Sometimes, I will be confident in certain situations, but I tend to second guess myself, when it comes to making decisions. If you fence-sit and make no decision, then you won't have to worry about making a wrong one. But, no decision is worse than making a bad one, I've been told. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Can anyone relate?
comparative personal risk Vs sociopathic idiation risking someone elses money via business vs risking death or serious injury vs risking other peoples death or serious injury "tendencies" are considered by some to be personality traits and thus unchangeable by their definition of "personality" is what many want-to-be-dictators do so they can choose which ever side wins. all situations change even situations that seem the same, they change. such is the nature of the universe confidence in one social setting is considered rude or abusive in another maybe you should ask yourself this question "how do i allow culture to influence my decision to interact and change other peoples lives" ? (consider in your own head as a point of discussion rather than lay out your motivators in public) ... a majority of people have a very confused hypocritical concept of what culture is and how they interact with it and project it, it is a highly complex and tricky subject to discuss.
I think for me, it just has to do with fear. Fear of making a bad decision instead of making one and if it turns out to be a bad decision, just learn from it and grow. Staying indecisive I’ve learned is worse because you don’t move forward in some situations, you just stay stuck.
one of my pet(anthropological observation) projects for the last 10 years is post natal depression not from a clinical medication side, but from a dietary and social interactive side as a process of culture. the "stuck n safe" paradigm of old world patriarchal society vs the modern intellectual must be super women person is quite a game changer. it is sad to see soo many still pushing the barrow of corpses called patriarchal dogma as culture models. i see an intellectual leap coming for women however that cant happen without the throngs of paranoid man-babys screaming fire in a crowded cinema because they got a Ego booboo self doubt and false confidence is sold like street preacher cheap crack cocaine by the scammers & misogynists a-like
answering questions(to a present intellectual mind) tends to always depend on the perception of the person asking the question. we all have different ideas about what drives what and how much or what value some thing or thought has and bares on other things. regardless if it is some backward shit hole country or some modern chaos of materialist greed... the human animal tends to find a need to define its self by its own sense of value(Ego) while i am directly referring to women as a gender, the Gender is not as important as the intellectual process(can the higher mind be free of gender?). this includes LGBTQ+ and all variations of gender by interpretation of the self. The conversation is most often drowned out by extremist nutters screaming for compliance to their own sexual(& Gender) inferiorities & brainwashing/conditioning/indoctrination i found this and it reminded me of this thread a few minutes ago https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-48850490 soo... back to your question as a binary polar mathematical result of a complex human condition of a scale value... to phrase it a different way. the answer is always yes it just needs the question to be altered. how do you quantify the modern professional woman ? equal to Sir Isaac Netwon, in need for individual valuation as a competitive equal or better ? (i realise you probably do not have an answer for that question) all societys are set up to compete against others to define a sense of self worth that is a biological absolute of the human biological condition
... is a difficult definition when the expected outcome is beyond current basic comprehension greater = more = worse = more data/more action = better/how/why/where/what = different humans are chained to humanity the horse of humanity devoid of gender shackles is unable to jump higher than the chain around its neck
I just think men and women's brains work differently, and they haven't(women), perhaps, been able to explore their intellect to its full potential, so I guess we'll see what happens.
brains are far more complex than simple polar gender society, on the other hand is a slave master attempting to inflict its sexual desires on to the next trendy thing
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