Which Love would you choose?

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What would you do?

  1. Stay with the current relationship.

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  2. Try to rekindle the old relationship.

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    20.0%
  3. Other. (Explain below)

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  1. Thoreau Valued Senior Member

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    Would you leave a new relationship with someone you love if your ex of many years together and of whom you still love said that they wanted to give it another shot?

    This scenario: Was with the ex for 1 1/2 years. They broke up with me. Been in new relationship for a matter of weeks now. I love both people.
     
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  3. John99 Banned Banned

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    it depends. i love all my ex gf's and they consider them to be friends but i learned the hard way when i got my heart broken around early 20s and then i realized that if the other person does not love you no longer then you have to accept just as people feel it is ok fro themselves to move along.

    i am still good friends with my ex gf but there are always things that differentiate us from being just like regular friends and i know when she is playing me a little and getting jealous when i am with another person but it is just a little jealousy because neither of us really want to get back together but it is still there. that said, normally it is not good to go back and sometimes the ex can be just jealous and looking to sabotage because they would not be interested in you again until someone new came in. this is a game though and it is due to the ex's insecurity or wanting to see you happy just not with another person.

    thats life and you got to roll the dice and see what comes up, you make the wrong decision then you have to live with it. no one can tell you what to do and sometimes you just have to grow up because adults should be beyond this.
     
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  5. Thoreau Valued Senior Member

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    What if the ex doesn't even know I'm seeing someone?
     
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  7. John99 Banned Banned

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    interesting. how are we supposed to tell you what to do though? this is why i can only tell you about personal experiences. it is 50-50 chance, tbh i would go by who i am attracted to more and who i like to be with more first but then there are other factors to consider, like stability, both financial and emotional, who is more mature\better person, doesnt have bad habits, treats you good etc.

    since we dont know these people involved then we cant really give you any answers...except it is usually not a good idea to go back. some people dont ever go back, only forward and some get stuck in nostalgia.
     
  8. Thoreau Valued Senior Member

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    True. Good points. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......
     
  9. Thoreau Valued Senior Member

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    46 views so far and only 3 votes. Come on people. I'm not asking you to tell me what to do, I'm asking what would YOU do.
     
  10. draqon Banned Banned

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    never give up past relationships. All people are worth of love.
     
  11. orcot Valued Senior Member

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    No they are not
     
  12. Thoreau Valued Senior Member

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    Well, decided to be with my ex. I'm happy.

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  13. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    You idiot! Why did you do that! LOL You'll be sorry, come back and tell me later about it

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    The new one was fresh and ripe for slutty acts, you're an idiot
     
  14. draqon Banned Banned

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    says a looser.
     
  15. Cowboy My Aim Is True Valued Senior Member

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    I'd stay with the new person, so long as there aren't already troubles in this relationship. There's a reason your ex is an ex.
     
  16. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    I am a firm believer in cutting your losses and moving on.
     
  17. Anti-Flag Pun intended Registered Senior Member

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    This. How long before they leave again? That said, we wouldn't be human if we let logic dictate our actions over our emotions.
     
  18. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    You're gonna be sorry I know she's already cheating on you dumb ass!
     
  19. Oldy Registered Member

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    Interesting..))
     

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