It may be, but my feeling about it is that I have nothing to offer the young lady except bad smells and that next morning feeling of "my god, what did I do last night?" Maybe estrogen makes it work for them.
I don't like discussions that end up with someone accusing someone of being a "pedophile" for even thinking that it might be perfectly OK for a 13 year old girl to have sex with an adult, that what we think of as a "pervert" may be much more rare than we thought, or that pedophile baiters are full of shit. The fact is that teenage sexuality exists, and desire often exists before the teens, and the prosecution of that poor girl and boy in Utah was malicious and not called for. The many-times-damned prosecutor had to prosecute a child as an adult to get anything to stick, and whoever signed off on that needs to lose his law degree.
All of this garbage promotes a wierdness that causes people to become self-destructive. It isn't the sex that someone has when they are a teenager that drives some of them to suicide. It is so-called society's insane reaction to it.
Even then I'd still rather have it chopped off than have sex with a 13 year old. 13 year old girls and boys are icky.
