Tiassa, I would have been willing engage in this conversation with you, but I find appalling your stance on 'a responsibility to show respect to people' - even while showing disrespect in the people you are saying it to. You accuse people of 'bawling' and 'slithering', and you demand that people 'answer the fucking issue', etc. This is not respectful discourse. You are guilty of the very thing that you rail against. You can point the finger at me as much as you want, but the fact is, you're being a hypocrite. You forfeit your right to thoughtful responses. Why would any reasonable person choose to accommodate this abusive behavior?