i need new friends

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by SwedishFish, May 1, 2004.

  1. SwedishFish Conspirator Registered Senior Member

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    i'm growing tired of my old ones. i find i try to spend less and less time with them and wish they'd go away sooner when i do spend time with them.
     
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  3. §outh§tar is feeling caustic Registered Senior Member

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    if they were "friends" you wouldn't get tired of 'em, now would you?
     
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  5. zougirl Registered Member

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    That's true. Friends are people that you want to be with and that you enjoy spending time with. I don't know if this is a recent thing, or not.. but it may be that you have moved on from where you once were, and they have not. Unless something has drastically changed in your relationship.. i think you should look within yourself and ask <i>yourself</i> what has changed there...
    I don't think it is the doing of your friends, but rather yourself that has created these feelings. It is something that you will have to deal with. If they are truly your friends, then you should be able to talk to them and no matter how it turns out, they'll respect you.
    Or, it could just be you're bored and restless and need a bit of a change.

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  7. SwedishFish Conspirator Registered Senior Member

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    a little of column A....

    i've definitely changed and moved on. but more than anything it's: "Or, it could just be you're bored and restless and need a bit of a change."
     
  8. Morteza Olangui Enemy of the people Registered Senior Member

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    Hi swedish...:
    That feeling is not good. I think something has happened within you. Take care. Friends, particularly the old ones, are not boring. You sure know the saying : Old friend are like old wines. They taste better. Try to look at them in a new way.
    When you meet them, try to find out something new about them and try to raise topics that are of interest to you and them.
    And look for new friends too. You know that having many friends is not enough while having an enemy is too many.
    P.S. by the way, how old are you? and Your friends? That is also important.
     
  9. Baal Zebul Somewhat Registered User Registered Senior Member

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    where in sweden do you live, that is also important.
    I live in Jönköping.

    www.intellibuddy.com might want to try it out

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    otherwise just do what i do, ignore being with your friends and try to invent something instead that you would get rich and famous on doing, such as AI.
     
  10. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    Life is full of changes and you found that you have "outgrown" those that you knew. Try to explore other areas that you may think that people may be thinking like you now. Say that you might go to a bookstore instead of a rock show or you walk in the park instead of sit in your house. Changes happen but friends are difficult to find as time goes by. Try not to be to judgemental about your friends for they, as you, have faults. You might end up having no friends but just acquaintances that you just like to see every once in awhile. Good luck. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
     
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  11. gendanken Ruler of All the Lands Valued Senior Member

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    Zougirl:
    I want to be around miserable people and enjoy spending time watching them wallow in gloom. They are not friends- only comatose gerbils you watch through the netting. Fun stuff.

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    A waltz through an English course would be nice.
     
  12. Blazin_billy Registered Senior Member

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    Ha, I just dumped a bunch of dumb "friends" this past year. The transition has been rough, but it was for the much better. Go for it!
     
  13. Rappaccini Redoubtable Registered Senior Member

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    All right! next time I see that one guy who thinks he's my "best friend" or whatever, I'll punch him right on the nose!

    Good plan?
     
  14. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    If you have two good friends then be thankful because not all people are true friends but just others that are passing through your life from time to time.
     
  15. zougirl Registered Member

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    To each their own, I suppose. Gives some insight into your character though.
     
  16. robtex Registered Senior Member

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    Maybe friends are cylicial and if you accumulate enough of them you can rotate them in and out of your life like season in a year.
     

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