Someone just propositioned me for sex with no strings.......... unfortunately I just don't feel I can do this, while interesting they have 2 younger kids which I really can't get involved with honestly, not mine. So I shalln't even respond, no point. She can easily find another to take my place as she barely knows me anyway. I often wondered what I'd do in this circumstance....... It did happen last year as well, some young girl, but I found out she was engaged and so I did not pursue it, which got her abit mad for a day or two. But if I don't stand up for what's righteous who will? I can't just go sleeping around with these women that are involved or have kids and are just out of a divorce (messy). I'll be single forever but at least I won't have deep regrets........ ttyl PS Any of you had similar?
I can't imagine why you would even be telling us this(???). What are you - bragging? Some things are better kept to oneself.
I'd be having huge regrets for dying a virgin (or near virgin). Are you confusing fear with principles?
Didn't you make a similar claim last year? I remember bells commenting to you that "for the sake of the children DON'T MEET THEM, DON'T GET INVOLVED IN THERE LIFE'S"
Just because you're fucking the mother doesn't mean you have to have any part in her children's lives.
What makes them so bad that you wouldn't want to just date them, I mean you don't have to actually marry them if all you do is date them. I think you are just trying to pull our leg about this for anyone would date anyone else if they were divorced or had kids if they liked the other person enough to do so. You'll never know much about them if you never date them and find out more about them now will you so most of your worries are about what might happen if you really liked one of them and wanted to marry her.
DarksidZz, take the proposition, because you will not regret of having had a chance to have sex when you could. It's natural to have sex and want it, it is not natural to avoid it and be the virgin forever.
Come on, how tempted were you say that "you're a mother fucker" then? Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! How? Why? You take your peepee and place it in her woowoo, and take it from there... Has she asked you to play daddy to her kids? We know you did Dark. Because you have bugged us for years with hypotheticals about such a scenario.. Righteous? As opposed to nagging us about sex? It is for the best.. As the saying goes, 'think of the children'.. Uh huh..
In most cases, it is inevitable, unless her children are practically adults or the mother does not live with her children.
Surely that would depend on the couple involved. After all how many couples cheat for a long period of time without there partner knowing? Now if you think about the fact that young children tend to be more regimented in there time, less inquisitive as to what there parents are doing when they aren't home etc. mum goes out and leaves the kids at home or sees her lover when the kids are at kinder or school or at dad's place. Shouldn't be impossible to keep kids and sex separate if thats what the 2 of them want
Asguard: I was thinking more about single mothers who want a real relationship, rather than cheating wives. Obviously, if you're going to be all cloak-and-dagger about your sex life and lie to your family about it, then your kids won't be directly affected. They'll most likely only be indirectly damaged.
I think you misunderstood, I wasn't talking about them cheating I was saying that if its possible to cheat on a spouse it's possible to have a sex life without involving your kids. Why do you think that because it's not a relationship it would be damaging to the kids? Hell just look at my brother (who has just split up with his wife) he has my niece 50% of the time, a percentage of that she is at kindergarten. Now sure he works full time too buy if he had a women over when my niece is at her mums how would she know and how would it be damaging to her? It might damage her mum but fuck her, she kicked him out for no reason on the day after my nieces third birthday so who cares what she thinks
Well listen, despite my past thoughts and ideas on **** I am at heart a gentlemen. She just got divorced and I found out abit of her past, mostly she met this fellow and it was a fling sort'of then she just went along with it when she got pregnant. Fair enough, but..... I want someone abit more careful and she doesn't seem like she can be serious, at best I'd be a rebound which is not really very fun for me. Also I think of her kids, while I once didn't mind this notion of the woman having them after experiencing rather unusual behavior from a few I knew in the past I don't wish to pursue such a thing now. They are her kids with another man that she BELIEVED was the one, or was negligent with, either way both scenarios are saying stay away. Yes I may be a virgin forever, but I think having kids with random women wouldn't exactly be fun, and the stories I've heard tell me it would eventually happen if I lowered my level of thinking (and gave in to all these women).
Sex with no strings = sex with no strings. She sounds like she is not looking for some guy to be a daddy. The only thing you are avoiding is a great time. ......unless she is heinous gross for some reason. Otherwise that that, may as well give in. You wont regret it.
Dear Sciforums: This is the first time I've ever written one of these letters. I am an attractive separated mom with two kids. Recently, I noticed an ex-doughy Russian fellow in my apartment/workplace/church group who I propositioned for an encounter of a romantic nature. I know he has the requisite chloroform, ropes, shovel and bag of lime, but I just can't seem to get him interested. What can I do? Signed, ImprobaBillie
