first , the bad news ..... NO Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! and now my personal advice - give up your search , stop waiting ! thought the last five years that i won´t get ever my dreamgirl ( being introverted and shy + having vitiligo ) , and some while after i gave up , i met my ( btw very beautiful ) soulmate ... it was easy to talk to her , because i wasn´t blocked by any expectations :m: ps : don´t know if you really think so ... but if you think girls are chicks , hotties , bitches - then my friend , you´ll only get the crap ( and you deserve nothing else then Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! )
it´s matter of respect ... when i call a girl chick , what do i get called by her then? think i wouldn´t like it much
I would like to know what do i get called when i call a girl a chick...? Anyways...i didnt mean any disrespect to girls in general.(No offense ladies).
Nightfall, Any best lines that you can remember to help me? Tried hello ing and hi-ing to girls a lot, thats ok, you become Friends, but then it just gets even more uncomfortable talking in that sense, you know what i mean?...
Terminology is just one of many things in which there is no equality between the sexes. Women are allowed more latitude in the names they can call us. They can call us "boys" any time they want, but you'd better not call a woman a "girl" unless she's under 25 and younger than you or she's still in high school. When the word "chick" started being bandied about back in the 1950s, the equivalent term for a guy was a "cat." "All the cats and chicks are gonna get their kicks at the hop," a lyric from a popular song of the era. "Cat" fell into disuse probably 40 years ago, but "chick" is still around. Whether you can get away with it is a matter of context. If you're in a situation where slang is not only appropriate but preferred, where the males and females are considering each other as sex objects rather than human beings, and where you have some basis for adopting an attitude of familiarity with the woman or women in question, then MAYBE you can get away with calling her a chick. Take your cues from the other people and err on the side of caution. Very few women react negatively to being called "women" under any circumstances, and in a lot of cases you might gain respect for being polite. Interestingly, "chick" is from the Spanish word "chica," meaning "little [girl]." It came into English from the jazz music scene, which was once heavily Latino. In Spanish it's still acceptable in informal circumstances for a young woman to be referred to as a "chica." It's just as acceptable for a young man to be called a "chico," although probably only by a woman or one of his elders, not by another young man.
um, i would say everyone is looking way to into this. if you honestly want a girlfriend, thats REMOTELY attractive, then just be laid back!! if you try to hard, you'll look nervous, and make your self look like a fool. also, if you appear nerdish, then loose the style. get yourself cleaned up a bit, and go to local clubs with some friends. It would be nice to appear with some friends that are girls, to let other girls know what type of guy you are ( i can't explain, but it works) and don't pull out corny pick up lines, those are HORRIBLE! don't offer to buy them drinks, just do it. and as u do it look casual, as if nothing else changed. try to stay away from long conversations, because if your in a club, well....loud music. but honestly, thats alll you need.. 1) decent appearance 2) laid back personality 3) don't go places alone! you'll look desperate Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! 4) smell good, and good hygiene 5) DONT ASK FOR SEX, it will come. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
7) bite your lower lip, slip a few fingers into your pants on the side, have your other hand scrunching your hair, and have your leg leaning in like an innocent school girl... o wait, damnit, wrong thread!
NOT ANYMORE. i have some good girls who are friends, and i am seeing someone. she's exactly what i wanted. Sheeet. un buh livable. i dont believe i would be writing this... Rick (Duh!)
dude ill tell you straight up right now... its 50% looks (u have to basically look better than brad pitt or tom cruise) and 50% money....u basically gotta be as rich as bill gates.
Just a general comment to some people on this thread speaking on how to act, look, dress and be in order to get chicks... Simply be who you are. If you pretend to be something you are not, not only will they find out eventually and end up losing interest in you, but you will end up with someone you are not interested in. Personally, I would rather be alone than with someone I have no interest in. If it so more important to simply be with anyone, regardless of whether or not you find them interesting and stimulating, you need to do some work on yourself.
If you blame your problem on external forces like location, you are not going to solve your problem. You need to take accountability for your situation, and I think, as many others have pointed out, you can start by examining your attitudes. You are destined to find disatisfaction if you see women as the sum of their appearance. I can tell you as a woman, you can tell when a man only sees your surface beauty and that is all he is interested in. If you take the time to really try to see who the women are that you come into contact with, you may find something of value.
I for example have insanely high standards, and I haven't dated with anyone for some years now. I can well control my instincts and don't even consider lowering myself. Let the apes have sex, I want more.
