I really don't mean to make this a discussion on male gender and sexuality. But I can't resist this one.....I don't really blame men for being so 'neanderthal' in their relationships with women. They are real straight men who were never supposed to be in a relationship with women in the first place. They have been forced/ trained/ brainwashed to be in relationship with women, and they can't do it well enough. They can't be considerate, supportive and emotiaonally intimate with women because they are naturally not made to be so. I don't blame their behaviour --- its the heterosexual society which must take the blame.MetaKron said:Yeah, that Neanderthal doesn't deserve the attention that he thinks he does.
Women being weaker than men is sexually unappealing and often a giant pain in the backside. I like it when Australian for "no" is a big guy flying through the screen door and landing on his backside in the dust. When I help her move her furniture it will be nice to have her lift the other end of the couch. Also, it would be nice if when we had sex she actually participated, instead of acting like God had decided that only one of us would enjoy it, and not very much.
These ideas have to be termed "primitive", the ones that we are protesting, and they were obsolete when they were thought up, too.
You can identify the real heterosexual male (but it does not mean that he does not have a sexual need for men) by the fact that he will gel with a woman like a fish takes to water. They will live like equals, like they were both of the same sex/ gender, like they are both one, there remains no difference at all. In fact a truly heteroseuxal male will readily subdue (in a positive sense) himself before a woman, and would easily allow her to dominate him. He will enjoy that. Such males are indeed rare.