Op is asking questions from humans point of view. I think jordan maxwell said it best, that god is just. That may not mean what you want it to mean, but there is a right way and a wrong way in things. You believe what you want, but i would say do not let anyone tell you what you think god is, or what ever is out there. Humans have no understanding beyond there limited perceptions. Look how many times science gets it wrong, also its the reason why humans believe in teh super natural, it just means we as humans only have a limited range of perception, and beyond that science cannot understand. So do not go claiming you know what god wants or what there vews on our world is, as you have no idea.