It doesn't matter to me whether there is an absolute objective morality or not.
If you say so.
That was the question and I (unlike you) addressed it without subterfuge.
Subterfuge? To what are you referring?
I'm not "advocating" for anything. I'm just addressing the question. You seem to want to change the question.
I have already given my answer to the question, I believe.
Remember that it was you who brought up such matters as whether infidelity is acceptable in marriage, whether marriage itself is outdated, whether it's okay to eat animals, and other specific moral questions that would be off-topic for this thread. Yet here you are complaining that I'm somehow off-topic.
I'm also not someone who judges others as "selfish" or "not".
That would make you a very unusual person. Most people do regularly make such judgments about others. We're a social species. Well, most of us are.
How would I know that and why would I care in the first place.? That seems like a petty thing to do. Why would I judge you to be selfish? How about impatient? Should I judge others by that standard? Or how about petulant?
If you're trying to tell me that you never judge other people, I'm afraid that I'm going to find that very difficult to believe. What are you - some kind of robot?
It's not for me to judge others by such standards.
Standards? Are you claiming you have no moral standards? I find that, also, very hard to believe.
I'd guess the Romans and Greeks didn't consider themselves to be immoral if they had slaves but I don't really know the answer to that.
I don't think "the Romans" or "the Greeks" can necessarily all be lumped in single convenient baskets.
Do
you consider slavery to be immoral? Tell me why, or why not. Or do you find yourself unable to choose a side on that question because morals aren't objective?
I know that some in the U.S. are for the death penalty (not me) under certain circumstances. In many place both in the U.S. and elsewhere that isn't considered a moral position to take.
There isn't a right or wrong answer to that question.
Of course there's a right or wrong answer to whether the death penalty is moral! The answer comes down, as usual, to what our core values are. Once we have a clear idea about those, then we can ask the question of whether the death penalty promotes or works against those values (and the primary social goals related to them).
Perhaps you should think about why
you consider the death penalty to be a bad policy. That might point you towards the existence of some core values that you have - maybe ones you weren't previously aware you have. Do you consider those core values to be arbitrary? If somebody holds completely contradictory values, do you think you are in any position to morally critique that person, or is one person's ideas of what is moral just as good as any other's? [This idea is called moral relativism, and it's demonstrably wrong as long as we're able to agree on just a few very basic principles. People who aren't psychopaths can usually do that.]
It has to be decided by local culture. When I grew up it was "immoral" to cut the grass or to do any yard work on Sunday. In most places that isn't even a consideration.
Why was it considered immoral? Is the basis for that consideration sound and rational? Do you think it is possible to judge soundness and rationality objectively? If so, then why can't morals be objective?
For a year or two when I was a kid there were Sunday Blue Laws where most businesses couldn't be open and those that were couldn't sell much of their merchandise. A drug store could be open but it could only sell drugs and not toys or hardware. Is that moral or immoral?
Did people say "It's wrong for businesses to open on Sundays" and "It's wrong for drug stores to sell things other than drugs on Sundays, but fine for them to sell drugs on Sundays"? I'm assuming they did. If you were to ask those people
why one thing was wrong and another okay, could they give you a reason? Would that reason be sound and rational? [And, if we want to get meta about this, we could also ask: is it morally acceptable to judge the soundness and rationality of the reasons that people give for calling things moral or immoral?]
Perhaps it is. It might depend on the reasons given, I think. You, on the other hand, seem to be telling me you're unwilling to make moral judgments, on the basis that you're completely unable to do so objectively (and therefore it would be "wrong" to do that (?!)).
What do you think?