' in their minds because you told those she knew. Telling people you know and she does not would not been a problem. Telling people she knows is sheer stupidity. But you know better now right? Discussing this on an internet forum however (as long as you don't have a snail trail that leads back to you and her) is not problematic as it is anonymous unless of course you are merely sharing with us fact you had sex and the rest of the problem you recite is a diversionary tactic to excuse your brazen proclamation. If the girl is still in touch with you and hints she desires you but is unsure, then she is seeking reassurance, this cycle of needing reassurance CAN last a very long time for some women, as you will learn. It may be easier for you to just move on. The delay in re-establishing sexual contact is also her means of punishing you, another tactic women use when cross with their male counterpart, withdraw sexual favours.
ok im 15, shes 17, weve been "dating" or whatever for a year, it wasent banging there were cloths on i havent talked to her for a few days, i mwaiting for her to cal lme im fucked over by my parents casue they found my porn, and ciggeretts on me so she is not my #1 concern anymore. Thanks il lre read al lthe posts hwne my parents leave the room im fucked man, just fucked.
well im flirting with a few other girls now, and well, il lask her if we cna jsutbe ifrneds next itme i get around to calling her. how does that sound guys?
jesus christ this thread is like a 10 year marriage to divorce and everything in between :S will somebody please think of the children!!!
At the start I am commenting specifically re this girl, at the end I am commenting on future relationships and hence what he needs to learn to do, in that next time he fucks a girl in the park, he cuddles her afterwards instead of saying ta ta and go off for game of footie with the boys or whatever he did Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
your parents will be 'pretending to be cross' but really they'll be saving your porno stash for their own pleasure when YOU go to bed. They did it, still do it, so relax, it's not a big deal.
it sounds like she was right about you all along, you just used her as a play thing. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
shes the one that i waited 7 months for and tried to fix what happned! now, after 2 weeks ( not alot of time but when it comes to high school time it could be) i want a rea lrelationship, which is how i got a crush on crystal, but...... shesi possible i tried to fix things and she just said thats what they all said, and she hung up, so i dont know whta to do, im ognna tla kto her tel lher were jsut gonna be ifrneds for a while LIKE SHE WANTED see where thta goes
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