ETA: I should have put this in spoilers since it was merely a response to Bells' offtopic rambling about how abused she is. Spoiler Yeah, sure, I notice the guy wasn't banned. Also notice that I didn't post an official complaint about his behavior or the fact that he wasn't banned for it. I really wasn't too concerned bout it. It showed he was a bit mental. So what? I'm actually kinda glad it happened. I didn't realize how much of my personal information was on that blog and what was available to be seen, such as my real name. I don't care what strangers on this forum see really. but I do have an ex-husband out there who has kidnapped my son before and held him in Pakistan for nearly 3 years before I was able to recover him. So bringing to light what was easy to discern from my blog did me a huge favor in being able to hide from my ex-husband. Honestly, I owe the guy my gratitude for bringing it to light. Personally, i think you and Jame R over reacted in my particular case, but since you couldn't have known how I would actually feel, by terms of this forum you did what was necessary, considering that I have heard other members have been stalked and had their lives threatened on here. It's also nice to see you reminding me of how much power you have over me as a moderator. That's not intimidation at all. You know what though, you are right. What a fool I have been. What a terrible person I am. How can I not recognize the pain you have suffered in your life. Surely any decent person wouldn't dare expect you to be able to hold rational discussion and see the world objectively after the horrifying experiences you have suffered. Shame on me for expecting you to make sense. I will never make that mistake again. I promise, I won't. You poor poor thing, I am so SORRY.