saying goodbye..for a while

He is not a random stalker, he was her boyfriend (as I understand it). We read here and there for some months how she loved him.

Let say you have a husband, then you find him cheating, will you just suddenly stop all contact with him without letting him know why or without giving him chance to explain himself especially if he feels he actually wasn't cheating and then labelling him stalker when he is trying to look for you? I would just sit with him in a table (perhaps with a lawyer or my parents), listen to his side of story, tell him why I would like to break up with him or ask for divorce anyway, all to be done as smooth as possible.

In LA's case, though, it's not like what I thought. I'll put my and my family security above everything...

 

Log in or Sign up to hide all adverts.

:bugeye: I think he'll know why when he sees all of his clothes and his boats on fire in the yard.
I would owe him nothing

 

Log in or Sign up to hide all adverts.

Then, would you run away from him for the rest of your life?

Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!

If you shake hand when you meet, why not shake hand when you say goodbye?

In LA case, I have to say again, I fully understand her stance. I feel sorry for both of them, I hope they both will find good future in their own paths.

 

Log in or Sign up to hide all adverts.

You can be so sweet Inzomnia

Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!

 

Not always, Lucy, but thanks

Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!

Ok, sorry, this isn't about me

Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!

I gtg, see ya.

 

She is a doll.

 

I totally agree with you.

This guy is a sick ball of shit and she owes him NOTHING.

 

Sorry about the shit you are dealing with, with this moron.

But..................... I am going to give you a told you so!

Didn't I say long time ago not to rush into things with this guy. I told you to take it easy with the moving in and rushing into wedding plans. You gotta take things a lot more slowly when introducing a new man into your life, especially if you have children. How do you know somebody in a few months enough to plan spending your life with them.
Why rush into another marriage before the ink dries on your divorce.

Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!

I can see what Inzomnia is saying to a point. You did go on and on and tell everyone here how wonderful this guy was and how in love you 2 were.
I can see why he is not just walking away and not looking back so easily. Not that I think stalking you
is acceptable. I do however see how this went from OMG we are so in love we are planning a wedding........to Fuck off and Never talk to me again'
2 extremes!

My advice L. A. is to take things a lot slower in the future.

 

yeah good idea, i know i rushed it but i though it was right, but i was wrong, and in this case i was extremely wrong,

 

wazzup, lil angel?
wanna hang out and do stuff?

/sniff

mmmm
smells nice in here

wazzup, girls?

 

can i please ask the mods to lock this thread please thankyou

 

I'm a fan of long courtship. I have been with my partner for 16 years, and we're still not married.

 

It's what in your heart that is important, not what's on paper.

Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!

 

Yup, blood is pretty important. I wouldn't be alive if I didn't have any blood

Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!

I'm confused though.. Christians say that Jesus lives in their heart..
Does that mean that Jesus is a hematophage

Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!

 

Okay Smart Ass!! Your Avatar is freaking me out!

I have rare O negative blood, they keep advertising the need for it. I am still waiting for the need to get so great they start paying for it.

Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!

lol

Don't they pay for blood in some countries?

 

Well remember that in most countries the rarity of blood groups is different to other countries. We should probably trade blood with other countries.

 

I think they pay in the States. Not sure though.

Oh and my avatar is Scorpius (from Farscape)

Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!

 

Don't know how far you live from a US teaching hospital, but they will probably reimburse you for a couple hour drive and give you a couple bucks for your trouble for O neg.

 

I imagine Canadians don't care much for those south of the border.

Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!

 

Canadians are a pretty friendly bunch. They just hate our politics (rightfully).