I found this well said, (sounds like me) [video=youtube;rKciiDEJUfk]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rKciiDEJUfk[/video]
I encourage everyone to read this: (Especially the interview part.) http://www.nderf.org/NDERF/NDE_Experiences/anita_m's_nde.htm