Are you guys really that thick headed that you didn't understand what I was saying? Searcher, you're sounding more and more like my husband every day. You're sure you're not a guy? I mean, why do I have to explain in detail the most simple basic points to you all the time? Are you trying to be antagonistic or are you really that dense? Flash, what I was implying, and if you actually pay attention to this you'll HAVE to realize that it's a pretty simple concept, that when you and I talk via e-mail, you cuss like a sailor just like I do. But for some reason, when you come out here, you don't. Here's another example, I had a boss who was an absolute condescending bitch to her employees, but whenever HER boss came around, all of a sudden she spoke like a 900 number operator. Here's another example, you know how some church people go to church every Sunday, and shake hands with people, and hold hands with their spouse, and hug everybody, and smile all fake like, and talk all "Jesus loves you, God bless you". Then as soon as they leave church, they go out to eat, and treat their waitress like a total dog, and then don't leave a tip (I used to be the waitress). Here's another example, I read that Skye and 666 refer to friends as f*&k knuckle and bitch. I'm sure that you have told friends of yours to fuck off in jest when they were razzing you or arguing with you. I know I can't be imagining this, as I see this go on all around me everyday. At the office, some one is disagreeing about a basketball game, "Xavier's gonna kick UC's ass this year, you watch". And the response is from the UC grad, "oh, kiss my ass, you're f'ing crazy, UC's gonna pound you guys". My own mom thinks it's cute to flip me off. It is cute actually. Do you think that when I hear people speak this way that I automatically assume that they HATE the person they are talking to? Do you think I automatically assume that what I'm witnessing is an ATTACK OR A THREAT. Do I don't. Why? Because I'm not a lunatic, that's why. And what the hell that has to do with taking a shit, I will never know! LMAO! Notice I said "alter the true nature of your personality and thoughts to gain the approval of a particular audience." And even that statement was in reference to "private vs public conversation". I guess that if it were YOUR TRUE NATURE to take a dump in public, and the only reason that you didn't do it was because you were trying to gain public approval, then yes, you would be acting. This is soooo irrelevant, I can't even believe I'm explaining this. This is what I'm talking about when I say that you are making this IMPOSSIBLE, Searcher. You don't even apply the most simple form of logic to your arguements. It's almost like you're arguing just for the sake of antagonism, rather than actually having a valid contention. I think that the problem lies in your assumptions. In what you've already decided to be true in your mind. You simply close off the possibility that your assumptions could be wrong, and therefore you can not learn anything that contradicts them. You've already decided that Christianity is a bunch of hooey, so you intentionally apply absolutely no logic or common sense whatsoever to any of the teachings or the scripture that you hear. You just ASSUME that they mean something completely ILLOGICAL, when in actuality they do not, you simply choose to see it that way. Same thing with me. You've already decided that I'm a hateful judgemental, close-minded bitch, so everything I say, you respond with some kind of idiotic antagonistic BS that doesn't even make any sense. Well the truth is that I consider you guys to be my friends, AND I'm not mean, hateful, judgemental, OR STUPID, so please would you just give it the f&*k up already? And yes, I'm still smiling, in a completely calm fashion. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! ------------------ "ET phone home!" "Uh, hello Satan?" "Hey, your plan worked great! They all think I'm cute!"