Inappropriate people

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  1. birch Valued Senior Member

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    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/hanna...omen-smile-men-sexually-harass_b_9329138.html

    Just like today, i almost forgot. I almost forgot the world is full of people who will try to be inappropriate and they do it so sneakily and so easily society can do nothing. Another would say 'he seems to be an okay man', coming from another male who would not ever be a target so that is the reality they know.

    I was having a good day and then i got that slow, churning, creeping feeling start to well up from the pit of my stomach in a situation. it was my intuition letting me know something was about to happen and even though my 'logical' mind tried to stay positive, stuff that down, that it could just be imagination, it happened: the inappropriateness coming from the person i sensed was not genuine friendliness but with ulterior motive. Again, again, again with different faces and people but it is pervasive especially with men. Was it some homeless person? NO, it was in a seemingly normal situation. They are everywhere, scum has no specific racial, social or economic status. And then i come home and i have a sick and disgusted feeling of being tried and poked and pushed that is done disguised under pretense of innocent normality/friendliness. I fall to a dark space, the space of realism, once again. Stop the carefree, nice, bubbly, friendly happiness i wish i could just be and let be but i can't as there are many out there who will see that as an invitation to try me. it's always the same, the more friendly, kind or nice one seems, they are the prime target. people can get so annoying, you just want to blow them to smithereens.

    Then once again, i have to show my dark side, put nice back on the shelf and that i'm not to be messed with. I have to put my guard up again and again and again .. even though i don't want to live that way. i have to. and then hate wells up. i despise some types of people's very existence and then i wonder how the world is full of such disgusting assholes and evil and then i think there wouldn't be so many if their mothers had raised them right and how it's the mother and the women in their lives who usually have the most influence in a male's life and then i'm disgusted by most women besides just the men with their entitled patriarchy or veiled stench. I get angry at society and the veneer of it. How so many people just act the act while showing their true colors when bits of shade gives them opportunity to try shit and then act again when 'normalcy' is lights/action.

    I can get to a point where everything shuts off and i feel nothing. zero. cold. and i wouldn't care if every human died on this planet because i see it at least, even if some good people died, at least the rest of the human filth is gone too.
     
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  3. Beer w/Straw Transcendental Ignorance! Valued Senior Member

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    Is this you, birch?

    Maybe see a psych and get some meds.
     
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  5. wellwisher Banned Banned

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    The Huffington Post story is good example of the downside of liberalism. Back before the Liberal movement, which attempted to do away with traditional male and female behavior, women were more safe and placed on a pedestal. Watch an old time movie to see how Hollywood educated men toward women. Men would fight with each other in competition. Bit men would put down the guns and have more respect toward women, self policing each other. If you look at modern Liberal Hollywood now, they have a fetish with the dark side and the bizarre. The women are made to act more like men and therefore they are subject to male-male competition.

    As a modern example, if you look at Sanctuary cities, these will side with criminals, including rapists, as long as they have illegal immigration status. How these criminal behave among the citizens is not important as their immigration status. There is an agenda that allows for friendly fire. Conservative is more for law and order. This is more old fashion and extrapolates to respect for law abiding citizens, like the woman in the Huffington post story. Liberals will also give sanctuary to the psychotic, perverse and bizarre. It will even support fake news. It is all about agenda, with friendly fire considered part of the price of final victory; anarchy.
     
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  7. Jeeves Valued Senior Member

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    While, back in the real world, wife-beating was so normal, the police wouldn't even show up, and shift supervisors could have their pick of the factory girls with no interference.
    Movies lie now, just as they did in 1950. Trump's been groping beauty contestants for 5 decades.
    On the other hand, torture was not such a ubiquitous theme as it is now: the backlash seems to be pretty fierce (along with the general coarsening of sensibilities).

    I guess that's why the refuges in the Hurricane Katrina crisis were such notoriously safe havens.
    Dragging that bit of politicking was inappropriate btw.
     
  8. DaveC426913 Valued Senior Member

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    Twice in my life (both times as a teen) I have been with a girl when someone accosted her.

    Once, in a subway, a nasty homeless guy brandished some explicit porn at us while we were on our first date.

    Another time, in a crowded elevator, my gf (not the same girl) suddenly clenched my hand really hard. After we got out of the elevator, she told me the man had pushed his leg, deliberately, between her thighs.

    These things can happen so fast a second party may not have time to realize it's happened - let alone how to react.

    I wish I could go back and intervene the way I should have.
     
  9. birch Valued Senior Member

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    That's not what i've known. conservatives are the biggest 'closet' sinners. to them, if they can get away with it, then it's okay. conservatives are more apt to consider 'just' power, not right or wrong. they are very top-down. consider conservative trump, dummy. he used his status and power to intimidate and even degrade women.

    this is what i've always been saying and known. conservatives are often the most 'liberal' when it comes to morals. sorry wellwisher, they are just as, if not more, full of shit.
     
  10. billvon Valued Senior Member

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    They certainly seem to have a great deal of moral flexibility when it comes to which morals apply to them.
    "Abortion! It should be illegal! It's murder! It's killing a human being; stopping a beating heart! Well, unless it's me; there are special circumstances in my case that liberals wouldn't understand, so I should be able to get one."
     
  11. timojin Valued Senior Member

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    Did your girl have miniskirt ? I would assume she did . Remember what JFK said she shorter skit the faster they will have to run.
     
