Does your wife know too much about you?

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mordea said:
If he was a man in his marriage, instead of a pussy, he would put his wife in her place. And she wouldn't even consider divorce.
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What's the place for a wife, in your opinion, mordea?

Which century are you living in?
 
cluelusshusbund said:
How bout... "grow a set" an jus tell her the truth.???
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I can't help but agree. Why are you trying to hide your actions? Is your wife so unreasonable that she would not let you party or what? I can only suspect her reason for not letting you would be due to her believing you had intentions that she would not approve of? Is that the case..?

Otherwise I don't get people who lie when it's easier to tell the truth. And there is definitely nothing invasive about wanting to know where your fucking spouse is in the middle of the night... unless you have a very shitty and unintimate relationship.
 
Seriously? Man up, grow a sack. If she would leave you if she knew whatever you're hiding from her, then you're being too selfish. And if I went into detail how much I dislike that cowardly attitude of lying to those you supposedly love, I might be banned for flaming, or some nonsense.

If she doesn't leave you, then hey, you don't have to sneak around anymore.
 
LostInThought7 said:
Seriously? Man up, grow a sack. If she would leave you if she knew whatever you're hiding from her, then you're being too selfish. And if I went into detail how much I dislike that cowardly attitude of lying to those you supposedly love, I might be banned for flaming, or some nonsense.

If she doesn't leave you, then hey, you don't have to sneak around anymore.
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So true. My blood boils when people lie to those they profess to like or love for no reason except fear of that person's response. That behavior is abhorrent because it means you are afraid of being serious and are trying to take the backdoor out of a relationship with someone. If you are going to break it off, then do it cleanly and honorably or not at all.
 
I get the impression that "Muslim" is in an unhappy, probably arranged, marriage. He also hasn't grown beyond the adolescent binge-drinking, partying phase of his life. Probably he was married off way too early. I pity his wife.
 
Muslim said:
I don't understand, unless I talk in my sleep or she is spying on me, she seems to know everything for example I had planned I was going to go out partying (without my wife of course) I knew I would end up coming home late so I pretended I would be working late I even wore my work suit, and before I was about to leave she said: "Are you sure, you are going to work?" and I was there thinking: "How the **** has she clicked on" so I just kept the act up went to the car, sat in the car and then decided to go back home and not go out,

The thing is, I can't even drink at home if she is around she always smells it off me, I can't understand how she can smell vodka off me,

How do you women do that? How do you know about our shenanigans?


Give me tips on how to get away with being able to do what I want to do without my wife finding out!
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Try smoking a stick of dynamite...

She'll never see that coming.

:mufc:
 
Muslim said:
I don't understand, unless I talk in my sleep or she is spying on me, she seems to know everything for example I had planned I was going to go out partying (without my wife of course) I knew I would end up coming home late so I pretended I would be working late I even wore my work suit, and before I was about to leave she said: "Are you sure, you are going to work?" and I was there thinking: "How the **** has she clicked on" so I just kept the act up went to the car, sat in the car and then decided to go back home and not go out,

The thing is, I can't even drink at home if she is around she always smells it off me, I can't understand how she can smell vodka off me,

How do you women do that? How do you know about our shenanigans?


Give me tips on how to get away with being able to do what I want to do without my wife finding out!
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You're probably just bad at lying, or at least she knows when you're lying. But for advice's sake, You could always do like I used to (still do) with my parents and tell the truth, but not go into details. Like if my mother asks what I did on a date I mention dinner and the movie, but leave out the more... intimate details.
 
mike47 said:
In no culture a woman is allowed to pass the night out without her husband knowing where she is . even people in Scandinavia where sexuality is like bread and water, they still have marriages, jealousy......etc .
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REPLY: What planet are you from my friend ? It seems me and the people I know are very different from you. Those of us who made the mistake of marrying realized it soon enough and got real about it. You go screw who ever you see fit to and I will do the same. The things that hold marriages such as mine together are shared financial interests, a genuine like for each other, that all too soon does not include a sexual attraction for each other. We share laughs about most anything, but the sexual desire is no longer there. I am fortunate to have a new beautiful young woman in my life. I doubt it will last much longer, it never does for me. She will grow tired of me. I have money but so do other younger, more attractive men. I hope we will still be able to share our PRIMAL THERAPY PARTNERSHIP. I think that is good reason for a lasting relationship. This, of course would include some sex, we do have incredible times together, at least I know I do. Whatever, fellowtraveler
 
wow people got fired up and jumped to conclusions extremely quickly here.

i'd talk to her and try and make compromises. what you should do depends on what you want to get from the marriage. i'd want intimacy and honesty, so i'd want her to be cool with me going out.
 
mordea:

I'm guessing you don't have a wife, then, unless perhaps you live in some backwards nation governed according to outdated religious laws.
 
James R said:
mordea:

I'm guessing you don't have a wife, then, unless perhaps you live in some backwards nation governed according to outdated religious laws.
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Hahaha! In your country, women routinely deny their ex-husbands custody of the children while getting paid alimony for doing fuck all. I'll take my 'backwards' nation over your 'progressive' one any time! :D
 
Firstly I am not going to be having sex with someone else, I've tried talking to her she pulls the who Islamic nonsense out, how that I should not be drinking, Islam bans anything you can get a slight enjoyment out, it even has laws governing on how to have sex with your wife, me being an atheist I am getting sick of this, I've told her loads of times I don't believe in a god, she thinks its a "phase" I can't go out with my friends, she always has to be hugging/cuddling me I need some time alone also, sometimes I want to stay up all night and watch the snooker and then sleep all morning, but she has to wake me up 9am in the morning, and she makes me drink water first thing in the morning, I'm not allowed to skip breakfast, I'm a man I need to do things on my own I do love her I really do, but sometimes she can be so moody,
 
Muslim said:
, I've tried talking to her she pulls the who Islamic nonsense out, how that I should not be drinking,
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Maybe you should point out that the Koran promotes a husband beating his disobedient wife? She should be praising her lucky stars that you aren't an Islamic purist.
 
Muslim said:
Firstly I am not going to be having sex with someone else, I've tried talking to her she pulls the who Islamic nonsense out, how that I should not be drinking, Islam bans anything you can get a slight enjoyment out, it even has laws governing on how to have sex with your wife, me being an atheist I am getting sick of this, I've told her loads of times I don't believe in a god, she thinks its a "phase" I can't go out with my friends, she always has to be hugging/cuddling me I need some time alone also, sometimes I want to stay up all night and watch the snooker and then sleep all morning, but she has to wake me up 9am in the morning, and she makes me drink water first thing in the morning, I'm not allowed to skip breakfast, I'm a man I need to do things on my own I do love her I really do, but sometimes she can be so moody,
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If you are my son in law or my brother in law all you get is this :
:spank::spank::spank: !.
 
mordea said:
Precisely. Slavery is dead. Muslim can go where he wants, when he wants, without needing an a-OK from his wife. If she doesn't like that, tough titty.
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i'd suggest you replace tough titty with "your wife is going to be really upset with you". the consequences of this depends on the wife.

mordea said:
Only if you think you have the right to absolute and complete control over your partner.
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if you prevent your wife from going out partying and lying to you, are you exercising absolute and complete control over your wife?

mordea said:
[in response to what's a wife's place] In servitude to her husband.
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so a wife no right to affect what you do and should be completely dedicated. what's the husband's role? what's the point of marriage in your opinion? have your strategies worked in your own relationships?

this is directed at muslim, i think you should talk to your wife about your concerns. they sound reasonable and similar to concerns many boyfriends/husbands have. its tough that she considers your atheism a phase, but she needs to respect your opinion.
 
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