Why does an electron spread when passing through a single slit? I mean there is a big hole that could atom without touching it. So there is no need to bend?
Because it has properties of both a particle (so it can do things like "fit through without touching the sides") and a wave (so it undergoes things like diffraction.)
Even in wave form it shouldn't spread that big since it is too small. Like how laser doesn't touch the corner.
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That's not how EM waves work. There isn't just one wave that starts and stops instantly. From a wave perspective it's a continuous waveform that is a lot longer than just a single wavelength.