I think my Kindergarten teacher's words were something like, "Three take away three equals zero."
It's all in the context one uses '0', that's why it has caused so much aggro and 'undefined' stuff when used without really understanding what it means in the context under study.
For example, it is a 'balanced state' when two opposing forces are in equilibrium but are still active.
Or, for another example as in your context above, one can call the initial state a 'neutral 0' state where no apples were present. Then you introduced 3 apples and that was an UNbalanced state (+3). Then you took away 3 apples and returned the state to 'neutral 0'.
Note well the REALITY therein: AT NO STAGE (except philosophically in your imagination) was there EVER any NEGATIVE PHYSICAL/MATHEMATICAL/LOGICAL apples (-3) state existing BEFORE you put the +3 apples on the table! And then the -3 state was only the REVERSAL ACTION (removal) of the original +3 apples that existed on the table you put them on.
You get the idea. And the maths/logics involving 'zero' are infested with cross-contextual and purely unreal/philosophical notions/constructs which CONFUSE the whole maths/number system/operations and causing 'undetermined' undefined etc 'outputs which are of NO USE TO ANYBODY and actually are damaging and dooming mathematics as currently axiomatically 'constructed/conducted' to perpetual incompleteness. For these and all the other reasons I have pointed out over the years and recently.
So go carefully, irrespective on which 'side' you think you are on. The maths will confound you on BOTH 'sides' unless it's cleared up from scratch according to reality CONTEXT as I am doing. Good luck and take care, MD, everyone.
PS: MD, it's 11:07 PM here, so G'night!