Ok. So Sex. You dont see that discussed around here now do you. Pre marital sex - yes or not? And give your reasons. I would say No. Because 'going all the way' takes the relationship to a whole new level. If you aren't going to stay together [at least for a very very long time], marriage or no marriage, I would rather no do it. It similiar to the difference between your first crush and your first girlfriend. Crush= Easy to get over. GF= Not so much. Second, I think once your become sexually active, if you do so before marriage, you would be have physical experiences without the geniune emotional underpinnings that are crucial difference between horny teens and adult couples. I would rather have physical + emotional together. In summary: [forgive the popular slang] 1 and 2nd base - Yes 3 rd - Maybe 4 th - Not before marriage. What do you think?