i need phsycological help..

Discussion in 'Human Science' started by NMSquirrel, Oct 4, 2010.

  1. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member

    how many times do i gotta say it???

    not completely..no need for insults..i have read several books on psychology.
    plus have cornered a couple of psychologist and picked their brain,

    actually it is the reverse (although that is true) you still read more into what i am saying than what i am saying..how many times i have to say these are just my observations?? i have never claimed any basis in psychology i have only said i use psychology to communicate such

    experience vs education is another debate..(you are half my age..)
    you keep thinking i am insulting you when i am not..quote something that is a direct insult..not something you turned into an insult..

    im glad to see that you have educated yourself, but in some ways you still need some maturity(hell, even i will admit to that for myself)..IE reading more into what i am saying and taking it as an insult,and you are letting your personal feelings interfere with doing what is best.(IOW you are way too focused on your emotional state of being)

    if i knew what you say i do not know, i would not need help..i could do it by myself..i would have no need to ask for help.
    there is no point to you citing my lack of knowledge as i have admitted to such and yet you still continue..is your purpose to make me feel worthless or to educate me???
    if it is to educate me,you are failing..as insults do not educate.

    all this just reinforces my observations about worthlessness..as you are trying hard as hell to establish your own worth (pointing out my lack of worth does not validate your own worth) ,at the start you were doing a pretty good job at that..then you slipped and haven't recovered yet..
    why don't you just say sorry for calling that stupid and not worth your time, and lets move on..

    can we quit with the defensive conversations and get back to the educational conversations?
    Last edited: Oct 26, 2010
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  3. answers Registered Senior Member

    No worries.

    Post a question that you think is worth my time.

    Also the reason why I keep pointing out that you haven't done research on your topic, is because you NEED to research your topic. I've already told you to search google scholar for relevent articles and I would get them for you, please note they are around $14 each! So the fact that I can get them for you should save you a LOT of money. I'd rather put my time into getting you some relevent info, rather than arguing personal opinions on here.

    I don't understand why you want to keep discussing things on here, when you can do some research for yourself.

    You need to put in more effort than just discussing things on a forum.

    What psychology books have you read?

    And don't try and play innocent victim now. You blatantly went searching for information about me to discredit me, because you wanted to see if I really had a psychology background. You saw that I said your questions were starting to be a waste of time and stupid. Straight away this cut down your significance so you tried to discredit my opinion to justify your own.

    Now you are trying to say you weren't trying to discredit me by accusing me of lying etc...

    Where I come from being called a liar is a pretty big insult. And then being called a kid is also an insult.

    Don't try and act like an innocent victim or righteously indignant when you have blatantly been trying to discredit and insult me by calling me a liar and a kid.

    I never insulted you, I called your questions stupid and a waste of time. And if you remember correctly, you then said I called you a waste of time when I never did. And you accuse me of taking things as personal insults!
    Last edited: Oct 26, 2010
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  5. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member

    how can i answer that? i do not know which books are relevant..
    if i were to search, i would find all sorts of irrelevant books..
    (remember i said something about information overload..)
    what do you recommend as it applies?

    um..the second part is right..the first part is wrong..i wanted to see if you were who you said you were..(i am gullible to a point) (hey pat me on the back for doing SOME research.. lol)

    I had a friend in santa rosa (his name was Tim also..(btw that is my name also)) he was a compulsive liar, we were friends for a long time till i caught him in his lies..plus there are MANY other ppl who take advantage of my gullibility..so you will understand if i am a little OCD about liars..i did apologize to you..

    till you get old enough to consider it a compliment...
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  7. answers Registered Senior Member

    Articles are usually only 5 pages long, if that, so you shouldn't have a problem with information overload.

    If you don't know which ones are relevent I'll find 5 for you, email them to you, and then you can find further ones from the reference lists given in the 5 original articles.
  8. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member

    that sounds doable..
  9. Shadow1 Valued Senior Member

    Call Dr.Phill, always works.
    Last edited: Oct 27, 2010
  10. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member

    answers..this is what i am refering to when i say some ppl are too focused on their emotional state of being..
    it does not matter to you that the info was public domain..all you can see is how you feel about it.

    tattling to the ops to delete that post is not going to make that info disappear,it is on a public message board..accessible by anyone.hence it is public information not private.

