Well, I was going to post a pic, but it turns out that I don't have any on my computer. Is that pathetic or humble? Reactions to my looks are always sharply divided, because of my long hair. Some love it, some hate it. It is an odd phenomenon. Anyways, it all comes down to personality. Many good looking men aren't very interesting characters, as with women. Society pressure causes a desire to look good, so many of the poeple who look good are actually people who are completly vanilla folk who are don't deviate. Now, of course, some people look good because they try to better themselves towards their own standards, and those people are often extremly interesting. Ugly people, though, are always different then the mainstream, and therefore are always at least slightly more interesting then societal conformists, and sometimes much more interesting.
Yes you can be ugly as sin and pull absolute stunners ive seen it countless times, you do however have to be an absolute cunt and be completely devoid of any social conscience. So if that isnt you, looks still matter im afraid.
Then these women are doomed....."date" ugly men and you get ugly kids. Beauty is a visual representation of genetic quality and integrity. Someone tell that to these stupid women.
Wow since when are Christians so vain? Sandy you are some piece of work!! Sometimes the gorgeous guy at first site turns very ugly really fast when he opens up his mouth and his huge ego starts. I think average guys are more attractive overall because they don't depend just on their looks to get a woman. Really, everyone sees attractiveness differently. Once a persons connects with you on the inside, they become more and more attractive.
Actually i would probably hit on you in the first case. Over all though men are just as superficial aas women, we just don't LIE about it.
Stop lying to yourself...if a hot guy asked you out you'd be all flattered and happy to go out with him.... Girls are just as superficial as guys....they just enjoy lying to themselves... Hot girls shouldn't have to settle for ugly guys, they should settle for hot guys...
Got to be one of the most accurate posts I've read here. Anyone with an objective eye can tell that generally there isn't a great deal of difference in the genders, one of the few being the great deal of open honesty exhibited by men. Sad really, one of the first things that'll break my friendships is fakeness. On topic - Nobody prefers ugly people, and you're a damned liar if you state otherwise, but not everyone goes for the good looking people and fails to see and appreciate beauty of the heart.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
But ugly or attractive is also influenced by your culture as I've witnessed what one considers attractive, others don't. Some people really are very mainstream and judge people based on those guidelines. For instance, most westerners find blonde, blue-eyed people the most attractive while I would find a brunette more attractive because I like the look of mystery or intensity. There is a difference between judgeing someone based on attractiveness if you were working for a modeling agency and aware of the types of people considered generally attractive to the public and what you find personally attractive.
I doubt it would just be based on your hair. Even if you were considered attractive by general consensus, that's still opinion. There is no such thing as "actual" good-looking. If you don't look like ken watanabe, the rock, or johnny depp I wouldn't consider you in the league of most attractive males and still these people could still be improved on hypothetically. As well, I like the benetton, mixed look myself especially in ads. So your 'vanilla folk' theory serves people who have your beauty standards and tastes.
I would be flattered if anyone asked me out hot or not......Second of all what I find hot my g/f may not. Hot is different in everyones eyes. We all have things that stand out that make someone attractive to us. I think men are way more vain when it comes to looks then women.
i have noticed that women tend to look at other women more than men. i always catch women looking at other women when they think they are not looking, maybe they are comparing themselves, maybe eyeing up competition, maybe they are lesbian who knows. peace.
Now that I've been thinking about it there may be valid reasoning behind this idea. Let's say a female has their man taken away, well then they will be alone. Now if he's ugly as hell then she need not fear him being removed from the relationship, thus she is in control and he has none. Logical ehh?
