Why is being nude so "wrong"?

Discussion in 'Ethics, Morality, & Justice' started by Thoreau, Oct 11, 2007.

  1. birch Valued Senior Member

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    these types of men, it's a form of illwill and domination for their ego. the motivation is to stroke their ego by using you or subjugating you, especially if you are NOT someone they are compatible with or know you don't like. it's a form of mysogynism. if they wanted to look for someone to have sex, there are plenty of women who advertise that and no strings attached even. with the internet, it is easy to find. there are also plenty of prostitutes.. i've found that it is a type of mentality that anything they see in the world that they want is somehow something they are entitled to. they don't care if they take proper channels or whether it's mutual or unwanted. it's a very selfish mentality.
    i've been propositioned just point blank and even when i turned the person down, they kept trying. many men, even if you speak to them casually or just be neighborly/nice to them and it was clear he was not the only person i spoke with either so there was no way for mixed signals, that's like the mail carrier propositioning you because of simple civil talk. i then asked what made them think i would be interested in them because i am not interested. he had no response. yeah, that's right. then, i told him why don't you look online or hire a hooker if what you are looking for is sex? he said because he WANTS ME. as if people are an object and his feelings and wants are so important. i could tell it was all about his ego to prove something to himself. there are nasty men who purposely hit on women they know aren't interested. it's some type of perverted thinking. there was a female that was very interested in him but he ignored her. some people only want what they cant have because it's all about ego, it's a weak character. i asked him how he would feel if someone propositioned his mother or daughter like that and he gave a look like 'oh no way'. most people are selfish and disrespectful and will try anything, if given half the chance.

    there are a lot of scummy and bad people out there. they may have jobs and not go to jail but they have bad character and morals.
     
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  3. Counter Registered Senior Member

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    It is because you have just walked in the room. We are born naked.
     
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  5. Intrepid Registered Member

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    It's but symmetry and health for me.if I look at a young lady it's because I want her to give me and her a healthy baby.
    Yes, that's attractiveness.
    I love sex but because I'm as I am I also love conversation. As a result I have many girlfriends that also like sex and to talk and cuddle after. I give oral new meaning .

    Nudity. I'm a solo nudist.that is I don't like to be seen nude but if it happens n certainly not ashamed of it as my nudism is not at all about sex. I don't get erections when seen nude. I do when I sense an attraction by the viewer and that's not my fault but all in all its all natural.
    Anyone ashamed of their nudity need not be. Why would you be?
    If you ask yourself that and answer I'll be surprised because any people are unhappy about something about themselves and nudity isn't the problem.
    If you look deep and then answer you'll find the problem actually IS about something sexual OR body image and or both.
    I'm slim and trim at 56 and for 1 more reason than previously mentioned,women find me attractive but you can figure out that reason by yourself.
    I have no body image problem.
     
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  7. Intrepid Registered Member

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    Yes there are very bad men and women in the world that will try to use you for sex and to improve their own revolting lives. The reality of bad people in the world is like getting hit by a car because it's so terrible and shocking but they're out there. (I've been hit by cars 4 times while on my bike on the sidewalk too).
    Some people just want to harm you for no reason known to you and they will if you let them or not.
    Thankfully there are far more nice people in the world that are just nice for no reason than because it's their nature.
     
  8. Intrepid Registered Member

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    I thought wearing clothes was something we do for practicality and survival.
    Others think clothes are great way to prevent random sex with married men or women. They may be right but sex always finds a way it's just that if one is wearing clothes one can't just so quickly have sex with the man or woman in the elevator (for example) and I think it's this sudden sex people want discouraged.
    Funny but the fact that we would have sudden sex if we weren't wearing clothes don't speak highly of us does it?
    We would act more like the animals that we really are but just happen to be able to speak,write and think.

    We still have fur ya know.we just call it hair to make ourselves feel more civilized.
     
  9. Write4U Valued Senior Member

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    Did you know that the Bonobo, our closest cousin, resolve conflict with sex. There is not a single record of one Bonobo having killed another Bonobo for love or power.

    p.s. The Bonobos are a Matriarchy. Now isn't that interesting? Does a matriarchy contribute to cooperation rather than competition?
     
  10. birch Valued Senior Member

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    bonobos are also stupid, not to mention the ugliest.
     
  11. Write4U Valued Senior Member

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    Well, in their world women rule the show. And no Bonobo is known to have ever killed another Bonobo.

    Tell me, which society can claim to be "more" peaceful?
     
  12. Write4U Valued Senior Member

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    Being rude is wrong, not because it is false, but because it is aggressive and tends to evoke a chemical reaction in the person being addressed.
    For instance; an architect visits a home for the first time and declares it an architectural abomination. What is the host to do? Say; "thank you, that's most kind of you"?
     
  13. akoreamerican Registered Senior Member

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    bonobos also have sex with their daughters, brothers, children. are you sure you want to be like them?
     
  14. river

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    Yet tribes in the Amazon are basicly nude all the time , its not a big deal .

    In the movie ; Starship Troopers

    Both genders showered together , at the same time . I found that an advanced attitude toward nudity and control of sexual urges . They were all young .
     
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  15. Write4U Valued Senior Member

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    I never said that. But most sex-play is just play. In fact the Bonobos have a very low birth rate. This is why they are an endangered species today.

    But apparently relieving emotional upsets by engaging in sex (play), instead of bashing each other over the head, has ensured a stable and non-aggressive society.
     
  16. birch Valued Senior Member

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    your point is ridiculously naive and obtuse. they are stupid in comparison to people. in the human world, it will not be peaceful when someone tries to have sex with you unwanted. there are other ways to relieve emotional upset than just by fuking anyone you see. that's low-level functioning. there are people like that anyways, so what is your point?

    no, women don't rule the show. bonobo females rule their show, there is a difference. are you trying to say that everyone should walk around naked and it would be okay with you if any male or female accosted you sexually at random? I sure wouldn't find that peaceful. and you think it's okay for a female to conceive without knowing who the father is because she can't distinguish who impregnated her, so neither do they have any responsiblity? well, that also goes on sometimes in human society but that does not usually have positive results.

    humans have a more developed sense of ethics as well as preferences and judgement.

    this is called an 'orgy'. if that's your thing, there are circles for that. don't be pushing that on others as if that's a good social solution because there are people who would bash you over the head for trying to relieve whatever emotional upset by trying to literally f*ck you. notice the difference between making love between consenting partners. otherwise, it's negative, not positive. it's literally a dumping or passing off of personal aggression and frustration onto another, aka using.

    besides, sex is not a real solution, dummy. haven't you heard of couples who might use sex as a way to diffuse an argument? it's a mask or deflection to cover up problems, not to solve them. whatever problems or issues still exist if not dealt with itself. feeling benign or unawareness of anger or other emotions and the reasons for them, is not necessarily an indication of real peace.

    in a bonobo society, it may appear that there is peace, but it's only because it's not developed to a point where that type of self-centered dysfunction or coping mechanism poses problems. there is a lack finer judgement, social bonds and cognitive skills to do so as their society is not complicated or sophisticated enough.
     
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