  12. billvon Valued Senior Member

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    And if there is any doubt whether such people still exist - Timojin gives a great example above.
     
  13. Randwolf Ignorance killed the cat Valued Senior Member

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    So... Whenever you see a girl in a miniskirt you just chase her down and give her what she wants, right? It's only natural - if she hadn't been wearing a miniskirt (that slut) it wouldn't have happened - obviously she wanted you to "do 'er".

    Any real man would've reacted the same... Right, timojin?
     
  14. birch Valued Senior Member

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    it wouldn't matter if one wore a potato sack. it's not about what you wear. it's also not just physical but verbal too.
     
  15. timojin Valued Senior Member

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    I grew up in a country where prostitution is legal. Consider a woman is a decorated container , so depends on the decoration of the package that is how you approach the woman. Sorry if it sounds bad, I had young sisters and knew families with girls , their dressing was modest. I don't think a man would be disrespectful to a woman dressed in muslim woman dress.
     
  16. timojin Valued Senior Member

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    I suppose you have read what happen in Europa between Immigrants men and local females .
     
  17. Randwolf Ignorance killed the cat Valued Senior Member

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  18. birch Valued Senior Member

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    if that's the case, that's only because they can't tell what she looks like. there is no justification for someone to harass you because you dress normally. i dress more tomboyish than do most women today. i didn't know t-shirt and khakis was so enticing. again, it has nothing to do with what you wear.
     
  19. billvon Valued Senior Member

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    Those two statements have nothing to do with each other. And the second one . . . I hope the women in your life are aware of how you see them.
    Misogynists are happy to attack women no matter what they wear. After all, they are just "decorated containers."
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    Girl and two adults tried to rip hijab from Muslim woman in vicious attack in Eltham

    A 13-year-old girl and two adults have been convicted of a “vicious and brutal” attack on a Muslim mother and daughter in south-east London.

    The teenage girl, who was aged 12 at the time of the assault, Paul Anderson, 37, and 38-year-old Joanna Farrer were each found guilty of two counts of religiously aggravated actual bodily harm following a two-week trial at Woolwich Crown Court.

    The victims, a 42-year-old woman and her daughter, 23, were left fearing for their lives after they were attacked by the defendants in Eltham one evening in May last year, the court heard.

    A jury was told how the younger victim, who wore traditional Muslim dress include a pink hijab and a long black Abaya, was thrown to the ground by Anderson as one of the other attackers tried to rip off her headscarf.

    Her mother was kicked in the stomach and punched in the face by the girl, who cannot be named for legal reasons, the court heard.
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    Muslim woman's hijab ripped off, assaulted in US
    PTI | Apr 12, 2017, 05.40 PM IST
    Highlights
    • The woman from Milwaukee was attacked as she walked home from prayer.
    • The woman said her attacker threw her to the sidewalk, and then stepped on her head repeatedly.
    • She said during the beating, the attacker was calling her names and swearing at her.

    WASHINGTON: A Muslim woman's hijab was allegedly ripped off in the US by a man who she claimed beat her "like an animal" and repeatedly stepped on her head, prompting calls for a hate crime probe.

    The woman from Milwaukee was attacked as she walked home from prayer.
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  20. Randwolf Ignorance killed the cat Valued Senior Member

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    What if she was really hot timojin? Ya' know, with succulent breasts and petulant lips? Nether lips? That you just couldn't resist? Even though she's covered in that "muslim woman dress" - what if you can see her lady bits anyways? Tasty, delectable...

    Do you think maybe you could be "disrespectful" then? It would only be what she really wants anyway, right?
     
  21. timojin Valued Senior Member

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    Look there are all kind of us . I met my first wife in the Subway , She was modes , I started the conversation, before we started touching it have passed around 3 months, We got married and we lived together for over 22 years, So I was the creep who initiated a conversation
    Look don't push the issue . I am married, # 2 I am not crazy to get a venereal disease , you must know the person first and if necessary counsel her.
     
  22. Randwolf Ignorance killed the cat Valued Senior Member

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    But why, timojin? What if she's REALLY hot? Wouldn't you want to taste that forbidden flesh? It's ok, you can say that you are really a real man and would like to "reach out and touch" her... Let me know.
     
  23. birch Valued Senior Member

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    people should know, especially you adults, that it has nothing to do with dress. that's like saying workplace sexual harassment was due to dress. oh, was casual friday the cuprit? so instead of a blazer, button down shirt and slacks, it was t-shirt and jeans? puleeze.

    it's just straight-up opportunism. if you are female and single, it would happen more often. that's all it takes. when you are with another male, other males tend to not try such things. but i can't live my life chaperoned all the time and neither should i have to.

    there is something so disgustingly greedy about many men. it's like they just try to hit on anything they deem half attractive to them. it's like an onslaught to the point, i can usually tell they aren't saying hello or starting a conversation because the weather is nice bs, it makes you feel bad and it's draining, not friendly. you can tell in their body language and in their eyes and the way it starts off innocently but then it turns. it's annoying as all hell. i don't go through my day compelled to hit on anybody i find physically attractive to some extent. it's ridiculous and it's rude to the other person as if you have a right to hog their personal attention.

    people often stereotype women are so needy but what from my experience, men are the neediest, exploitive co-dependant fukers out there.
     

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