I cannot exclude myself from this, as I am a woman, and I do post on this forum. However, I have happened to notice that the women on this forum, (the ones I have encountered at least) have a much weaker debating style than the majority of the males. They are much more prone to being highly opinionated, rather than listening and providing reasoned arguements. They also appear to be very feminist. I am of course a woman, and have no doubt done the above on this forum. I just wanted to know if anyone else had found the above to be true.
Yes. This one female poster put me on her ignore list. Because she couldn't debate with me in the vegetarian thread. I think what is comes down is like when a woman's womb fills her brain empties. or something...
See, now that isn't a particularly bright thing to say it is? when a woman's womb fills her brain empties What of those of us who have not had children? You will also find, that on occassions, you can be particularly over zealous and pedantic, making you impossible to form a coherrant debate with.
Shutup woman! Back to the kitchen with you. Bring us tea so that muslim and I may debate and have hot gay sex afterwards.
I suppose it could come across as a chauvinistic comment. Anyway, most females. love to state. They hate to learn. They love to make up lies. But they hate to listen. Anyway, I actually want to make a point. Now... Most females think it is just perfect to hate guys for no reason. They make it into an artform, they make it into an INDUSTRY. There are greeting cards telling males how useless they are. Greeting cards are meant to put love into people's life. But innocent good males are not considered human enough it seems, to be treated wtih respect. There are anti male films all over the place. Just about any commercialised film will have some anti male things in it. The adverts are the worst bits of the media. Theres whole comic books devoted SOLELY to hating males in the most disgusting evil ways. If it was against jews or females, a comic book like that would not be printable. females do seem to think that males are the best victim of their disgusting mentality. They will say all sorts of anti male sexual comments anytime for no reason, over a petty matter. Like if you don't agree with a girl, will say you have a small cock or none at all. If you say something they don't like, they'll say you "can't get laid", even if you have just written a nice long well-thought out and reasonable example. As if saying such a retarded comment settles it all. Thats the kind of mentality I'd expect from asshole 14 year old school kids, along with "your mum's a whore" and other retarded comments. So why do females think they can be respected by acting like such retarded immature assholes?
No way. Am not gay I don't like gays. Don't say that. But yeah am a traditionalist and I do believe women should do catering an stuff rather then debating. Women chat and men converse.
That could so easily be applied to males as well, perhaps it more of a human trait. That also could be applied to males, males will judge a woman on the size of her breasts, they will call her a slut for sleeping around where as that is considered to be a good thing in the male world. All of your arguements against women can be applied to men, men use women as objects. However, this is about the women specific to sci-forums. Their debating style, or lack there of, and tendency to be highly strung feminists.
Do you not think such traditionalist values are best left in the past where they originated? Women have fought for equal rights and in the modern world are just at home conversing and debating over politics and law, as they are chatting about cake recipes.
Well I don't see it that way. Females have been really cruel to me, I mean I've just had an argument with me girl am really mad about it. If you ask me, most females who come to SCI forums, want to just chat not really have a debate.
Ok, well, my experience is different. From what I have found, the majority of women I have encountered have come to sci-forums to push their very strong opinions on others, the same as the religious zealots. Whether that be feminism, pro/anti abortion, whatever. So you are correct, I don't think they are here to debate, but I don't think they're here to chat either.
We its just an opinion, I would never marry a westernized women. I like to know that I can tell a women what to do, like I can tell her to cook for me and she would do it. Looking back over all my relationships, with westernized women they had clearly showed that their concerns are more important than mine. All of my girlfriends refused to be emotionally responsible. They'd say stupid cruel things they didn't even believe in, then refuse to admit it. But they would only be with me if I was always forgiving to them. The moment I demanded that they be responsible, the relationship was over! It's a pretty simple pattern, love to: My girlfriends: Me giving whatever they want. Whether its harmful to me or not that I have to give it (and sometimes it was very harmful). Them not caring for me or trying to understand me, unless they've planned consciously that I must give them something back. Me: Both people caring and understanding each other. This is why females go directly from being distant, to being clingy, with no intermediate stage of getting their act together and being in balance! Their distancing is them making the males have to make so much more extra effort. Their being clingy is them demanding the males make so much more extra effort. Females are not "more loving" at all. Just more lying that they are more loving. They do demand others "love" them more, if that counts as being more loving, though. I can't say any of those females knew what love is. So sad, when they constantly had me show great love to them...
Surely you cannot feel it justified to judge all of us as females on a few bad experiences? There are always bad apples, and you cannot say that all westernised women are cold manipulative bitches. On the other hand, it shows that you cannot be ready for a real relationship, as you feel you have to be able to control your woman, because she must do as she is told when she is told. I would just like to add, on the flip side, the majority of males are also cold, uncaring, manipulative and merely seeking sex. You cannot place all of the blame on women, both sexes are responsible.
I don't mean like a Robot or something. I mean I do want her to be assertive at times. Its just the experiences I've had. They all turned out to be feminists, you're the first (westernized) woman I have come across who is not a feminist. The problem is I get scared of them, I mean with a guy you can least hit him, but something happens to me, when a female goes nasty to be, I can't think of anything to say to her, and I have to take it all. what a loser! Females makes all kinds of hypocrisies, such as that boys can't hit girls but girls can hit boys. (While claiming they are for equality, hah!) And hypocrisies like feminism means equality, despite the obvious fact that the entire word is about females. Take away the "ism" out of feminism and you have "femin", obviously feminism is only about females. So how can a movement only about females EVER be about equality? Females like jerks, not nice guys
Yes, it is true, most feminists actually want women to be the superior sex, when it comes down to it. That isn't true about females only likeing jerks either, every woman is an individual, so i can only give a rough generalisation. Women want a man who can look after her, provide physical protection should it be needed, show that he is masculine, and "manly". But, they also like a man, who will not fall to pieces every time they show some emotion, and who will look after them when they are ill, and do those nice small sweet things.
Might be true, but in general, debating skills on the internet are a failure. Feminism is misleading and destructive, for women most of all, IMHO.
That's probably true, but my experience of this forum has shown that women seem to go around in circles spouting feminist ideals rather than actually debating the idea put forward. I'm not sure about your feminism idea, could you elaborate?
muslim sounds very much like the women you described, looking to push their viewpoint, rather than expanding it. I don't really know which members are women and which are not, but when I did know, I found that it was more like "this is the way it is" rather than "I see your point, but what about this point", much like the religious nutters.
