We have also seen that "space-time" is a mathematical model and not the physical reality.
Everything that we have is a model, frankly, we don't even know what reality really is. There are good models, in the sense that one can make predictions based on them, and that these predictions are very close to observations of reality. And there are bad models, in the sense that their predictions are either faulty or not testable.
Einsteins space-time model is a very good one. It gave a lot of predictions, and most of those predictions were found to be correct, or at least very close to the observations.
Still, there are hints that the model has limits. On sub-atomic scales quantum effects come into play, which are not in Einsteins model. Near singularities like inside the black holes, or the big bang (if that happened) the formulas very likely do not give sensible predictions anymore.
But between those extremes, Einsteins idea of space-time has proven to be a very good one, a very useful one, too.
I don't think we can ever have "physical reality". All we can have are models of it, but we have an history of improving models, and even the simpler Newtonian model that was used before Einsteins is a good one, unless speeds become very high, or objects traverse regions of changing gravity.
Many machines are built, using the Newtonian model and work fine, because the model gives good results for mechanic problems that we face on earth surface.
Knowing the limits of a model is also something important, e.g. to know when you can use Newtons equations, and when you need to use Einsteins, which are more copmplex and more difficult to work with.
But asking for "physical reality" to wipe all arguments based on these models is not helpful, we don't know the physical reality, we likely cannot ever know it. But our models are very good at a large range of problems and predictions. So we better debate the limits of the models, to find out where they work and where they don't, and how to improve them, instead of just wiping them because they are not "physical reality".