Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by Chris_Smith, Dec 1, 2005.
A woman wouldn't bother a man with something so girlie as shoe shopping.
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Hell, I've bought boxes of tampons for any number of "my woman", all by myself , without corresponding catastrophic emotional damage.
Y'all's "mommie" gene just can't shut down, can it? Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
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Opposite ends of the same leash, no?
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I like men, do not wish them to disappear, I am not alone in this.
I also like shoes, do NOT want them to disappear,
in 'people reading 'circles, shoes are one of the ways in which a persons character is said to be demonstrated.
THUS men important stuff you need to know about girls shoes coming up!
Pointy toed shoes, very pointy, indicates a high sex drive, likely to be 'dominant' and agrressive in bed.
Pointy shoes that slip off easily (no ties, straps open backed) indicate a desire for 'ease of removal and comfort' as well as high sex drive, thus a comfortable and 'ready' lay.
Blunt rounded purpose shoes = married Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! or lack of sex drive and lack of 'fetish' and indicates the wearer either bites their toe nails or allows them to grow round the bottom of their foot. Or picks them and leaves scraggy edges.
High heeled, long boots to knee or higher ...= vavavavooooom
Trainers = casual attitude to sex and appearance and will lie back and probably watch Emerdale while you get your rocks off.
It goes on..........
I've got a fetish for women's feet - & you're not helping! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
another one, blimey that's three already
What would you say an open-toe high heel says about a woman's state of mind? Is it more playful than a concealed toe high heel? Revealing the toes more or less reveals more of the woman's flesh - If you were to wear them, would you be stating yourself in a way of "Take me I'm yours", "Do what you want with me", or "You can look but you can't touch"? Bit of a c*ck tease is all this though isn't it... But what language you apply to footwear pretty much goes for any other garment of clothing right?
open toe would suggest a 'naturalist' type, unafraid of being seen nude
suggestive of glamour and deffinately uninhibited, as baring ones toes is akin to bearing ones soul Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! (if you believe that you'll..............)
re the reason a woman wears these shoes
glamour and to feel fabulous, high heels makes legs look fab, open toe is cooler (as in not hot and sweaty) etc, not a message to guys re anything, sozza.
I'd agree with you there about the legs 101%. Hmm... so here, it's probably understood as both of these aspects, but 1). rather more to perform an inner expression in raising one's self-esteem, than that of perhaps, 2). suggesting their own sexual intent? Although, what we express outwardly in the language of fashion (or anything) will, most often, be received as a predominantly sexual one in both men and women, because sex drives conquer even our most rare moments of clarity.
heels raise height and thus increase feeling of power and strength and self esteem etc
men see everything as being about sex and inviting them for some, as they think about sex all the time. When I am hungry I can only think about food. Once I saw a familiar shop called Owen Owen, I said to my mother, look "oven oven, they must sell food" Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Men see what they want to see.
Most women who go out looking like hookers would be aghast if you asked her if she just wants sex.
Hence, when you dress yourself accordingly to how you feel, the underlying call you give out is "I feel good" (that's only when you feel good though), and that's attractive, and when what you transmit is received in a similar way, you and whoever feel attractive too, causing a chain-reaction that makes you feel largely or slightly attracted to each other. The stereotype to hookers are blatantly overt in their dress sense... and I'm not talking about hookers anyway. I'm just proposing the idea that you might not know you're feeling sexy on a conscious level (when you feel good), but the femininity you give out will be attractive to the opposite sex. When this happens most of the time women tend to forget to twig that they've brought it upon themselves. Not that I'm saying all women are sex objects - or am I? Are we men sex objects to women? Maybe in a different way... (sex is linked to emotional fulfilment too) However, it's the underlying motives in men and women that are constantly re-addressed and re-diverted. It's all a tease though I must admit. The language in men and women is so hypocritical you know. To some extent the problem is more within us men perhaps, and our higher sexual drives allow us to be labelled by your good self and women at large as male chauvenist pigs. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Hear me out with this scenario... just setting the scene.
