Bells, I'm not selling myself short, I swear. I just honestly did not make the changes myself. My will had absolutely nothing to do with it at all. I know it's hard to understand, but it's true. I could have never in a million years made some changes like those. I didn't necessarily even want to make some of them...it just wouldn't have even occurred to me to, even if I had the will. I had forgotten about your family. It's funny...you're the black sheep because you don't believe, and I'm the black sheep because I do. I'm used to being the good little approval-seeker *pat, pat on my head*....so this rejection and scorn has been hard to get used to. Thanks for discussing with me, and for being so nice. Hey, I didn't know you were pregnant. How exciting...congratulations! Is it your first?