Http://www.heartless-bitches.com Xev since you're so popular and whatever, tell me what you think of that site. (incidentally that isn't meant as an insult... that URL is a site you'd find interesting I think) And can I have an autograph? or something ~Fatal
SwedishFish: Like...the Sonora desert? *Smiles* airvata: Seconded. Crying is weak - I'll admit that I'll do it sometimes, but I try not to and I don't get the people who think you should cry. FatalTalon: Whee, I'm popular! Makes up for highschool! I love the site. Check out the section on "nice guys": http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/ng.shtml This so true. Chosen, I like them in moderation. It's not just love songs though - I cannot stand the way our culture has become so mushy. But then, I suppose it's been that way for a while. Christ, bring back the 80s over this!
Personally, I don't think there is anything wrong with being a "nice guy". Personally I don't like being told I am a nice guy. First of all, "guy" is kind of a derogatory term, but I wouldn't like "nice man" either. The reason I don't like being called "nice guy" is because in our society it is a conventional and polite way for a woman to put a man off because the woman secretly thinks she is too good for the man. Thats really all it is is a put off. If bitches want to use the words "nice guy" to insult me or anybody else, then I suggest the right weapon against this attack is to trivialise the term "nice guy". The woman on this site that a few of you have found are liars. The proper mate for them is not halfway between a "nice guy" and a "jerk", it is instead a guy that is both an "asshole" and a "jerk" all in one, the worst of all worlds. Quite frankly I hope their bitterness one day becomes them in destruction and that they truly reap what they sow, because the miserly almost always find losers.
Fredx, you're bitter, your whole post reaks of it. The chicks on that site are saying it like it is. There's a difference. Women like nice guys, just not ones with no spine, no self esteem and no self confidence.... or people that hide under the pretense of being "nice guy". If you actually read that site's rants about "nice guys" you'll find it to be very true. That is, if you're capable of stomaching the truth. I don't agree with everything on that site, but I do agree with the nice guy rant. Xev, yeah. Took my awhile to learn that. ~Fatal ------------ To know that you do not know is the best. To pretend to know when you do not know is a disease. --- Lao-Tzu
i learned a new word! misogonyst. i misspelt it didnt i... how wlnightening. im certian ide be 1 sept i hate guys 2.
Says Xev: Oh no no no no no dear, you're not. And ain't it funny how people raise a stink over a gal that won't buy into dewey-eyed passivity and just as soon resort to labeling the poor girl a cold fish for not buying? an embittered hag? a purse-lipped pussy? Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight.......... Gendanken said once (thread "Placental Purge"): It's all about falling prey to the sham of corporate, organized suggestions in pink bottles and perfume. No thank you. Blast me with boy bands and Brittanies and my blood curls. And all those who don't believe civilized sex is not bubble-gum idelology have been hoodwinked. I'm not buying, nor selling. Says Freddie: Minion, thou liest. "Nice Guy" is a doting strategy you males employ with the girlies, and you dote and dote and dote like a dumbo til you're met with spread thighs. You're not being nice. You're playing nice. And the bitter end is yours since some girls with enough sense to keep warm can see through all that sycophant bullshit. Given nine out of 10 times its all thrown back in your face. This means means nine out of ten, Fred, you're reaping what you sow and not the other way round.
Gendanken: I get "lesbian" (stated much more grotesquely, of course) a lot. Worse yet is "Oh you poor thing, some man has broken your heart/you had a bad childhood" No. I simply don't see romantic relationships as the sine qua non of a pleasant life. Our culture has become so utterly vapid and weak. We've gone from a time when crying in public was rightly frowned upon to a time where it's almost acceptable. And this is what I'm trying to get at, not just the blather about "romance". Weakness, vulnerability, above all a need for other people have become a hip thing. To have relationships (not just romances) that transcend the mundane is seen as a declaration of perversity. *Smiles* Civilized sex? What sort of contradiction in terms is that? FatalTalon: Really? I for one am turned on by a man who feigns utter submission in order to get into my pants. Dissembling and cowardice is hot.
ha! and little do they know there's a loving serf out home about to drill your brains out like a hot bonobo Romantic idealism. The fallous harnessing of primal animalism and mislabeling it with gooey terms "love" and 'relationship' Follow?
Says xev: Moreso declerations of significance. Now where would our average joes and plain janes be without the drama of break ups and childrearing is beyond me.
gendanken: Indeed. Why would any man put up with such behaviour? Perhaps because he is actually a man and not an empty creation of Mills and Boone novels. More than follow. Sex, properly constructed, is a levelling, savage act. -Gasp- But sex is about love and lovemaking and having happy happy fun! What sort of castrating bitch dare suggest that it is interesting? Well it's certainly not a woman's undergarments. I'd suggest that it's the only way they can feel any sort of meaning. Where would they be? Back in a cubicle, of course.
Perchance because your veiled statement was void to begin with. Why you post on this thread is beyond me.
::gasp:: Well good god lass, dare you ask? Its only those cold fish, purse-lipped pussies that think otherwise.
