What has one got to do with the other? We're not, as I mentioned in an earlier post. Your reasoning, for example, is seldom "correct". You can't control your thoughts completely. Try not to think about elephants. Not "just" - but there is an element of uncertainty. You shouldn't. You should always consult with other people. No. You have some willful control, just not absolute control. Again, what has one got to do with the other?