Oh, come on, guys. Draqon's message, to me, simply says: "Love the children you have left all the more." Sure, he's a creep, but I don't think he's in here trying to creep it up. He's trying to be nice, I think. It's just that his stilted use of the language interferes with effective communications.
Yes I have a son who just turned 21 in April. Gina is my baby girl she is 18 she would have been 19 in one June 30. Never-the-less thank you guys for your kind thoughts. GOD bless
I am alive because I choose to be alive. You are not my God or Guardian, for me to follow your command. I stand by what I said "Love the children you have left all the more." The Son that he has left, he shall cherish him more and care for him so that what happened to daughter will not happen to him.
pasquala, Whatever we say here cannot be enough to lessen the grief you feel and cannot be enough to give you the comfort. The worst thing that can happen to parents is when they outlast their children. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
People who are arguing with dragon think about what you are doing. I also did not feel dragon comments were meant as offensive. They might be miss-worded but I do not believe this was intentional. However, it is intentional if you are now turning this thread into the standard Sciforum arguing over nothing. Please everyone agree to drop it Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Why would they wait to put the childs death in next weeks paper if she died on Wendnesday June 18? It would make no sense at all.
Draq, if you had a gun, you would shoot yourself in the foot for comments like that. It's not really the case Invert AT ALL, or really the fuckin point. It's ignorant to make a song and dance, or in Draqs case, a cryptic and philosophic song and dance of someone who has suffered a recent loss. You leave such things till the person has regained some power of control, and that can take years even at that.
As much as draqon so seriously annoys me this isnt the place to throw shit at him, grow up. I'm so sorry to hear that, i lost someone close in my family recently and it hurt like hell; but to lose to own child i cant even imagine, for once i offer my deepest sympathies Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Although our sympathy may not mean much, you have it. You don't know what you have till it's gone, and that is a sad fact.
I am so sorry to hear you sad news, I can't imagine how much pain you are going through right now. I know I am just someone on a forum board, but I really feel for your loss. I know how it feels to lose someone you care but to lose a child, its almost unsurmontable, I admire your courage to be able to talk about this and share your grief on this message board, if this is helping you in some way, I feel good for you. God bless you.
Honor your daughter's memory by living as she would wish you to live. That's all we can do for anyone once they're gone, but it's a powerful thing to do.
Remember the good times and keep her essence alive inside your heart. She has transformed and her energy has moved on, she doesent need my prayers but I will pray for you and the family to be given strength to cope. peace.