°Dilemma°

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by HarmonyStar, Jan 30, 2003.

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You find out your partner of 10 years had a sex change before you met him/her. Do you

  1. Stay with them

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  2. Leave them

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  1. HarmonyStar Harmony the Star Registered Senior Member

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    If you found out that your spouse of 10 years was born a male(female) and subsequently turned female (male), would you stay or would you go?



    [Disclaimer: This has nothing to do with my experiences - it's merely a question]
     
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  3. Thor "Pfft, Rebel scum!" Valued Senior Member

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    If I really loved the person it wouldn't make the slightest difference to me
     
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  5. Tallguy That's the way it is... Registered Senior Member

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    If the whole 10 years had been one big lie, I would have to go.


    (but maybe we could still be friends?

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  7. goofyfish Analog By Birth, Digital By Design Valued Senior Member

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    What would make it a lie?

    If the person was born, physically one gender but psychologically another, and had surgery to correct this, where is the problem? Where would you draw the line. What if they had a breast reduction before they met you? Are they living a lie? Interesting.

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  8. NightFall Lazy Hedonist Valued Senior Member

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    if i didn't notice anything odd the forst ten years, i dont think id care the rest....
     
  9. NightFall Lazy Hedonist Valued Senior Member

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    ^kinda what i was thiking.. i mean.. afterten years, wouldn't you be in the dr's office if you try to haave kids and it just wasn' workng? i mean. how would you try to cover THAT up?!?! lol
     
  10. NightFall Lazy Hedonist Valued Senior Member

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    no.... i think that there are many time when men and woman could be confused just by appearance.. ESPECIALLY considering that in this situtation they would've had to have surgery..

    remember the thread were you guess male or female?
    ...how many did u get wrong?

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  11. ralph nader Banned Banned

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    its all lies anyway. get out!
     
  12. Bachus Registered Senior Member

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    I would think so. After 10 years you find out there are only 2 things to do:

    1. Dump him/her
    2. Get glasses
     
  13. IXL777 mature with wisdom Registered Senior Member

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    A "Hermaphrodite" would be right up my street...You wouldn't know if your coming or going!!

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  14. Nosmo_king Registered Member

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    depends on how good the BJ's are....

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  15. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    i know a girl or was he a guy

    AHHHH

    no he started as a girl

    anyway i know a girl who has a sex change and to tell the truth when i met him, her whatever i couldnt tell WHAT he was

    this was before the change

    i havent seen him since but the guy whos friend he is said it all went well

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