Do beautiful women only care about handsome looks and money?

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  1. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    I find it very strange that some men seems to have absolutely no idea whatsoever what women find attractive, I mean, how can you even remotely refer to Donald Trump as an even decent looking guy, it's like...there's ugly and then there's Donald Trump, there's no way a person could possibly get any uglier.
     
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  3. Zakariya04 and it was Valued Senior Member

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    Oh poor don!!!
     
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  5. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    What I mean is that if I don't find a person attractive, I will not pretend I do, no matter how much money he has or what other status that he might uphold in society. Both. Great.
     
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  7. Zakariya04 and it was Valued Senior Member

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    what about if you started off as friends with a dude who wasnt like a 8 out of 10 or something but was a really decent bloke inside would you be able to find him attrractive .. soemtime speople start off mates and it sort of like develops

    anyway how are you doing?!???
     
  8. Cowboy My Aim Is True Valued Senior Member

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    I'm not arguing that he should be a sex symbol. I just don't think he's hideously ugly. If you want truly ugly, try Clint Howard (Ron Howard's brother) or Brian Peppers.

    And if you honestly think Donald Trump is the height of ugliness, I'd have to wonder if YOU know what women find attractive.
     
  9. Zakariya04 and it was Valued Senior Member

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    eer hey cowboy i guess she shoudl she is a woman
     
  10. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    Haha, well...I usually don't find "decent blokes" attractive at all, no I've done that mistake before, sort of pretended I liked someone to not hurt his feelings, won't do that again.


    I'm doing GREAT!!

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  11. Zakariya04 and it was Valued Senior Member

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    yes i am doing ok thank you, you know i have posted about 10 times or so today, which is more than i have done for the last 6 months or so
    glad you are doing great

    ok so do you only find good looking whankers attractive then???

    I am lucky i guess i have been out with some hot girls and also the odd not so hot girl or 2

    I am married and i guess my wife is kinda hot!!!

    however that doesnt really answer the question of whether i am good looking or just fuck ugly!!!
     
  12. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    What I find attractive is very subjective of course. Many women find George Clooney attractive for example, I don't. I prefer that they don't wank so much though.

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    Good for you, how long have you been married?
     
  13. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    Post a picture and let the women vote, otherwise you will never be sure, live a life of superficial uncertainty.
     
  14. Zakariya04 and it was Valued Senior Member

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    I guess so!!

    we have been married 12 years in July, iuts been very upa nd and down, butwe are ok, thank you for asking

    hummm what matters is what my wife thinks of me = i am scared shitless the girls will think i am pretty ruffneck

    eerrr i coudlnt do that i dont think

    ok better go gotta pick the misses up from the station!!!
     
  15. SilentLi89 Registered Senior Member

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    I agree that Trump is on another level of ugly, but he's not completely alone down there. Depending on what is most important to you, money can compensate for ugliness.
     
  16. Pinwheel Banned Banned

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    Does a big dick compensate enough?
     
  17. SilentLi89 Registered Senior Member

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    No. Maybe for a one night stand (I'm not sure how you would know that before hand though) but not a relationship. Everytime you look at their face you'd throw up. Then you wouldn't even be in the mood anymore.

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  19. Cifo Day destroys the night, Registered Senior Member

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    Unfortunately, I generally assume first off that "gorgeous" women and "handsome" men as "high maintenance" --- meaning be prepared to spend a lot of time, money and effort for them to look the way they do, as well as the time that others spend drooling over them and luring them away from you.

    In a way, it's an addiction. Are they selfish "gold diggers"? Maybe they don't mean to be, but that's the way some of them live their lives because it's the only life they've known. And some of them expect to be entertained, and they expect someone to be their entertainment coordinator ... guess who. Been there, done that.
     
  20. Me-Ki-Gal Banned Banned

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    That is a good thing. More people should be like that . It would help dispel Denial in people . Delusions of grandeur . I have seen ugly girls that just think they are the stuff of legends . Bathsheba reincarnate !! Some guys fall for it too and become the whipping post. I am proud of you for not whipping the dog anymore . I m give you my blessing for this . Now that is what redemption is all about
     
  21. Me-Ki-Gal Banned Banned

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    I want to give you guys some hope here . I married up . She loves Me too . She is of extreme beauty and intelligence. In fact she is the big money earner in the family now a days too . The thing is she has been getting on Me bout me conjugal duties. You all know how these exciting sciforums are addictive. Well I can tell if I don't start being more attentive to her needs there could be trouble in paradise. Looks can be deceiving in the beginning of a relationship . That is why it is my opinion that you should get to know each other first and then if the sparks are still there after they pick there nose and fart you might just maybe , no promises have a lasting relationship.
     
  22. gmilam Valued Senior Member

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    Pot, meet Kettle.
     
  23. Pandaemoni Valued Senior Member

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    The obvious truth is that it depends on the woman, but in general, no. Most attractive women are not solely concerned with looks and money. The big caveat here is that we are all attracted to good looking people by definition. Women are also likely to be attracted by success. That success need not always have a monetary payout, but this is a materialist culture, so we often define success in such material terms.

    The problem is that humans (all of us of their sex) are very bad at determining what will make us happy in the long run, and our biology influences us to make choices that prove suboptimal if the sole goal were to be happy. Beautiful people tend to be more symmetrical and tend to be healthier than ugly people. That means they tend to make for good mates. Wealthy people will have the resources needed to give a significant advantage to offspring, tending to make them good mates.

    Even though those are not the only important traits, and the biological imperatives are not destiny, those biological imperatives do tend to make those two criteria disproportionately important. Women respond to them often without consciously analyzing the situation.

    There are other traits that also serve similar functions, like confidence. Many women respond to dominant males (even dominant males who are assholes), and confidence is a sign of a dominant personality, albeit one that need not be expressed as dickishness. Physical strength/fighting prowess is another trait that is disproportionately preferred. That one made sense 50,000 years ago, when defending one's family in hand to hand combat was an important skill, that has really lost its importance in modern life...but our psychology still developed in a world where that was a more important trait.

    Women of all stripes do appreciate kindness, character, intelligence, a sense of humor and all the rest, but those are not as immediate a trigger to emotional attachment as some other characteristics are.
     

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