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#268 Objectively, the speed of light is irrelevant to the simultaneity of NOW on the surface of a 2D slice of TIME
[A. Einstein, 1905 paper, par.1, simultaneity.
We have to take into account that all our judgments in which time plays a part are always judgments of simultaneous events... We have so far defined only an ``A time'' and a ``B time.'' We have not defined a common ``time'' for A and B, for the latter cannot be defined at all unless we establish by definition that the ``time'' required by light to travel from A to B equals the ``time'' it requires to travel from B to A.]
#272 "Are you an anti-relativist by any chance?" No of course not. IMO you are unnecessarily introducing SR to the OP question.
[SR deals with 'time' and the effect of motion induced phenomena on perception and measurement. Einstein asked the same question of a universal time, and concluded there is none.]
#281 Both observers get a subjectively false experience of the true pitch of the sound. And so it is with time.
IOW time has an objective NOW . Observers experience a subjective relative NOW depending on their POV.
[It's a true experience altered by relative motion of source and detector.
Observer (or device) motion cannot alter the pitch, but it can alter the perception of the sound. The same is true for clocks, which are frequencies. Their perceived rate depends on their motion. Perception is what the observer thinks is happening, and doesn't always agree with actual events outside the mind. Feel free to call it an illusion.]
#281 Question: does time exist without an observer? Can the Universe be its own observer and experience its own NOW?
[History shows 'time' as a human method of recording and coordinating events, an abstract procedure, like mathematics or music. The behavior of the universe of objects
is regulated by laws (forces), and depends on the state of the objects.]
#283 When I observe something, I see it as it was in my past. But that does not mean that it did not exist and share a common NOW before my observation of its existence in my present
[You only know it existed 'then' after you saw its image. I.e. you can only be aware of an event after it happens, all information is historical.]
#287 Simultaneity is not necessarily subject to relativity.
This answers the OP question. There is no need to invoke observers. Events can happen simultaneously and have the same NOW independent of observation.
[Simultaneity is part of the foundation of SR. If a device records events, a human is needed to interpret the recording.]