You miss the point. Post 6: mathman essentially wants first right of refusal on the pronouns for the non-binary community, based on his own predilections. Turning the tables on him, his own logic says he doesn't get to decide for himself what he gets called. I get to decide for him what I want to call him - and I don't have to be right - I just have to be comfortable with it. So I say 'mathman' rubs me the wrong way. Because some people decide to make it political doesn't mean it becomes political for everyone. The non-binary community should have the right to set their pronouns, free of harrassment by trigerees.