i agree you can have multiples without a partner but it depends on your desire and wants and again how good something is; it being a partner or self pleasure. It is all mental!
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$2.99 a month to display your quote and avatar. PM Porfiry to find out exactly how. I used paypal. Yes this can be done also. It can be very tiring though. My mate can have up to 3 a night, but anything more is almost physically impossible. (not to mention you can get seriously hurt tryingPlease Register or Log in to view the hidden image!) 116?Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! I bet that record was fun trying to beatPlease Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Yeah, I agree... sucks to be a manPlease Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
^ did u know that a pigs orgasm lasts 30 minutes. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
if only men really were pigs. 30mins. that's too much. a woman once told me she had one for 3mins straight and i thought that would be too much for me. i think i would pass outPlease Register or Log in to view the hidden image! maybe i should stick with my 12secondsPlease Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Hmmm Not to sound like Sexy Chocolate the Love Pimp or anything, but I don't think that it is all in how well the guy knows what he is doing. stRgrl seems to thinks so, but I have given orgasms to women before, but I don't think it is always the guy's fault for the girl not getting off. My current girlfriend just won't! And that is really stunting my pride as a good lover... I have tried everything in the book and some other shit I just made up and she won't do it. In conclusion, sometimes the girl has to give a little in order to make it work. If any of you have ever watched the Sunday Night Sex show, they have some neat tips (heh, heh, heh), but they also said that some women won't orgasm because of some mental something or other; it is like an insecurity, so they just don't. This, however, has only developed because of the sexual taboo that has been instated for YEARS!! If women were taught to be more open sexually, and not looked at as sluts just for liking sex, more women would orgasm. Ah, the programmed response of modern society... Also, I saw on the discover channel that men have a muscle that is designed to contract and release to allow for blood flow to the penis and this is also the muscle that allows a man to ejaculate--I belive it is the PC muscle, but this one might also be a different one that I am referring to, I don't know for sure. Now the tricky thing is, men have that muscle, but so do women, only it is not the same muscle, nor does it work in a similar way. In fact, it is the opposite with men as it is with women. Like Spookz said earlier, men are trying to get their ejaculate into a woman by orgasm and women are trying to gather it in. Going off of that principle, you can understand how the orgasm works. Men are trying to get the ejaculate out; that is why guys tend to start off with such a short fuse (if you know what I mean). With practice, the duration can be lengthened, but it is going against nature to do so. Women, on the other hand, are trying to gather in ejaculate; thus, a female's body is designed to hold in her ejaculate. I might be mistken on this next part, but I think it is correct. The fluid of female ejaculate is designed to make insemination more possible; the reason it is so hard to get out, is by the whole survival of the fittest deal. If a male is good enough to make a woman orgasm, then he deserves a better chance that his sperm will inpregnate the female. In conclusion (I hate saying that, but it sounds scientific...I'm such a geek), woman by nature are designed to accommodate the best male suiter by their physiology to only orgasm when a male is of adequate sexual skill. Men, this means if you can't make a woman orgasm, you are not top of the line sexual material. So get workin on it!
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Qiothus II, You want to know how to prevent your self from coming while having sex, so that you can keep going to keep her pleased? But I warn you now that once I tell you might vomit. there are some things I disagree with from your statments above(lets say from my "special" study of human anatomy) but I am not a sexologist (that got to be a great job!) so I have reach the limits of my sexual openness.
yeah, how do you become a sexologist? seriously, ive never met a kid who said, "id like to become a sexologist when i grow up!" i mean, how do you tell that to your parents? Dad: so what do you do for a job now, son? Son: I'm working as a sexologist. ...dead silence and stares... hmmm, im sure it would be an interesting job though. but do you think sexologists ever get tired of talking about sex, or having it? kinda like the way people who work at pizza hut dont eat pizza for quite sometime afterwards? that would kinda suck, to get tired of sex.
