Well after you move and settle eslewhere and have the time to decide if the suggestion I now make is good or stupid... Do this.... Send each of these folk a "love note" suggesting a meeting at a motel far far away certain time even give them a room number. Your selection of lowlife MFers will come and meet and be able to discus nothing more than what a barstard you are... Make sure its a motel far far away.. A long trip home to reflect on how they pissed you off so much. I hope you get a chuckle.
Even the landlord weirdly referred to me as 'baby'. Its just unbelievable. He knocks on the door and i tell him i will meet him downstairs for the rent and he replies, 'ok baby'. As i was coming down the stairs, he asks me again about where im going and i could not hide my annoyance at some of his questions again replying, 'ok baby' looking away embarassed knowing full well from his expression that it was just bizarre considering i dont get personal with this fuker and its inappropriate. He also bizarrely pretended as if he was doing me some favor when he wasnt doing shit. It seemed as though he wanted to pretend he was taking care of me or something. When the reality was i was paying rent BUT unlike the other tenants i had to put up with being harassed and fuked with just because of my gender and he knew i wasnt from here!!!! This city is shit!! Many of these locals view people from other states as outsiders who dont really belong and easy marks!! No wonder, who the fuck in their right mind would want to live in baltimore unless your job transferred you or unless you have bad taste? Even when i was getting mugged the guy quipped that he could tell i wasnt from around here. I had to lie that i was to get my phone back. They can keep this shitty ass city.
Also, there is so much crime in this city, you have to wait until someone is killed to report it or for it to be taken seriously. There was not a cloud in the sky with cars zooming by in broad daylight as the two males were obviously hemming me, tossing the phone back and forth between eachother and even reaching into pockets to check for cash. All this while people are just sitting on their porch across the street watching like its nothing. This is because it is usual around here for people to be hanging around on the street and corners and harassing people and god knows what else.
Ah, no need to pity him, me or anyone. I dont see incompatibility as someone failing. He is with who he needs to be with and another born and bred baltimorean as himself to boot. It will not be too soon if i never see grits ever again. I have never met anyone eat so much grits in my life and narrowly would never use any other seasoning but old bay on anything. A true baltimorean because of course nothing else exists. Never met anyone so narrowminded in their taste and would never try anything new. That is so bizarre for someone who came from a military family that also lived overseas. I just see that as strange bigotry. This fuker had the nerve to walk into a vietnamese restaurant without even sitting down yet to look at a menu and start demanding they alter their recipe. No respect unless its all things he grew up with. I also cooked soul food because i also am open to try and like different things. He, however, didnt want to try anything i made or different cuisines. He even had the nerve to dictate to me how he wanted his 'slop' cooked arrogantly like i was his personal chef. I couldnt even make a regular meal because he would complain and fuss over how he liked his potatoes runny, his gravy with two to one etc. Everything had to be to his specifications and how he grew up or how his mother did it. Honestly, then his mother was the lousiest cook as his taste runs bad cafeteria style. So fuk him and his narrowminded family and the bitch that bore him. I dont know who i detested more, him or his mother to have raised him that way.
Im not hurt, im disgusted and pissed off. How pathetic can one be to think runny potatoes and runny gravy and steak with only garlic powder, salt and old bay is the cats meow? That same trio was used on everything as if it was THE best in america defiantly. I had to talk him into just trying peppercorn steak seasoning on his steak which you could tell he enjoyed but he was arrogantly reluctant to admit! He is a very bigoted american among americans and had the nerve to believe he was the judge of how american i was based on his taste. His fried chicken had to have only those seasonings. He would even call to tell me that, no joke, and to not sneak anything else in there. Once i brined the chicken and fried it in different batter to which he had to admit it was good but he did so very rudely as if admitting so was some type of affront. Un-believable. And this is just regular old american food and recipes. Wtf even kind of americans are these? Seriously, he could go fuck himself and i even said to his niece if he even died, i wouldnt go to his funeral as he is nothing to me but a mistake. Just a mistake. He can go be with his hoes and what he believes is to be american til the day is long. Also he had the nerve to say i couldnt drive when im the only one with a valid license. He has two dui's he must pay off and im the one who got the ball rolling on a lawsuit to which he is entitled for some medication he recieved and its side effects to which he could be awarded five figures. I also was his secretary organizing his paperwork and helped him get started fixing his credit. The women he likes so much are just hoes who use him for money and sex to which today i am perfectly fine with as thats exactly what he deserves. They just take from him and since he is also a user who takes people for granted, thats his match.
This is the kind of man this woman raised. She is from the old school with supposedly good family values. She sure seems to act the part. Total bs and a myth. Every female is a bitch except his mother and hoes and literal prostitutes. His sister is a bitch for disagreeing with him or correcting him when he is wrong and he even calls his niece a 'stupid bitch' for not answering her phone right away and not asking how high when he tells people to jump. Never once has that man ever admitted he was wrong ever. Oh but sluts and prostitutes get all the respect in the world from him because they condone what he does and keep his secrets in exchange for money. They are his friends and comrades in arms. He said i was 'dumber than a box of rocks' and just taunted me to get proof of his illicit activities and so i did so. I hacked into all his accounts, youmail, phone records and installed tracking app. Then i compiled a list of all the people he knew including the ones he fronts he is respectable and sent out all the dirt on him including which motel, dates, times and people involved. Not only were there three females involved in a group orgy with him but also a girl who was barely eighteen that just graduated high school and had a baby in high school in 2013 but she is no victim. She is a hypocritical little hoe who complains of being cheated on by her boyfriend when this brat was snickering in the background when i would call about his whereabouts. Looks like a twelve year old slutty piglet but just turned nineteen. This is the world and these kinds of people are typical.
