sderenzi Introduction

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sderenzi

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I would just like to say thank you all for putting up with my rather unique yet distasteful posts. I am starting to find I was merely bored & lonely, without much else to discuss. I shall endevour to develop more complex means of communication an refrain from making meaningless threads from this point onward.

While I do see many of you are upset with my opinions I also appreciate those of you who've offered advice, encouragement, and insight into the many problems I currently face. In truth I have very little to be upset or mad about, my life is basically boring without drama. Below I list current interests I have and perhaps you will see why I find things to think about somewhat troublesome:

1. Alien Abductions
2. UFO's
3. Psychology (various facets of it including psychoanalysis, neurolingustics)
4. Environmentalism (concepts concerning the proper use and development of various regions of the planet)

Below you will find a section about me personally:

1. Dislike sports
2. Dislike crowded places (anxiety related)
3. Enjoy Science Fiction novels (Robert Heinlein, Isaac Asimov, Ray Bradbury)

Hopefully this helps you all get to know me.

PS I luV u!
 
sderenzi said:
2. Dislike crowded places (anxiety related)
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Before this turns into, yet another, "help me" thread.. let me ask you this: are afraid of public places because of

1) Chaos.. you feel you have no control (you want control)
2) You are afraid of people will shun you for speaking
3) You are really just afraid people will want to talk to you.

For number 3, I feel this is the major factor in social anxiety (for most cases), though this set is not mutually exclusive. Some think they want to have a social life.. have fun.. because they like to see others have fun doing it and think they can have the same benefits, but in reality they do not like people coming into their lives for whatever reasons. Maybe people drain your energy? Maybe they love the idealistic world in their head more than real life and what they see in real life, from the outside, is translated into a world that makes sense to them... but when they interact with the real world which is NOT what their heads see or want to see, they feel people are the problem, or perhaps the world.

I think you are asking us to change the world for you.. or make the world seem better than you think it is. We cannot really do that. We can only suggest you try.

I don't know.
 
Hi sdrenzi

Thank you for your latest thread

how much money have you got??

What you need to do mate is this

get some new clothes and go out and get pissed with a couple of the boys and go to a night club or 2 and just go out and enjoy yourself....

You must learn to say fuck it from time to time and let go of any inhibitions
...

Quit starting the same old threads and get out their and do it..

the world aint as bad as you think it is..

or alternatively join a club of somesort with people of a slightly different outlook to you.

do you have any brothers or sisters or cousins who go out and have a good time

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take care
zak
 
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