Self doubt...

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  1. kx000 Valued Senior Member

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    Confidence is faith in one own self. It makes you popular.
     
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  3. RainbowSingularity Valued Senior Member

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    so
    is what is given by exterior people to you ?
    "extrovert" ?
     
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  5. wegs Matter and Pixie Dust Valued Senior Member

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    Sometimes, I will be confident in certain situations, but I tend to second guess myself, when it comes to making decisions. If you fence-sit and make no decision, then you won't have to worry about making a wrong one. But, no decision is worse than making a bad one, I've been told.

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    Can anyone relate?
     
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  7. RainbowSingularity Valued Senior Member

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    comparative personal risk Vs sociopathic idiation

    risking someone elses money via business
    vs
    risking death or serious injury
    vs
    risking other peoples death or serious injury

    "tendencies" are considered by some to be personality traits and thus unchangeable by their definition of "personality"
    is what many want-to-be-dictators do so they can choose which ever side wins.

    all situations change
    even situations that seem the same, they change.
    such is the nature of the universe

    confidence in one social setting is considered rude or abusive in another

    maybe you should ask yourself this question
    "how do i allow culture to influence my decision to interact and change other peoples lives" ?
    (consider in your own head as a point of discussion rather than lay out your motivators in public)
    ... a majority of people have a very confused hypocritical concept of what culture is and how they interact with it and project it, it is a highly complex and tricky subject to discuss.
     
  8. wegs Matter and Pixie Dust Valued Senior Member

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    I think for me, it just has to do with fear. Fear of making a bad decision instead of making one and if it turns out to be a bad decision, just learn from it and grow. Staying indecisive I’ve learned is worse because you don’t move forward in some situations, you just stay stuck.
     
  9. RainbowSingularity Valued Senior Member

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    stuck n safe
    or
    Free n Dangerous
    ...
    the modern rubix of womens equality in a mans world
     
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  10. davewhite04 Valued Senior Member

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    Yeah, that actually makes sense I think.
     
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  11. wegs Matter and Pixie Dust Valued Senior Member

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    Yea. I like how you word this. Deep and true.
     
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  12. RainbowSingularity Valued Senior Member

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    one of my pet(anthropological observation) projects for the last 10 years is post natal depression
    not from a clinical medication side, but from a dietary and social interactive side as a process of culture.

    the "stuck n safe" paradigm of old world patriarchal society vs the modern intellectual must be super women person is quite a game changer.
    it is sad to see soo many still pushing the barrow of corpses called patriarchal dogma as culture models.

    i see an intellectual leap coming for women
    however that cant happen without the throngs of paranoid man-babys screaming fire in a crowded cinema because they got a Ego booboo

    self doubt and false confidence is sold like street preacher cheap crack cocaine by the scammers & misogynists a-like
     
  13. davewhite04 Valued Senior Member

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    Greater than man?
     
  14. RainbowSingularity Valued Senior Member

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    answering questions(to a present intellectual mind) tends to always depend on the perception of the person asking the question.
    we all have different ideas about what drives what and how much or what value some thing or thought has and bares on other things.
    regardless if it is some backward shit hole country or some modern chaos of materialist greed... the human animal tends to find a need to define its self by its own sense of value(Ego)

    while i am directly referring to women as a gender, the Gender is not as important as the intellectual process(can the higher mind be free of gender?).
    this includes LGBTQ+ and all variations of gender by interpretation of the self.

    The conversation is most often drowned out by extremist nutters screaming for compliance to their own sexual(& Gender) inferiorities & brainwashing/conditioning/indoctrination

    i found this and it reminded me of this thread a few minutes ago
    https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-48850490
    soo...
    back to your question as a binary polar mathematical result of a complex human condition of a scale value...
    to phrase it a different way.
    the answer is always yes it just needs the question to be altered.

    how do you quantify the modern professional woman ?
    equal to Sir Isaac Netwon, in need for individual valuation as a competitive equal or better ?
    (i realise you probably do not have an answer for that question)

    all societys are set up to compete against others to define a sense of self worth
    that is a biological absolute of the human biological condition
     
  15. davewhite04 Valued Senior Member

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    Agreed.
     
  16. RainbowSingularity Valued Senior Member

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    ...
    is a difficult definition when the expected outcome is beyond current basic comprehension

    greater
    = more
    = worse
    = more data/more action
    = better/how/why/where/what
    = different

    humans are chained to humanity
    the horse of humanity devoid of gender shackles is unable to jump higher than the chain around its neck
     
  17. davewhite04 Valued Senior Member

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    I just think men and women's brains work differently, and they haven't(women), perhaps, been able to explore their intellect to its full potential, so I guess we'll see what happens.
     
  18. RainbowSingularity Valued Senior Member

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    brains are far more complex than simple polar gender
    society, on the other hand is a slave master attempting to inflict its sexual desires on to the next trendy thing
     
  19. Seattle Valued Senior Member

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    ?
     
  20. wegs Matter and Pixie Dust Valued Senior Member

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    Yea, this. ^^

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  21. Seattle Valued Senior Member

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    Don't worry, one day you will be able to fully realize your intellect perhaps.

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  22. davewhite04 Valued Senior Member

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    What is hard to understand or believe? Applies to wegs post too.
     
  23. davewhite04 Valued Senior Member

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    mis-post, wrong thread.
     

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