My daughter died

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  1. pasquala Living on a Prayer Registered Senior Member

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    Hello friends, I know you guys have comforted me in the past and I need it again. On Wednesday my 18 year old daughter died at around 5:30 pm. I am so lost and confused and I have been trying to make sense of it all. I want to talk to everyone everywhere. Then I just don't want to talk to anyone at all. I cry and then I smile. I don't know. Its just that you guy here at scifi have always offered good advice. I have a lot of family and friends for support but I wanted to share with you guys too even though I really don't know all of you personally. This post is just something I wanted to do. If anyone would like to view her obituary it is on the funeral home's website I don't know the exact details of the website but it is Hux-Lipford in Mountain City TN. Also it will be in the local newspaper there on Wednesday thetomahawk.com You may offer condolences on the Hux-Lipford site. I would appreciate that. Please keep me in your prayers. Must go now I have a million thngs to do. Take care and may GOD bless you
     
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  3. S.A.M. uniquely dreadful Valued Senior Member

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    I am very sorry for your loss. My mother died almost two years ago, so I understand some of your pain. All I can say is let yourself grieve. She was very young, what happened?
     
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  5. Spud Emperor solanaceous common tater Registered Senior Member

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    How utterly heartbreaking for you.
    You must be in a world of pain.

    So, so sorry to hear that news.
     
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  7. alexb123 The Amish web page is fast! Valued Senior Member

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  8. Spud Emperor solanaceous common tater Registered Senior Member

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    Yeah, hug man.

    I've got no words but I'm definitely shedding a tear for you.
     
  9. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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  10. Spud Emperor solanaceous common tater Registered Senior Member

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    Not till Wednesday Cosmic.
     
  11. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    I thought she meant this past Wendnesday.

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  12. pasquala Living on a Prayer Registered Senior Member

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    Hux-Lipford.com/contact.php
    The click on current services at the top of the page.
    Then click on Gina Marie Chalmers
     
  13. joepistole Deacon Blues Valued Senior Member

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    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I wish there were words that could ease the pain. But unfortunately, there are none. You and your family are in my prayers.
     
  14. draqon Banned Banned

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    http://www.sciforums.com/showthread.php?t=80374

    In here you stated you were pregnant 21 years ago...that means you have a son/daughter of age 20...and this is not the daughter who died (because is obituary it says she is 18)...

    So...at this time I strongly encourage you to care more and protect the son/daughters you have left.
     
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  15. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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  16. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Draqon, shut the fuck up.

    I'm really, really sorry you have suffered such a terrible loss.
     
  17. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what you are going through.
     
  18. Reiku Banned Banned

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    I'm am truely sorry to hear that. It's difficult to know what to say, that wouldn't sound right normally. Just keep strong. I'll leave it with those words, and love.
     
  19. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    my symapthies too
     
  20. tablariddim forexU2 Valued Senior Member

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    Losing a child must be the closest thing there is to living in hell. I cannot find the right words to ease your pain because no words can make up for what you are going through right now but I wish you strength and hope that each day gets easier to bear. I'm sorry.
     
  21. mrow Unless Registered Senior Member

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    I'm so sorry for what you must be going through. I wish there were something I could say to help, but know that my thoughts are with you and your family. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
     
  22. skaught The field its covered in blood Valued Senior Member

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    Sorry for your loss.

    Draq... seriously...
     
  23. Bells Staff Member

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    You've made me give my two children extra hugs.

    You are living the nightmare all parents dread. And to lose a child so young and in the prime of her life. There are no words that can comfort you right now. As Sam said, you need to allow yourself to grieve. Remember all the times you spent with her with joy and know that she will be with you always in your heart.

    My deepest sympathies pasquala. You are in my thoughts.

    Take care of yourself.

    *Hugs*

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    PS. Ignore Draqon. He is a bitter and twisted little man.
     

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