Find him a she-male with herpes.

that is not what i was getting at...

You know what I will find you a grenade and stick it in your hand.

I am darksidZz friend I will help him get out of this loop of idiotism of lack of sex. I will, because I am powerful, because I can, because I care.

I'm sure you're quite the ladies' man...

that was than, I have changed.

And that thread is lame. I was just upset cause I broke up with my ex-online-gf

Yes. Three years, and nothing. No marbles left.

But actually, I think it's good for you. Gives you focus somehow.

I think lack of sex can cause mental harm.

As humans, we want to be loved and touched and sex gives us both. It is also a way to release agression and stress and produces endorphins.

It's been said that the more safe and/or monogamous sex you have, the healthier you are.

So, Darksidzz...

get some ass for real so we don't have to worry about you going on a crazy shooting spree or dying from a heart attack.

How old are you anyway???

he is 28.

not at all. he wants companionship and that is understandable but either he makes this his #1 goal and actively does things that will facilitate this or he needs to resign himself to the fact the he will be without companionship.

at 28, he needs to have a job to have a relationship. he is getting past the point of casual relationships.

i recommend he:

get a career
join a gym
take an interest in his physical appearance

and then he can join some dating services.

or maybe subconsciously he like to be alone, which does happen and is not the end of the world either.

The nation needs a reserve of those of us who cannot get anywhere with women, in order to have volunteers for whatever vitally necessary suicide missions should happen to arise.

The more desperate or insecure we are the less attractive we are. Not getting laid makes people desperate and insecure but being desperate and insecure makes people not get laid.

When one has not been laid and is as a result is desperate and insecure because he was not laid as a result of being desperate and insecure stemming from not being laid...how does one get out of the loop, by faking his desperation and faking security with blatant lies and deception?

Faking might work if a person has acting skills.

Getting lucky can work. Getting laid makes people relax about getting laid and then they get laid more.

You never know when a temporarily unlaid insecure desperate person will stumble into a situation that gets them laid despite their insecurity. It happens sometimes when it is not expected.

Honestly, IMO at this juncture in his life he needs to say screw the foreplay and just get it over with. He's already said multiple times that the reason he can't get laid is poor self-esteem and the poor self-esteem is because he can't get laid.

The guy needs to either get it done or just give up. It's not that it's bad to be a virgin (he is, isn't he?), but if you are going to complain about it all the time then do something about it, ya know?