To Porn or Not to Porn?

we've already covered this in anouther thread, if she was happy, safe and sure thats what she wanted to do then yes it would be ok with me, if i said "NO YOU CANNOT DO THAT" the chances are she would do it anyway!

 

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that makes me sad.

 

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what can you do, you have kids, if you tell your kids no enough times they will go and do it anyway!!

but at the end of the day it is up to the kids and not us, i wouldnt be happy about it, but its better than loosing her to some scum bag!!

 

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I tell my kids no all the time. Every time we walk past the belly-button piercer in the mall, I turn to my daughter, stop, point, and say "NO!". Over and over they hear NO!
I am not about to say "go ahead and drink, you're gonna do it anyways. Go ahead and do drugs, you're gonna do it anyways. Go ahead and...."
When it comes to my kids, I am the law.

 

no your right, piercings are for when they are old enough, and drinking is also for when they are old enough, has is sex, but somtimes its best to let your kids, when they are adults go of and expierence new things

 

Asguard, I was being tongue in cheek when I called it self abuse. I don't think it's wrong at all. If there were some good slang words I'd call it something else.

 

Agree with the navel piercing thing! I got that done when I was 17, I thought I had finished growing, but I grew some more and it migrated upwards. It's more of a surface piercing now.

 

I think porn, is ok.

If we didn't have it, i speculate that rape would be higher.

But i feel there is also going to be greater demands for the general public for porn, because in the end of the day, guys and girls, have you ever found yourself getting bored of the same porn, to the point it does not satisfy completely your needs? The outcome will be that we find ourselves buying even more porn, to satisfy out kinky hidden desires.

 

oh yeah and for the record i had my first piercing done when i was 10, my nose, then my ears at 11

 

You pierced your nose before your ears?

Anyways, there are things I still don't do for fear of my Mom finding out. I'm more afraid of her than I am of prison. lol

 

I think most peopel have filmed themselves having sex. It aint pretty. It looks nothing like real porn.

 

orleander in order to be a porn star in 90% of countries you have to be over 18. Which means they are legally adults and you as there parent lose all legal control. You can try to talk them out of it but they can also tell you to stick your head up your ass, thats just life. after 18 a parent is there as an advisor in whatever roll the "children" chose rather than as an inforcer. This lessens even further once they move out and start there own lives (and im dam sure a porn star would have enough money to buy a house)

 

OMG Really?!

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They can't be a minor while making porn? WHEW! I was sure worried about my 10 yr old daughter. My kid is an adult at 18 and I have no legal recourse? None? Can I smack the crap outta her when she tells me to stick it up my ass? Or is 18 the cut off for that? I can't drag her out of that gang bang? Damn. Well, maybe I should start being an advisor on her career and maybe she will buy me a house then.
Thanks for the info. I always know I can go to you for great parenting advise. :thumbsup:

 

I was rerfering to this:

Thats great right up to the point where they turn 18 and can do whatever they want even if its just to spite you

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LOL, You're killing me!!! :xctd: You actually think my kids can do whatever they want?! LOL! I suppose legally, in a perfect world, yes, they can. Your mother and I are obviously worlds apart. Never at any time have I raised my kids to think they can do whatever they damn well want.

 

actually i live a state away from my parents (not because i dislike them but because my partner lived over here and i had to make a choice as to who to live with)

In the end its MY decision wether i get a tat, get peirced or do porn (or even prositute myself) not theres.

 

yes i did!

and i owe my mum nothing so she hasnt got a say in what i do!! unfortunatly i would like to think that my kids would have more going for them than making porn films!

but if they want to do it, when they are adults then all i can do is stand by them and make sure they are safe and happy

 

..and after few years in 'porn heaven' and got 'spent' and when none is interested to watch her or her movies, she will see you as the 'madame' of a whorehouse not a mom..

 

I think what Lucifer means is that once your offspring are of legal age, you have no real veto power. Sure, you can give them nasty looks and do a lot of posturing, but at the end of the day you have no actual legal power over them. Hard life, huh?

 

and everneo, thats not a bad job either!!

i dont see why people are kicking me for saying this, but when she is 18 i will have no say in what she does/says/wear/ who she has sex with!