What's your view about monogamy, infidelity, and inbetween

Discussion in 'Human Science' started by Pasta, Apr 22, 2010.

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How do you go about your relationship ?

  1. Pure Monogamy, don't even look at someone else.

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  2. Monogamous, but scoping others is ok.

    7 vote(s)
    50.0%
  3. Monogamous, but flirting with others is ok.

    1 vote(s)
    7.1%
  4. Open relationship, just occasional 3-way shared sex.

    1 vote(s)
    7.1%
  5. Open relationship, occasional sex flings with others.

    2 vote(s)
    14.3%
  6. Open relationship, lots of sex flings with others.

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  7. Infidelity, rarely cheat on relationship.

    2 vote(s)
    14.3%
  8. Infidelity, bisex.

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  9. Infidelity, lie lie lie, cheat cheat cheat as often as possible

    1 vote(s)
    7.1%
  1. Pasta Registered Senior Member

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    Just a inquisitive question.

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    I'm more interested in seeing the poll results if lots of people check in.

    What's your view on the subject for yourself ?
    Do you believe in strict monogamy in a relationship, rampant infidelity in a relationship, or something in between ?
    I put in the bisex since there are people that cheat with the same sex.

    I personally go with monogamy with occasional scoping

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  3. Dywyddyr Penguinaciously duckalicious. Valued Senior Member

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    So cheating with the same sex isn't the same as cheating with the opposite sex?
    It's not "cheating" in the same way a married man sleeping with a woman he's not married to is? :shrug:
     
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  5. Pasta Registered Senior Member

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    Of course it's cheating either way, but it's a lot more of a dramatic shocker

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  7. John99 Banned Banned

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    i put monogamous, but scoping is ok. when you go out you see people always scoping other people and not really always due to attraction so it is impossible to avoid.
     
  8. John99 Banned Banned

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    not for me it wouldnt be.
     
  9. siledre Registered Senior Member

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    if you can't keep it in your pants (for anyone other than your significant other) when you get married, don't get married.
     
  10. Stoniphi obscurely fossiliferous Valued Senior Member

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    Word, that.

    Additionally, it is quite difficult enough to handle one woman, I shudder to think of the difficulty involved in dealing with more than that.
     
  11. staciet Registered Member

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    I answered monogamous, but scoping. When I am with someone I am with them only. You can always browse the menu as long as you remember that you already have your order.
     
  12. PieAreSquared Woo is resistant to reason Registered Senior Member

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    what a bunch of Puritans... no wonder ya'll so uptight ..lol
     
  13. staciet Registered Member

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    lol I'm guessing you are single or married and cheating...jk
     
  14. PieAreSquared Woo is resistant to reason Registered Senior Member

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    no I have open relationship .. she encourages me to have sex with other woman.

    She is totally hot .. 12 years younger than me .. a model... yeah I know I'm trying to figure it out too.

    Been married before.. never cheated .. all new territory to me
     
  15. staciet Registered Member

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    Wow! A man that will be admired by most men. 12 years younger...may I ask your age? I am 24 years younger than my boyfriend, am no model by any means, and would never dream of giving him permission to have sex with someone else. Although, I would like to be able to say he would have no reason to want to. With the major age difference and the fact that he was married for a number of years...I think I was a little too risque for him when we first started dating.
     
  16. PieAreSquared Woo is resistant to reason Registered Senior Member

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    me 55 .. 24 years younger!!.. what you trap him with a kid or something ?

    that's way too big a age gap ...imho
     
  17. staciet Registered Member

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    No, actually I don't have any kids. He has a son (17). We both agreed early in the relationship that we didn't want kids. So he had a vasectomy (spelling?). I have never been married and his wife passed away about 6 years ago. We decided that if our relationship leads to marriage that out of respect for his son we would not marry until after he turned 18. We are (or should I say I am, can't speak for him) happily in love and it is wonderful to not have the typical family expectations.
     
  18. staciet Registered Member

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    too big an age gap...why?
     
  19. PieAreSquared Woo is resistant to reason Registered Senior Member

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    oh that's cool .. a widow

    age gap? .. my opinion.. shit 12 is enough..IMO

    you hang out with each others friends???
     
  20. staciet Registered Member

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    Kind of...I moved here where he lives about 3 years ago. The only people I know here are his friends. I like most of his friends, their wives, not so much. I have found that most of his friends have been married for quite some time and the wives tend to be cheating on the husbands. I don't cheat so the women and I tend to not get along. As far as my friends go, he has met a couple of my closer friends and likes them, but we don't see them very often. But I have to say most of my friends are closer to his age than mine. I have always lived in an older age bracket.
     
  21. PieAreSquared Woo is resistant to reason Registered Senior Member

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    and the wives tend to be cheating

    Names and addresses to Dragon .. he's conducting a study

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  22. staciet Registered Member

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    LOL. He would be doing a study on something he knows nothing about.
     
  23. CutsieMarie89 Zen Registered Senior Member

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    I prefer monogamy, maintaining more than a few close relationships just sounds like way too much work for me. While I'd definitely would be furious with my boyfriend for cheating on me behind my back, I don't really care if he looks at other people. If you find someone attractive you find someone attractive not much I can do about that :shrug:
     

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