The time arrives in man's society when commercial space travel is as common and as enterprising as air travel. Though as we're gazing through - tapping the glass that separates us from two very overwhelming moments, thus allowing us the opportunity to see Earth from space, you would think this experience poses a thought or two...
For sure, there'd be one of awe-inspiring joy and of being just that - significant insignificance, that provides this feeling for number two - the fear of dependency we have for our planet as our home, our organic origins. The paradox will be simultaneous. This opportunity might be too much for some - for me however, I don't know. It wouldn't be blasé (Would it?), to say space is the womb of life, and seeing women everyday can only enable us to realise this?
I'm not saying women are the blackest of abysses and star constellations. No what I am saying though is that what power a woman has in nurturing and developing such life forms of man, is one held similarly to its space analogy.
Here we go, [I can hear tutting]. Once accepting the predominant belief (knowing), that all is the womb of life, can we only begin to understand this society. Here's the remedy to such confusion.
Man or men's function should be in reinvigorating ourselves (women too), of such ideology - being the appreciation for such awe-inspiration, (the doorway within a doorway within a doorway complex begins).
As most men will find, this (all-knowingness) can be accessed but less so or less concentrated than that in women. The intrinsic mindsets of the sexes (certainly in this society) is like this: the woman's awareness is one of all-knowing while the man's is one of all-proving. This is because men don't inhabit the same instinctive awareness women have. We don't give life, women do. We men are merely the tools of variety, for making this process possible. The maternal bond between mother and daughter is so instinctive, t'is the surging of shared universal impulses - while the paternal bond between father and son is one domineered by that of function and one that makes the womb be. Both men and women are empathic beings, but men could be regarded lesser so or in opposing difference. As with this, men can be seen as the disposable worker bees of any queen's colony, or on the other hand the repressors of such all-knowing - that all-woman knowing, (which presents irony in itself as most women don't appreciate what they are or have - which is due to men's ways).
This casual comment is a tangent to how desensitised our societal psychology has become, and a relevant point to justifying this misunderstood thread. Again, you may cough "What's this thread for?" You could perhaps say I feel there's a need in this forum, for us to appreciate what we all are and where we're all going.
[We are "utterly Subjectively" one.] ...right - where did I leave those Revels?
First, I agree with Oxygen. I want a man who is strong enough to know wat he wants. By strong though, want someone as strong as me in physical, emotional, mental and spiritually sense. I do not want someone who "needs" me to feel complete, I want a man who "wants" to share his ideas and life with me.
Shoes though, love em. When I dress hot, I feel hot, look hot and it gets noticed, which makes it even better. That said, a whistle from the back wall is not a come-on guys. Suck it up and talk, cat calls is not enough to get you noticed or layed. Conversation skills count way more.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
I feel scared, I know woman will never love me or accept me as a companion. I'm doomed so much it's not even funny, and my experience with Carmen Vargas has left me feeling dazed & confused. You guys are lucky, when men no longer exist females can go about making others of their own kind feel as bad as I am right now Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
If one sex would be phased out, I envision it would be women.
Stem cell research/artificial wombs are probably going to produce male-only cloning within a few decades. So it is possible that men will say "to Hell with women", have a ton of gay sex, and reproduce only men.
It'll be like Greece, only with more farting.
This is depressing, i LIKE being a dude! no PMS, comparatively simple hormonal changes, a culturally weaker standard to live up to, I mean, I'm glad to be a dude!
In 2714, someone please start a "Save the Males" campaign!
A culturally weaker standard to live up to?
We have to support our family, defend our country, rule the world, and be respected by our peers.
The most any culture demands of women is to have children and cook and clean.
Women may have it worse biologically, but men are the most suffering culturally and socially.
This can even be found in our reduced lifespans.
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