u know what.. dont be a party pooper in someone elces thread!! what if she likes this? what if it helps her?
but if they wanna be sad and think that now is the time to go ohhh poor thing, wish I wasnt 20893472o934miles away from u so I could do something besides take ur mind off of it, and make u laugh.....http://www.sciforums.com/showthread.php?t=97452
Last time my heart got broken I turned to the wrong people for comfort and discovered just how evil old ladies can be.
so what have you learned since than? Which people to turn for understanding? What helps in this situation?
Dear Jessie. I'm sorry you have to go through it. This isn't comfort, but you WILL come through this STRONGER and much more capable to deal with future trials. Here are some truisms for you to read. Maybe something will strike you. Check it out. This is neat! http://mfx.dasburo.com/art/truisms/
Well, let me tell you....lol. - Eat, eat, you must get fat! Nobody wants a skinny woman. Well, nobody will want you anyway, so you better realise that and kill yourself or become a whore. I learned to trust nobody. Just be silent and listen to yourself.
i'm really sorry. i know it's hard to realize this right now, but you're not alone. i believe in fate and development. if it's meant to be it will be, and what doesn't kill you just makes you stronger, and smarter. *hug*
Yoiks. Too depressing. I sez, try this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QEhRwjU52JY Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
It seems like everyone's suggesting things to suppress the pain that you're going throgh and that's all good in the short term (personally I think chocolate, pies and ice cream; some south park; music that makes you feel on top of the world and things that just keep you busy like knitting or walking). However.. Some day, probably not right now, you're gonna need to experience that pain at it's worst - going through old photos, listening to their music, finding things they've left behind. For me getting through this right at the start of a breakup was the easest way to move on. That and some serious retail therapy - feeling pretty always makes me feel better
It seems like everyone's suggesting things to suppress the pain that you're going throgh and that's all good in the short term (personally I think chocolate, pies and ice cream; some south park; music that makes you feel on top of the world and things that just keep you busy like knitting or walking). However.. Some day, probably not right now, you're gonna need to experience that pain at it's worst - going through old photos, listening to their music, finding things they've left behind. For me getting through this right at the start of a breakup was the easiest way to move on. That and some serious retail therapy - feeling pretty always makes me feel better
First off, I just have to say wow. I can't believe how many people responded to this thread! I feel sooo much better just knowing that people even care to post Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Thank you everyone...it really means a lot to me. I'm not a person who asks for sympathy or help a lot so to have everyone offering such positive suggestions is really awesome. I feel loved. Thank you, Mac. I don't know what sunshine up my ass would feel like, but hey...anything that helps right, lol. Thank you for being real. I'm holding off the rebound for now, but you never know Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! I definitely have enough cats to die with (4). Lol, thanx Draq. God knows how many times we've already run into each other and have never known it. Thanks for the support of my thread, I didn't want to come off whining, but this is worst pain I have ever felt. Yeah, more rainbows! Great song! I love all types of music. Thanks for sharing with me! LOL. Beautiful. I always wanted a man who could write good poetry. Vacation would me great. My friends have been amazing. I have some truly great people in my life. I'm doing my best. I love that movie! This really made me smile. Can't go wrong with Nirvana, lol Again, thanks for the support Mac. Thanx Draq. I'm trying to believe what you say is true. It's hard, but I'm getting there. I used to love Lisa Frank, by the way. Good pic! LMAO. I don't even want to know, but it made me laugh and that's what I needed. Thank you!! I don't know what I believe, but your supportive thoughts really mean a lot to me. This song made me want to kick some ass! I need some serious spa therapy. I need to feel beautiful and sexy again. Again, thank you everyone who offered positive and funny thoughts! Keep em' coming because I know I'm not the only one out there who needs to something positive in their life! XOXOXO
Seven years is a long time. It could have very well run its course. Just because a love or relationship ends doesn't mean it wasn't real.
