We were basically dead before we were alive so life after death isn't actually a oxymoron.
No we weren't. We had no trace of existence. There was a sperm and an ovum which would some day combine to create us, but until that moment they were not a person. There was most definitely no
you before you were conceived, so
you most definitely were not alive (or dead!) at any time during those billions of years.
Now ten or fifteen minutes
after the event we identify as "death" occurs, your synapses have degraded irreversibly, so from your own perspective the most important part of "you" is gone: your consciousness and other cognitive processes.
But the people who knew you will retain their memories of you. Things that you've created (stories, buildings, your children, your posts on SciForums) will continue to exist, at least for a while. The government will retain records of the (now probably completely irrelevant) minutiae of your life for generations. So it's not completely wrong to say "Cyperium is still alive because he lives on in our hearts and minds, in the wisdom he imparted to us, in the stories he told that we still pass around, in his grandchildren who are in the Senate and the Fortune 500, in that ugly barn he built behind his house for his goats, and on the government's databases."
This is only a metaphor for life, but even so it clearly has no analog in the millennia
before you lived. You were not dead then; the concept of "you" did not exist.
As such, it serves as a good reminder that the actual biological
you will not exist after your synapses degrade irreversibly. If someone asks you, "What will it be like for you in the year 2200," the correct answer is, "It will be exactly like it was for me in 1800. I wasn't there, and I won't be there."
People who are frightened of what they will experience after death should be soothed by comparing it to what they experienced before conception: absolutely nothing.
I wonder why you would think that it is so impossible with life after death seeing that it has happened once already.
No it hasn't. You're playing semantic parlor games with us. We were not "dead" before we were alive. We were nothing.
I see it as unscientific to say that something that has happened once can't happen again . . . .
And as the Linguistics Moderator I shall point out that it is unscientific to say that we were dead before we were born. I'm curious to find out if you've ever actually encountered that assertion in formal writing where words are chosen carefully. I very much doubt it.
We know that there is a possibility for living. How can that possibility be taken away?
We "know" no such thing. Sorry to burst your bubble. This is a textbook example of how sloppy language can cause trouble.
I doubt that he meant that you should treat them with contempt, to not have respect for someone doesn't allow anyone to be a uptight bastard...I would loose the respect I have for someone if that is the manner that they behave by.
Christians and advocates of the other Abrahamic religions have done quite enough damage to civilization--in fact they literally
destroyed two of the only six civilizations that arose independently on this planet: Inca and Olmec/Maya/Aztec. It's perfectly reasonable to tell them to go fuck themselves before they actually launch the three-sided Nuclear Holy War they seem determined to bring about and destroy the remaining ones.
I have no respect or sympathy for the absurd fairytales of religion and the incredible evil that has been motivated by those fairytales. I am baffled that any rational person can. "Life after death" is merely one if those absurd fairytales.
I find it fascinating that many of the non-Abrahamic religions ascribe "souls" to non-human animals, allowing them to be judged by the gods and reincarnated and/or allowed into Heaven. But the Christians, Muslims and Jews postulate a Heaven into which only human animals are invited.
My kind, generous, loyal dog will not be waiting for me in Heaven, but my evil mother will?
"If dogs don't go to Heaven, then when I die I want to go where they went." -- Will Rogers.