    (i did delete your email and myspace stuff)

    see discussion on what is considered private information and what is not..
    Last edited: Oct 27, 2010
  11. Shadow1 Valued Senior Member

    are you talking to me?
    well, anyway, i have a better solution: jump from the window
  12. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member

    Mental Emotional Physical Spiritual
    Mind heart body soul
    think feel know believe

    politicians doctors scientists preachers
    I can see scientist = know(physical) and preachers(clergy,religious leaders,etc) = Spiritual

    Doctors and politicians are a guess..they dont quite fit..

    preachers take care of our spiritual needs,
    scientists take care of our physical needs
    ? take care of our emotional needs,
    ? take care of our Mental needs,
  13. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member

    Women take care of our emotional needs!(true enough...but it doesn't fit..)
    Education takes care of our Mental needs..

  14. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member


    physical love:
    the actual act of sex, or intimacy
    the bible calls this Eros

    mental love:
    the kind of love one has for a brother/sister/friend (nonsexual)

    emotional love:
    the kind that one feels for a spouse
    actually this encompass all the terms Agape,Philio,Eros, and Storge

    spiritual love:
    unconditional love
    again my thoughts fall short..
    Storge: the love that one has for immediate family, doesn't quite fit..

    and this kinda supports my thoughts about how to have a healthy relationship, (all four needs have to be met, to be healthy)

    which brings up the question;
    Is it right or wrong to feel like your spouse is your brother/sister?

    I would think this is the greatest compliment for a relationship, it means they feel like family..
  15. nghia_dtvt5 Registered Member

    I agree with NMSquirrel
  16. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member

    chy's wish list

    car set
    hot wheels
    an I-pad
    monster high stuff
    make up
    lego set
    4th grad level books
    avenger's lego set
    zu-zu pet set
    zu-zu pets
    microphone what works
    baby dolls
    a chair
    high heels
    dress up stuff
    wii games
    just dance 3 and 4
    candy land
    board games
    a computer
    and coloring books
    AND of course CAKE

  17. danshawen Valued Senior Member

    I don't have any feelings in any of those categories you mentioned, yet I feel just fine.

    Further classification of the dynamics of how I feel just seems like a stupid waste of effort to me. I almost always have better things to categorize and classify, and better reasons for doing so.

    You really need to experience what it is like not to think in this silly way.

    Something is obviously wrong with you, to categorize things that don't even need to be categorized like that.
    Last edited: Jul 28, 2014
  18. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member

    don't insult what you don't get.
    you seem to base all your decisions on how you 'feel'.
    you don't get this, so you feel bad, so you insult and demean it.
  19. Dr_Toad It's green! Valued Senior Member

    So don't take this as an insult when I suggest that you get help elsewhere.

    I'm a newbie to the site, but your emotional flailing about, whether you're trolling or not, is simply stupid.

    If you need help, go get it. You waste your time and energy whining here and trying to attract sympathy.

    Or you might try FaceBook. I'm sure someone there cares.
  20. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member

    ?? who you talking to?
    this thread has been dead for about a year..
  21. Beaconator Valued Senior Member

    It is all about transference. Humans have the most transference of any other species. when they communicate they transfer their emotions to the recipient. The recipient is stupid or able to re-transfer the emotion to another. Empathy is an inescapable fact of humanity and full of transference.

    Empathy is not only the same emotion but the same "feeling" which translates to the exact same beliefs.

    Dr. Toad. does not keep up with time.
  22. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member

    so you can pass on a bad mood, or a good mood, which do you choose to pass on?
  23. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member

    Think, feel, know, believe. I can believe you think you know how you feel, I can believe you know how you feel, I know what you feel is what you believe, I think everything you think you feel is what you perceive or view of your own thoughts, I believe your 'default' state of being prevents you from separating what you think, what you know, what you believe from how you feel.

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