why is it against forum rules to call someone bigot when they push biogtry

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  1. Anti-Flag Pun intended Registered Senior Member

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    Eh. Call a spade a spade. Not a shovel.

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  3. Shadow1 Valued Senior Member

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    well, maybe you can't say bogot, but you can say f*k *o, lol and *********.
     
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  5. WillNever Valued Senior Member

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    Because what they push is bigotry only in your estimation, not in the estimation of other objective observers. Often (and this is especially prevalent on sciforums) people will immediately assign bigotry to any dissenting opinions and ideas that concern an issue they feel sensitive about, even when those opinions and ideas are entirely rational. That is form of bigotry of itself: you have intolerance for outside opinions.

    If the people you attack were indeed bigots, you should easily be able to discredit them by simply arguing the points. When you opt to resort to ad homs instead, your argument becomes suspect.
     
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  7. soullust Registered Senior Member

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    Can't accuse someone of something b4 you prove it.

    Plus It is all in how you word things..

    Example.

    The wrong way.

    You're a fucking bigot...

    The right way.

    So I assume you support bigotry from your ideas?

    One your straight out calling them one, the other one shows you think they are one but you are not actually calling them one.
     
  8. James R Just this guy, you know? Staff Member

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    This is a good point.

    pj's general modus operandi is to run crying to mummy asking the administrators to take action against the nasty man who disagreed with little pj, because little pj feels unable to respond to points on his own and would rather have discussions shut down.
     
  9. spidergoat pubic diorama Valued Senior Member

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    In his defense, we are asked to run to the moderators instead of lashing out at our opponent. Please don't characterize this as "crying".
     
  10. pjdude1219 The biscuit has risen Valued Senior Member

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    Talking about supporting claims why don't you try and prove your libelious lies against me. You won't though because You what you posted here is a lie. I have told you my reason and yet you still persist in your belief you know my reasons better than I do. You have been out to get me since I called you a shitty administrator for your defense of strings complete lack of action on Buffalo's attacks involving my mother.

    when I try and defend my self YOU tell me to go to the mods. when I do go to the mods I am crying to you guys because I can't support my argument. Seems to me your problem isn't with what I do its that I am here. If I am not supposed to defend my self and I'm not supposed to report anything what am I supposed to do.
     
  11. pjdude1219 The biscuit has risen Valued Senior Member

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    I don't have a problem with different opinions in general just ones founded one having different standards for different people. and if that's not bigotry than nothing is.

    I do. and when I do I have people say I want people to die or say the only reason I support the palestinians is because I'm muslim or arab.(note I'm neither)
    ??? tecnically it wouldn't be ad hominum that's a logical fallacy involving in attempt to discredit an argument or position by attacking the person which is what James is doing here; saying we should ignore the opinion basiclly because its mine. Not a personal attack or insult you could make the case for.
     
  12. pjdude1219 The biscuit has risen Valued Senior Member

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    please don't ask James to do something out of character. Remember he agrees with string claim that Bufallo's attacks against me using my mother were a response to me attacking him and not the other way around. HE also agrees with the fact that 7 month's of such attacks don't warrant a ban.
     
  13. James R Just this guy, you know? Staff Member

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    The problem is that pj tends to regard anybody who disagrees with him as personally attacking him. He can't accept that somebody else might have a different view to him for valid reasons; they must be trying to attack him personally. They must be a "bigot", or deluded or whatever. And they must be punished for daring to disagree. They are obviously "trolling" whenever they disagree with pj.

    Which libellous lies are you referring to?

    Reasons for what? I don't know what you're talking about.

    Do you think I care whether you think I'm a shitty administrator or not? Take a number and join the queue of disgruntled members and ex-members who have been moderated. It's a much more common response than accepting sanction and taking some personal responsibility for one's actions, I find.

    Regarding attacks by Buffalo Roam, I thought that issue was dealt with quite some time ago. If I am wrong, please PM me with the details and links and I'll look into the matter, including getting BR's side of the story, of course.

    Defend yourself against what? Difference of opinion? Go for it! Personal attacks? Then go to the mods. Your problem, I think, is that you can't tell the difference between the two.

    If somebody says "PJ, you're wrong about X. You're deluded about the facts of Y. You're biased about Z." those aren't personal attacks. If they say "PJ you're insane. PJ you're a total idiot. PJ, you should be shot." then those are personal attacks. The line is not always 100% clear, but most people sort out what is worth reporting and what isn't. You just report everything - every time somebody disagrees with you about anything.