And all these women are facebook friends like part of a network of sluts, hoes and prostitutes even extending back to the state we relocated from. Very rough crowd into lots of tattoos and into both men and women, both black and white. Oh yes, one of this grown man's favorite shows is 'bad girls club' when at first he pretended otherwise. You know, the type of women who would come and beat you to a pulp for just being the girlfriend. When we had broken up for a month he had a literal prostitute come over and she left her belongings including her well-worn copy of 'fifty shades of grey' as if it was her bible and she rummaged through my belongings even cutting up a dress and stealing a piece of jewelry. I suppose getting paid an obscene amount of money for sex was not enough including him wineing and dining her like this lowlife deserved it. This is the one on her facebook profile lists herself as always a baltimore girl, mind you, not even living in baltimore at the time. Looks like a real skanky bitchy version of katy perry with a more crueler face but well endowed. Then she knocked on the door at 2 am on saturday morning where my ex had to tell her the book was thrown out as she pleaded for it as if it was her bible after telling her that his girl was back. He even blocked the door with a chair as if she might break in. When she called him again knowing he was back in a relationship with no respect or care to where he said 'i got you' to whatever promises he made to her, that was the final straw. I am also the one who did the research on the database for his job relocation so he could take care of his ailing mother. But he was under some delusion that i was going to stay with him forever when that wasnt my plan at all. Furthermore, the necklace he assumed was some type of cheap ploy to throw my way i never wore for a reason. He wasnt the one and it wasnt genuine even if the necklace was gold.
It is good you can look at these things and not be hurt. I hope your future will be filled with better experiences. Keep your gaurd up but focus on something for you in the future. The real damage bad experience gives us is it can cloud our dreams and we forget where we were going before you got sidetracker in a bad situation. It is just hard to realise people can be so strict righeous and infalible. And it is frustrating.
I dont comprehend this. Are you saying people who try to live with some morals or standards are self-righteous? Because that would be the excuse of these moral degenerates to justify themselves. As a matter of fact, that is exactly their point of view. People need to realize they are bigots and hypocrites themselves. For some horrible reason, there is pressure to get society to approve of low moral values and that is the major problem of society that putrifies it further leading to degradation and degeneracy, not the physical. And your statement is telling. Its as if society wont be satisfied until everyone joins the herd of pretending good values are just self-righteous and making others look bad. No, they are making themselves look bad. To have to paint over what is illicit or trashy as good or in the same league is insanity, undeserved entitlement and an equal travesty and insult to better healthy values. I dont see how there way of life is in any way healthy for society. It is totally selfish and anything goes as long as they feel good. They dont care if they lie, cheat or steal. No conscience. This man gave his exwife syphillus from all the cheating with sluts and prostitutes during their marriage. He was too selfish to tell her and it lead to her becoming sterile. Luckily she didnt want more children. I dont know what you think you are condoning. Society can really just let it all go and completely regress to the point where pedophilism can be legalized or child porn. Do you know their view is exactly the same, that those who are against it are just being unfairly self-righteous toward them, their lifestyle and their needs?
You did not make anything clear. You made a rather double statement so it wasnt clear. If you truly think its just explain it. Because 'not passing judgement' does not automatically equate to what is right. If we didnt pass judgement and were passive approving of anything, you are no better than those who commit crimes against others. Passivity and non-judgement does not equal to innocence or even the high road as you seem to convey. When good men do nothing, evil prospers.
Furthermore i find your stance really suspicious because there is really nothing different fundamentally from what i was describing as far as the hypocrisy, bigotry and ill treatment of the sexual harassment to the lies, selfishness and deceit of the ex. I just fleshed it out yet you altered your tune that its self righteous, strict and infallible referring to my judgement of him which is frankly very immoral of you. It is because he is the arrogant bigot who wants others to adjust to him but never him to others, doesnt care who he hurts or lies to and self-righteous but you did not attribute that to him. This cowtowing to pretend heinous behavior is not is equally vicious, cruel and immoral. You seem to have picked the wrong person to pretend you share the same values because we do not. You said in the beginning that he failed me but your idea of good seems to be more of a smoothing over or white lies rather than the truth and i dont consider that right either or just even if you think its morally better because its less harsh. Truly good people are harsh against what is very wrong just as much.
I never seek to imply I am right and if you seek to judge me that is up to you. I am old and not entirely capable of engaging the observations you make. I deal in specific situations and try not to generalise, although it may be that I do just that. But to try and list all my faults would be tiresome and I admit it would be a long list I am not perfect but pretty honest but how can you judge yourself. I am only what people want to believe thats up to them.
No, you made that statement and feigning innocence and you remain non-commital. You mislead which is itself deception because you just dip your feet with no follow-through. The generalized and vague tactics he used to deflect away from taking responsibility for his actions using the excuse no one is perfect. That was not in contention, its about honesty and addressing issues not letting it slide or bury it under the rug so its easier to repeat again. He used it to get away with it and for it not to be questioned. From your shiftiness, it seems you approve of these in relationship but not from strangers as if entering a relationship means its acceptable to put up with this or should be tolerated. You can take your murky passivity elsewhere. Even the bible has some gems of wisdom and it says if you can not stand up for something ethically, i will spit you out. Being a complete people pleaser is just ground fodder for all types of corruption with continual excuses or its their right or not to be judged.
I had no idea I am so complex and well all those things you said. I would never have thought of it that way. What you say says more about you than it says about me.
I am a slow moving target if it helps your self esteem fire away you cant insult me so vent all you like.
