You guys really are clinging to that first statement. Perhaps I should have said it differently. Anyway, I wish everyone at least one night of breathless, heart pounding sex, the kind that lives in your memory till the day you die.
And let's hope it happens early enough in life that your heart can take a pounding and still respect you in the morning.
If you were to remove the 'one time' condition the question would make no sense. It wouldn't be a dilemma.
As a friend of mine says: "My ideal death is in a strange bed, being choked to death by a jealous husband."
single events can critically shape character & personality however, that reality is not liked by those who seek to inflict their will on others so they make up lies to pretend that is not the case. their ideology & morals are flawed and it is easy to see their hypocrisy. the 1st, the worse, the best, the longest, the biggest... human intellect is an experiential mechanism of creative construction. the more experience the better the sum total of the end equilibrium. along with addiction issues, risk aversion is a very big driving evolutionary principal wound into morals and culture and behavior norms. the elephant in the room is the aspect of personal baggage and personal issues. those who have less hang ups and disorder have better quality complex outcomes of experiential process by default. trying to (can you/is it possible to)unwind the power and control aspect from sex(?) is extremely difficult considering the question you are asking, this question should remain on the shelf for a while.
Amen to that! Personally: I do not like being "in charge"/"in control". It places too much responsibility on me, and then creating a process to satisfactory completion is just too damned much work. Both of my wives proposed to me, and almost all of the women with whom i have had sex initiated the process. That being said I have found that even if/when they initiate the sexual encounter, there comes a time when they want me to "be in charge"-----------(sigh) (A firm hand on the tiller---so to speak) (one thing---I found it prudent to learn how to not have premature ejaculations long ago and far away) The same has been true in many of life's events with other people doing other tasks. I prefer to not have to plan everything and direct my fellows to the most economical process for the best outcome. When forced into a position of leadership, I even dream solutions to potential problems..........(there are many many other things I would rather dream of). ---Too damned much work........... The same is true of driving-----I am good at it, but prefer to let other people do it. It seems that the best interactions come from a mutual effort. alternately: Long ago and far away, a human cell(male) tried to eat a mitochondrial cell(female) and couldn't digest it. The mitochondria, finding itself inside a warm and safe environment decided to be a good symbiote and find something productive to do. Slowly, the mitochondria divested itself of parts that it did not need now that it had a good safe home. And now, we have both evolved together for our mutual benefit and most likely could not live without each other. ain't symbiosis grand
<------------------ brain man I've always been attracted to smart women................................... but a nice ass and sturdy legs also look damned good to me (have you ever followed a stranger just because you enjoyed watching her walk?) ..................................... Recently, a friend's 38 year old son fell in love with a jewish woman and had an adult circumcision (his dad was negative on the subject-----mostly because he thinks of circumcision as a form of mutilation) ....................... (the heart wants what the heart wants?)
i think they need to step into the 21st century unless there is some type of jewish tinder app ? do rabbis check these things ? is that the last stop gap for the women to know she is not going to waste her life with something that doesn't measure up ? seriously though. hello ! biggest pot of gold to skim from ? breast implants ? is it ok to have teen girls get breast implants ? ummm.... do men judge women by their breasts ? probably. is this just the same ? is there some type of subconscious sexual power control by the process ? hhmm... emasculating the baby ... or tagging its ear so you know which ones are jewish ? yes but what if someone chops off the other ear in a fight ? then what ? jewish space colonists shows their foot to show they have a toe chopped off to prove they are jewish ? i think it is a sign of low quality health care low quality parenting and poverty and 4th world places. much easier to just chop it off to prevent having to wash yourself properly (poor personal hygiene) 1800s when they didnt bath ? put your hand up if you want to have sex with someone who has poor personal hygiene !