    Ask yourself "Is this a fair comment in the context of the debate/argument that I'm having with this person? Is it a genuine difference of opinion, based on other facts or a different analysis, or is this person just having a go at me on a personal level and not even trying to discuss the topic? Is what they are posting on-topic or off-topic trolling?" Because those are the kinds of questions admins and moderators ask themselves every time they review one of your many daily complaints. Why don't you save us some time and effort and start the weeding-out process yourself rather than going off half-cocked all the time? That way, when something serious does happen we won't have to treat you like the boy who cried wolf the last 100 times.
     
  14. James R Just this guy, you know? Staff Member

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    7 months of such attacks should be easy to document. Please post 10 examples, with links.
     
  15. WillNever Valued Senior Member

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    That is because a lot of people don't believe you there, pj.
     
  16. Tiassa Let us not launch the boat ... Valued Senior Member

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    Nothing unusual about that

    A little from Column A, a little from Column B. We should remember that the virtual personalities tend toward the cynical.
     
  17. Giambattista sssssssssssssssssssssssss sssss Valued Senior Member

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    Let's not be so petty. I think the occasional insult should be allowed when things are heated. Just so slightly.

    Getting a warning for calling someone "Buffy" should be anathema. I seem to recall such a thing happening once upon a time.
     
  18. Tiassa Let us not launch the boat ... Valued Senior Member

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    We're accommodating the not-so-bright side of the moon

    That used to be the case. In fact, ferocious disputes were allowed to carry out until the participants exhausted themselves as long as threats and outright libel weren't involved. Over time, though, people who either refused or could not perceive distinctive details of circumstance felt confused and even betrayed, so we've been in a long process of reining in the hostility in order to accommodate our lowest common fragility.

    It's really been quite a tragic and stupid process to witness, and even gotten to the point where we have to start protecting celebrity. Once upon a time, for instance, it was okay to call Hillary Clinton a retarded bitch. But then some folks started complaining about all sorts of nasty names aimed at public ideas, like Dubya and Teabaggers, so we had to start scaling back. Palintology was struck, as was addressing President Obama according to his middle name, or inventing a fake messiah complex to attribute to him in order to feel persecuted and therefore justified in one's hatred. Basically, we've had to acknowledge and deal with the fact that there are enough people around here who don't understand that there is a time for pretty much everything, and thus want to be vicious morons all the time. And then, of course, they bawl when other people treat them accordingly. The whole thing has become a mess.

    Once upon a time, moderators would discuss among themselves a culling of the herd, something we never undertook, or were willing to seriously advocate. These days, we don't say much about it because the situation has degraded so much that culling the herd might reduce this place to a virtual ghost town.

    And there were some political quotas involved that didn't help at all, and some really strange coincidences of circumstance that are hard to explain.

    The bottom line, though, is that we have to set some rules that might seem pretty stupid; the alternative is effectively shutting this place down—one way or another—because enough people just aren't smart enough to understand when to say when.

    It's a controversial standard of impartiality that moderators have argued furiously with one another over before.
     
  19. Shadow1 Valued Senior Member

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    lol, then i can tell you anything now?
    ok buffy, weaky weaky, uuh, :spank:hole, hahaha
    just kidding
     
  20. Giambattista sssssssssssssssssssssssss sssss Valued Senior Member

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    Thank you for your reply!

    Where does libel apply to anonymous individuals using assumed identities? Unless you were referring to something else.

    Mmmm. Hussein.

    So when Palintology was struck, did it produce water? Oil?

    Are those figureheads really a huge concern to this forum? Is that where libel comes in?
     
  21. spidergoat pubic diorama Valued Senior Member

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    I would also just add that there probably is a lot of bigotry against the Arabs and Palestinians, and at least some of those people use Hamas and terrorism as cover to allow them to express their bigotry.
     
  22. Giambattista sssssssssssssssssssssssss sssss Valued Senior Member

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    You can tell me anything, but...
    Did you just call me a nig ... errr?

    I think you did.

    :blbl:

    Oh, and what does it mean, "weaky weaky"?

    Something about my hole?

    :scratchin:
     
  23. Giambattista sssssssssssssssssssssssss sssss Valued Senior Member

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    Oh, the dear President's unfortunate middle name, yer talkin?

    I think it has more to do overall with a sense of foreignness in many cases, rather than bigotry.

    And you seem to be very much pleased to point the finger at Middle Eastern/Islamic bogeymen, come to think of it.

    Does that same anti-terrorist fear not spur on an allergic reaction to names like "Hussein"?

    Get em!
     

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