I wouldnt say someone was a slut for liking sex, just for not giving relationships a chance and therefore having lots of diffferent partners (however one does not neccasarily imply the other because no-one can account for life circumstances!). Thats interesting Qiothus II! I have heard that before too about how a womans orgasm increases the chance of conception. This is also why when married women have an affair they are more likely to get pregnant from their lover than their husband! The contractions from a womans orgasm lift the sperm up into the uterus and it therefore increases the chance survival of the sperm let alone conception itself! (i think this is correct.) My personal goal is to see a woman begging for more Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! lol I know what you mean about sounding like a geek when talking like this too! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Actually not into the uterus... but up against the cervix. The uterus is self cannot uptake. The female reproductive track is design be very bad for semen and can even reject it (ask the ladies here to explain that… or watch a good porno) this is so that that a women can have sex with many men during a month and can very her fertility for each one depending on (subconsciously I hope) preference for each them. Hows that for geeky? Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
More to do with the brain, IMHO Technique? I think that it does play a part, but I also think that the brain is the ultimate culprit. I think a lot of it is mental in terms of what an individual is used to. If our bodies can accomodate to certain sorts of stimula (smells, touch, etc), wouldn't it stand to reason that if a person masturbated to orgasm in a certain fashion for years and years that they might find it difficult, or impossible, to acheive orgasm any other way? Those neural pathways for orgasm might be deeply ingrained. I have a girlfriend that, as a child, learned to acheive orgasm by sitting on her foot! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! She can't get off, solo, any other way. I find this odd, but it's evidence that something else is going on. I think that women also need to "learn" how to be attuned to this potentiality of their bodies. I do not have them: my single, solitarary, orgasm is usually so damned huge, and I am way too sensitive afterwards, that I do not even consider wanting a second to follow immediately it's place. I would likely freak out and someone would get hurt. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! I've read that because orgasm is dependent upon a person attaining a level of vasocongestion in the nether regions...that some women physically just do not reach that level required to orgasm. Supposedly you can take Histidine, a precursor of Histamine, which can make the orgasm response a bit easier...it'll probably make your nose a bit stuffy,too. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! 'Why' they aren't able to attain a high enough level of vasocongestion can be physical, or physical/mental: they need more stimulation and would otherwise orgasm, but are afraid to ask for what they want in bed. I think that this is less and less common over time and as sexuality isn't seen as evil or immoral. The brain essentially controls sexuality, and if your mind/brain is messed up with years of religious upbringing that instructs that sexuality is merely for producing children within a marriage bond...well then, you're in for some problems. Women in the past have been taught to be passive, that sex "happens to them", and that there is some shameful to being sexual. Someone here used the word "slut" in describing women's behavior and this is exactly what I am speaking to. If a woman wants to be sexual and with as many partners as she wants, what is the problem with that? A man with a similar appetite would be seen as a "real player", a "go getter", or referred to as "quite a guy" or whatever. Do you not see that even you guys, here on SciForum, have the same attitudes which make women feel guilty for their sexuality? So you wonder why women don't have multiple orgasms yet you bash them for going out and experimenting, for doing EXACTLY what you guys are likely to be doing. As for me, it's refreshing to see women breaking out of that these days feeling free to explore their sexuality no matter what that may mean to them. But I digress.... One thing that I have found, in my advanced years Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!, is that intensity of orgasms varies tremendously in women. (I have polled my girlfriends Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! ) My friend who has her foot as a toy, will sometimes say "Well, I 'think' that was an orgasm"...and in my head I'm thinking, "What do you mean you 'think' that was an orgasm?? If 'I' was having one you sure as hell would know...the whole damned neighborhood would know!" This particular friend claims that she has orgasm after orgasm after orgasm in a single session. I do have my doubts that what she is interpreting as an orgasm might be something entirely different..perhaps a mild contraction that might be perceived as one, but is something related, albeit not an orgasm. It may be that the woman who is able to have multiples is also not having the same intensity of experience that I may be having. How does one "rate" the intensity of an orgasm?Can we hook up a meter so we don't have to rely on "perception" which is inaccurate? How closely together, in terms of time, do multiples occur? At what point do multiples converge with single orgams that have many peaks and lulls? There are a lot of questions to the elusive female orgasm. Unfortunately, because we do not provide visual evidence of orgasm, you'll just have to take our word. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Thanks for letting me rant. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Women can decide to reject sperm you say?! What about women who fall pregnant as the result of an attack? How is this possible? I have a selection of porno's and ive never seen this. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! 'very'?! Is this a spelling mistake?? So your saying that women can choose their sperm?!! I dont know i if beleive this Wellcookedfetus. In fact im quite sure that i dont. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Yes that’s a spelling mistake Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! I said Semen not sperm, those little fuckers can get into anything! I’m not saying it can be done consciously. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Your telling me you have never seen... Ugh I am not going to explain it! Well is well when it comes back out aaah there is got to be some sick porno name for it.
So your saying semen (the nutritional fluid which sperm feeds on and therefore is mixed with sperm when it is rejected) can be rejected but not the sperm Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! ? The closest i've seen to that is a womans ejaculation. It was so powerful that it forced the guys willy out Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! lol. This was nothing to do with semen rejection though because he (or anyone else!) hadn't unloaded in her. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! p.s. he was giving it to her for aaages. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! (still have the vid if there are any potential borrowers out there Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! (not the little people 'the borrowers' Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! ))
Well then you either don't understand what I'm saying or you have't seen anything yet... which ever is you is not my problem. Yes the sperm swim out of the semen into the cervical mucus then into the uterus and so forth.
